Hey,dear my cherry boys! Have u ever been to "English cafe" in cities? I've not but want to visit someday. If you've been to,tell me what the place is like?
By the same reason I go anonymous the few times I've started a thread. Who started the thread or adds on the usual set of links shouldn't be relevant, only how well the execution is done. I merely forgot to do so from the start this time -_-;;; Oh well.
You seem confined in the series of the chatting threads. Don't you want to go out out of it and talk about something with not only MAS, Urban Predetor, but other posters? If you read some Japanese, you can talk with them because this is the English board. Some of them feel it difficult to have a chat in English but they can read it. You talk in English, and they talk in Japanese, but you can communicate!
>>21 Well, this is amongst the most interesting threads on this board. The English board is the only one I visit because I don't really know any Japanese yet (only a few words doesn't count), in addition to that, to me it seems a bit rude to stumble into a random board and start speaking in a foreign language.
It's slightly unfortunate that I can't visit any other boards, at the same time as that helps keeping the amount of time I spend on 2ch down. Not that I wouldn't have to keep that time down anyway, since I have things I need to do. Until further, I'd rather spend most of my time on a single board than spreading the time out over a large amount of boards.
Besides, there isn't just MAS and UP here, there are also nameless regulars and many nameless visitors and named visitors.
>>18 You're right. But the happiness, or rather, happinesses they sell don't amount to what they are supposed to add up to, but instead leave us feeling somewhat empty.
Conversely, women love guys who are unduly obsessed with women's body because those kinds of guys are susceptible to be taken advantage of.
That's the origin of their power. Plus, let's face it, they are way cleverer than most of you horny bastards. Learn to control your carnal desire and let them drool.
Hey dudes! How are you? I am a NEET, but I have a dream to marry Aoi Miyazaki. According to her past statement about her farvorite type, she asks for a man who is manhood. I think I am just the person.
>>51 Who the hell wrote the article without my permission? Just as I had feared, the editor made a fatal mistake. I ought to correct it. The capital city of Japan has been Osaka since the Great Cultural Revolution in 575.
Last night I watched the first 2 episodes of densha otoko. I think it's quite entertaining. Could anyone point me towards the original messages? Are they still online somewhere?
do you know this old song? i think many of you like it Words like violence Break the silence Come crashing in Into my little world Painful to me Pierce right through me Can’t you understand Oh my little girl
All I ever wanted All I ever needed Is here in my arms Words are very unnecessary They can only do harm
Vows are spoken To be broken Feelings are intense Words are trivial Pleasures remain So does the pain Words are meaningless And forgettable
All I ever wanted All I ever needed Is here in my arms Words are very unnecessary They can only do harm
How are British TV soaps like EastEnders and Coronation Street seen in Japan? Are they popular? I suppose they would be good practice for advanced English learners.
>>60 Hah, Depeche Mode. Lovely song. The music video is interesting. Not awesome, but interesting and fits the song rather well.
>>56 Heh.. I saw that page some year or more ago.. Still funny :-D
>>57 Densha Otoko is rather fun, though Densha cries all the bleeping time. Good stuff nevertheless, and the other posters at that board are heaps of fun. Make sure to see the extra episode 12 too :-)
What kind of endeavor do you think I need to marry Ema Watson, she's a British film star, gettin over age gap of 21 years between she and me. But She doesn't completely know me at all.
I wouldn't waste my time dreaming of marrying film stars. You should try to find a normal woman to marry. And you should avoid the W word because it makes you sound uneducated.
A normal woman can't pay off my longlasting tragedy, sir. I have been suffering inferno torture of no girlfrienf for full 36 years. And I am forced to job at slave warehouse.
I'm not laughing at you. Giving advice on how to marry a British film star is, in my opinion, a waste of time. Even talking about film stars is a waste of time. Your English is better than most people here, can't you get a job where you can use that skill? Anyway, I gotta go. See you tomorrow.
Listening to music is better way for me to relax well. How about you? You are relaxing to imagine yukorin while shaking your short cock with you right hand.
>>62 Afaia, they are not known well in Japan. Only those who have been to Britain know what those soaps are like. US shows like Friends, Ally McBeal or ER became very popular here.
try "miserable failure" or just "miserable" and it takes you to the Biography of President George W. Bush. How cool is Google? For "failure" I get Michael Moore's homepage
We are NEETs, but on the other hand Gidzilla Matsui is a professional major leaguer, The gaps of yearly salary, fame, popularity and respect are much further,
Her beauty is more shining more than the Sun. She said to the public at the ceremony,' I pledge I love Italy forever.' Her routine is drinking an Italy wine per week,having Italian dinne per mpnth.
well, its difficult to say... I think the best thing is to have experience a lot. If i could control myself and understand things that i cant yet, i perhaps can be really good to others.
Hello I am waseda student! I saw depeche mode lyrics and want to ask about it was depeche mode popular amongs gays? I heard so! maybe because that guy in depeche mode write sensitivity lyrics like "enjoy the silence" about hurt of love which is very appeal to gays because gay love is rare and very precious
>>132 Depeche Mode being popular amongst homosexual men because of sensitive lyrics that are similar to gay love, where gay love auto-equals rarity and preciousness? Heh.. That way of regarding homosexual love is rather similar to the way many shonen-ai/BL/yaoi fangirls think of it.
I think Depeche Mode more of is more popular with people who like that music genre rather than homosexual people who'd be interested in sensitive lyrics.
Homosexual love isn't more pure than heterosexual love, and vice versa. Both homosexual and heterosexual love can be very precious and special, and both can be very common and everyday. Depends on the relationship. But it's common for people who see the majority of the relationship interactions in society to be of a more forced, tedious, or impure nature to think of homosexual relationships as the only ones where people can show their real emotions of love. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.
>>140 I mean, that it's quite hard to find any love if you're gay. 99% of people are not gay most of the time it's just mindless sex or something like that...
for someone interested with gay people i had gay teacher when i was studying Australia he was one of best teacher i ve met in my life. they say gay people are quite nice but not lesbian sorry i cant tell i dont have lesbian friends
Hee! It's snowing for the first time this winter! A lot too O.O;; I wonder if this'll stay for a few days or melt away today. Hmm.. Nope. It's melting as soon as it hits the ground. Oh well. Still pretty.
>>141 Hmm? Actually, not 99%. The figure i've heard was that one out of every 10th guy was gay.
wikipedia ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality#Incidence ) says: "Recent estimates on the number of homosexuals (does not include bisexuals) in Western countries, where egalitarian relationships predominate, range from 1% to 10%, confined to a self-identified subculture."
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_sexual_orientation "In general, surveys quoted by anti-gay activists tend to show figures nearer 1%, while surveys quoted by gay activists tend to show figures nearer 10%, with a mean of 4-5% figure most often cited in mainstream media reports."
Hmm. Okay But yess. In addition to those homosexual people, you also need to remember that there are bisexual people as well, so that ups the number the homosexual people can romantically interact with a bit.
If we talk about percentually, rather than direct quantities, i don't know if fewer gay people find love. Sadly, considering the trends today in many countries, it seems that dating of any gender/sexuality is mostly mindless sex.
Percentually, I don't think it's that very much of a difference. But that's just my impression about the situation in Europe/USA. I have no idea if it's more difficult or not for homosexual people to find love in other geographical areas than the ones I'm used to.
>>150 I've been told that it's not the japanese word "say", but that it's an exclamation some male shrine-bearers (sei? I don't know how that would be written in romanji) use while carring the shrine.. No idea if that is true, but it doesn't seem unlikely. Can someone please provide us with more correct information?
>>153 Eh? That's not a joke. Jokes are supposed to be humorous.
>>192-196 Ah, interesting. I'll pass the information on to my sisters. They quite like drama series, they watch an episode or two a week. Heh. I remember when we were younger and used to follow adventure/drama series for teens on TV. I haven't watched much tv at all the past five years, while as my sisters still do.
>>200 Get braver, then. Lack of bravery doesn't make you a female. I know plenty of verybrave females. But remember, doing stupid things on impulse isn't bravery. Being brave means doing things you need to in difficult situations in spite of the hardships. It's easier to be brave when you have a reason to be brave. Find something worth fighting for?
>>201 Hm? I'm assuming you're talking about my boyfriend. I first encountered him on a forum somewhere around the year 2001-2002. Didn't really talk specifically with him. I didn't visit the forum that often and it was mostly generic talking with anyone there. Then at the end of 2003 i met my at-the-time boyfriend thanks to my (now) boyfriend, and since he was a friend of his i got to properly talk with him more often and in private rather than on a forum. We got along great as friends from the start but though I found him attractive I already had a boyfriend i had feelings for at that time, and i assumed i wasn't his type. So we just got closer and closer as good friends. My at-the-time boyfriend got together with another girl, and my boyfriend had been my best friend for quite a while. My boyfriend visited me in real life as a friend for 10 days in april, we hung out, and started behaving in a bit mushy way about eachother (i'll spare you poor people from the sugary details) and five days after he had gone back home, we realized that we liked eachother more than just friends. We liked each other a lot more than just friends, and we got together. Amusingly enough he'd had a crush on me since winter, but was so terrified it'd get between our friendship that he managed to not let on.
>>226 Abortion is the _last_ resort. People need to be aware of that they need to make sure they don't have to wind up in that situation. It very much isn't a good situation. Abortions aren't healthy, and should be avoided if possible. But there are situations where I can understand it being necessary.
For instance if the mother's health will be seriously compromized if she carries through. Or sometimes when a rape-victim has become pregnant, depends on the case. And so on.
I have no black-and-white view on this topic.
People need to make sure to have safe sex, and not be irresponsible. Either refrain from sex or have protected sex. If one did have safe sex, but that level of safety wasn't enough and one is aware of it there are those pills to be taken the day after the slip-up. They work mostly, but not always. If the girl indeed has become pregnant even after all the safety measures, abortion may be considered. However, that with the outmost severity. Preferably with professional counselling. I can't stress it enough, it's not a casual decision. However it is a decision that should be possible to be made.
I can't get involved with you anymore, K-tan. We have to split up. Never share enjoyment with each other. I have something to finish up on my own. I want to keep you safe.
>>242 ... Eh? People need to stop having relationships with me behind my back :-p
Alright. I'll play along: "Oh no! How could you do this to me? I cannot live without you, whoever you are and whatever your name is.. Can you not see that we were meant to be and that I was merely being with my boyfriend because he's nothing like you, a complete stranger, and that i could not bear the pain of constantly getting reminded of you, whom I've never met! T___T I need you, surely we can patch things up? Right? There's no way I can be more safe alone than by your side... Don't leave me, Anonymous.."
Hmm.. Lack of sleep makes my humour a bit too silly.
Hey, guys. I would like to ask you what you think of the following sentence I've found on another thread. Do you thik this is well-written? Comments from native English speakers are most welcome.
274 名前: 名無しさん@社会人 投稿日: 2005/11/25(金) 08:24:59 How about writing? Did you write any social texts? If so, you can easily find good topics or sample.
What distinguishes Sociology papers from the papers you might write in other fields? Perhaps the biggest challenge lies in identifying evidence and decoding arguments that result from research on the structure of human society.
Unlike biologists, who might look for the answer to the human condition in our DNA, or historians, who might look for answers in events and texts from our past, sociologists look for answers in the way humans interact. Say, for example, that you are interested in learning why so many college women have eating disorders. If you are a biologist, you might look for the answer in brain chemistry, or in an "anorexic gene." If you are an historian, you might examine trends in body image that have evolved over the last century. However, if you are a sociologist, you'll want to observe and chronicle the behavior of women with eating disorders. You'll want to survey them. You'll want to understand their behavior in the context of the society in which they live.
Your arguments will take shape after you examine the evidence at your disposal and see if the explanations for behavior meet the standards of the discipline.
hello I am 19 years old! waseda student! I think I found my true love !!! but we're really different persons, being with her is fun but talk more deeply is not fun at all! conclusion: love is over haha I am such cold person.
do you want to play an interesting game called CROSSWISE? go to http://www.spogg.com/ and click the play now on CROSSWISE!! it is really good ! you should try and build your vocaburaly while haveing fun!
Can anyone recommend some good Japanese dramas to me? I'm enjoying Densha Otoko at the moment. What else is worth watching? I've read Gokusen season 1 is good.
easy! first you need to download bit torrent programm. for example ABC than you need to find torrent tracked with torrents. and than download! good tracker is pirate bay
>>309 you're IDIOT if you dont understand it. not everybody is happy in this world knowing from the early age what they wants from life. some people are lost in this life. you should understand it.
Shut up! you are the worst idiots I have ever seen! Yoiu can be only alive in the ridiculous imagination of Yukorin or Shizu-chan. oh what a grossest idea...
I am listening to the CD called "Disco Nouveau"fuck! I am so happy! I am dreaming about being in manhattan with all those cool hipsters dancing in disco clubs! fuck fuck fuck I wish I was new yorker! new yorker this sound proud!
Aerosmith is my most farvorite musician. Steeven is a good singer. If I were him, I would sing in front of Aoi Miyazaki to make her love for me dependently. sorry for my usual stupid sentiment
>>327 our attitude against the others is always taking on something insane. that makes them anger. it's usual trend on this thread, I hate that atmosphere
oh shit! I readed defintion at urban dictionary!! I AM EUROTRASH!!! but I am not even from europe! for example I like expensive cloth! damn, I should spend less on my cloth!
>>381 one of my acquaintance is pretty rich and yet he is NEET. In fact, his father is a doctor and he get plenty of allowance. I have to say your thesis does not make much sense.
you're total loser if you have a job and can't stop from wasting of time. I know it, because I am careless student, but youre worker you should be more hard on yourself!
for what do you study english? you seodom speak even japanese in your life and you dont have to use english, stayin only in your small room. or are you jobless, in spite of having university degree?
i have no problem, excepting my skill to get along with other ppl. and im happy enough to stay in my room, accessing to the internet all day long. unhappy? by no means, im happy.
In creeasing neet lives are a serious spocial problem. Japan has to have a hard time to maintain its copetitiveness while looking after them. They have to be got rid of. Why not?
japan is like sweden... most of people living good, some of them are bored to dead and little procent of people are poor. it's really sucks to be poor when everybody around you is doing good
I think people who attended to NEET MARCH in shinjuku in february was brave. they did not afraid of show their losers! yeah, they losers but hey! they know it so they can work on it! while you fooling yourself
i never agree to it. such an organization is encouraging very descrimination on so called neet ppl. soiety shouldnt be interested in them much, only leaveing them alone is the best.
my favorite word is "perseverance" and "consequence." not that i like the meaning of these words, i just love the way they sound. they sound really cool. what about you guys?
only separating words against neet peope come out., as if they are infavour of neet peple. it is strange that no one indicates their descriminating eyes are never criticised. imagine that there is no neet guy who trys to shift its responsibility to the society. ordinary people should know that they are annoying neet people with their senseless kindness. basedon descrimination.
let's not make these neets so special. they are just spoiled children. due to their swollen egoism, then can't fit in reality any more. so they have no choice other than withdrawing into their own petty world.
i listened to a very interesting news on a radio over seas.
two boys at age 17 visited the house in a mansion of their girl friend in her 15 years, while her parents was away. while they were in a room. her parents came back. the two boys were surprised and they moved to the balcony. and they tried to escape, though it was in upper part of the building, they seems to have tried to use bed seats to escape and one falled to dath after transfered to a hospital, another survive.
he lost his only one life to love. i decid to admire him.
the most exciting news i have seen in past month was about the beautiful female teacher who had sex with her student and got turned in for sexual abuse. i'm telling you, that teacher really turned me on!
while a lot of people are sufferin from neet ppl. more and more ppl are becoming to be neet. this reality means immidiately that most of ppl have a desire to get a neet life. mah, no one cant criticize neet people. thats all. lol
mr fujimori, who is former peruvian president, was arrested by polce in chile, on his way to peru. before his arrival from japan, he lived in japan with nothing to do for about 5 years. so to speak he was a neet in japan, and still neet in jail. neet life is like in paradise. we should know it. lol
I love my coat! it's cost 600$ it's great great great! when I look at myself in that coat I am really happy! I am a guy! I also have great scarf which suits me greatly! the coat is by well known designer. it's great! I looked how buttons on coat looks older on purpose! amazing!
when warehouse boy was little he was bullied in school when he was young he was bullied at college now he bullied at the work! when he comes home to login to this thread we bully him!!! all his life is just collection of misery
accessing to the internet 24 hours a day is similar to life in prison. but you may have no problem even in jail for a long time if you can use pc there. in addition you dont have to worry about your food.
Is there hope for 20+ y/o virgins? Outside of my job I have no social life, and when cute females at my job have to talk to me I act very nervous and awkward. When I come home I feel depressed for being such a loser. I never think about taking my life or making crime, maybe because I'm a coward, maybe because I don't like hurting people, and my suicide would make my family sad. Please tell me there is hope for a guy like me.
>>595 one answer for u. absorb yourself in the world of anime and game!! you have allway a female in anime heroine. there is a place for you on earth. it is called akihabara
On the day of Christmas, I'm quite free and have nothing to do. but I order a small cake. I will spend a sweet day with the poster of Aoi Miyazaki on 24th December.
>>595 Yes, there is hope. Plenty of hope. Don't worry. A lot of people feel alone in life, especially in today's modern societies. Why do you feel nervous when women speak with you?
Hm. I'm gonna go try falling back asleep. I have to be up in two hours. (T_T) Good morning/good night, all.
god that is disgusting!! what is the point of pulling your baby outof you, why not let people help you? i think some people are just bored. and who would have a baby now? with war and crime, the future is looks bleak.
Let's not forget that this forum is for Japanese to study English. This thread is for skilled English students to chat in the language. It's not supposed to be a source of topics and discussion. Foreigners are invading here. I think there should be a forum for foreigners and Japanese to have dialogue.
>>644 Chatting with foreigners is a good way to improve your English. If someone made a special thread for Japanese to talk with foreigners it would attract masses of trolls and wouldn't work, I think.
>>665 If you are talking to me, it's still only 10am here. I'm at work with nothing to do apart from browse the internet. Isn't my job great? Soon I'll head over to the JPN - ENG thread to do some translations. I watched Densha Otoko ep 7 last night. How funny is Densha? He makes me laugh so much.
>>681 I don't like to form my impression of people from what I see in the media because most of it is complete rubbish and lies. I don't know her personally so I have no opinion of her. However, I am very anti royal. I can't understand how they can live their luxurious lives as millions of children die of hunger each year. I don't think humans will progress, or even survive, unless we make some major changes, one of them being getting rid of classes, royals and ridiculous traditions.
be good to Chat in English (英語で雑談) Chat in English (英語で雑談) has always been kind and warm to everyone even the lowest form of human like NEET, lolita complex man, warehouse worker have been welcomed by Chat in English (英語で雑談) but dont take Chat in English (英語で雑談)'s as weakness Chat in English (英語で雑談) will kick your face and make you regret your life
>>725 I'm a native speaker. What kind of criticism are you looking for? I can only say that you at some points it feels like you are talking too fast, and it's hard to make out your words because of your accent.When you said "Please call Stella," it sounded like "Breeze coast della." I'm not a teacher so I can't say what you're doing right or wrong.
you should study English way harder in order to pretend to be a native speaker. you are definitely just a Japanese underdog. just cut the bullshit out, ok?
>>725 you are amazing. you will improve your English pretty easily with that kind of . .ardor / ardour // eagerness // empressement // enthusiasm // fire // fire in one's belly // get-up-and-go // heartiness // involvement // lead in one's pencil // lust // pizzazz // zeal // zest // zing. I envy you.
I have created new threads, and I have not included links to the offsite logs. However, I have never done both simultaneously except for the first time I created a thread here.
I did not start part 36. The AA in >>1 is definitely not the kind I would ever choose, even. However 36 was lacking the logs so I added the onsite logs, figuring that other people would have time to add the other ones.
My defense is, that it is everyones responsibility to make sure that all backlogs are linked to, offsite and onsite. If someone sees that this thread is lacking, they should help when they can. I helped a bit, i just didn't do the work >>1 neglected to do.
I am poser! I can't really be myself! sometimes it's hurts to wear mask!! help me! it's because I have troubled past! Now I am the sky is bright, but I have to hide my past! it's not pleasant
you are idiots! you dont understand my problem! I am the fake!!! even if I am beautiful girls will throw me away when they come to know me more closer! I am in panic!!! NO!!
no! I like girls!!! I can love them! I can't love boys! I am absolutely not shy or anything! I dont have any troubles! expect being with girl is strange to me! I can talk freely with them but something is wrong
>>858 it's seems that I can have deep relationship with them! I am very beautiful! I always have enough attention from girls! and it's happened that I dont need simply attention/fuck etc I want to have relationships! but with girls who are not simple (like I am) I have troubles!!!
>>862 it really depends on what you like. you don't probably need to be in any deep relationship right now. that's my feeling. coz when you see someone you really love, you get this sense of urgency and the need for a deep relationship crap. then you know, that you're in love and you've got to do something about it. until then, just enjoy the fine company of girls.
>>866 I have that feeling. but I also have not only heart but cold mind! and the most important I am rather proud of myself, so I dont want to be hurted... I know it's sounds pathetic...
>>867 haha... i have the mind of reptiles. so there, you are not alone. and i'm also very proud. lol but at the end of the day, if you're afraid of getting hurt, you go nowhere. one needs to start from somewhere. the best thing is just to stay casual and don't make yourself look all serious. you may also want to learn how to talk to girls in the way that makes them think you're someone they can trust.
>>869 I can talk to any girl without any troubles! "makes them think you're someone they can trust. " that's the problem!!! I can do it easily! damn even VERY easily but girls I met are not stupid !!! they are also proud etc etc so If we comes to have more deep relationship they will know my true ID. seriosly I am like stupid princess who only have her beauty and nothing more! but I am a guy! I can't be like a girl! of course I am talented etc, but my talents are still under development. I am 18.
>>870 that means three things: 1) the girls you are interested in are not interested in you at all or in a deep relationship. 2) you might sound insincere to them. you said you don't have talking to them, but i have to say you are not that good at the art of talking to girls. if just for a quick shag, it's easy. just ask for one. if for a more long lasting relationship, you need to master how to appear sincere, to make them think that they can see through you and think you're an honest man. of course, in reality, you don't need to be all that honest, but words you utter need to be. 3) the girls you are interested in are all immature. haha... what do you think your real problem is?
>>874 I can feel that they are intersted in me. really. I am not naive(i think), i can read girls mind.why do I think they are interested in me? because it's THEY who wants to know me more deeply. it's they who ask questions about me ,not me. I ask questions too, but that questions are not about personality. my attitude is "mind your own business" to everything. I stay pretty cold..
you know why you have problems? you are spoiled by democratic society. there is a cause you must serve, and that cause is communism. its time for a revolution now.
its good you understand. always support the Communist Party. once democracy is destroyed people will live better lives, they will work hard, and serve the party.
>>878 so they do talk to you (and at least appear interested in you.) and you don't take their baits, yet you ask for a deep relationship with them. hmmm... OK. here is a solution. what is the point of having your "mind your own business" attitude? you might well throw it away. in order to have a good relationship, i think you have to know the person you're dealing with. if they don't know you (coz, you don't let them know what kind of a man you are), then it's natural that no girls, whether they are interested in you at first or not, are interested in you in terms of the deep relationship you're thinking about. you've got to open up a bit, man!
>>886 no you misundestood me. when we together we have conversations everytime we together! it's not even a problem. but then, girl want to know ME more. and here's a trouble. why do I keep "mind your.." because at the moment I just can't act differently I am very spoiled child.. I need some time to grow up
>>889 well... i thought i understood you. but maybe not. you see, it is natural for anyone to ask a lot about someone he/she's interested in. it appeared to me from your previous posts that you don't give not much of what they ask for. i mean, something that shows your personality, character and stuff.
by the way, what is your idea of a "deep relationship", may i ask?
but I also want to add, even if I dont ask a girl about her personality I asked her to go with her one time! she enjoed it. I guess it's showed that I interested in her! but here's another trouble!! I did not even wanted to show that! it was random decision! I guess I am that type with whom girls wanted to stay just a friends fuck! that not really cool!
>>893 at the end of the day, the question lies in you. did you enjoy her company? she maybe did, but how about you? i do some random asking out without much thinking. not all of that ends up in bed... if the girl you are talking about was happy coz she thought you were taking her out for a shag, then what can i say? it's none of your business at the end. how she feels is something she has to deal with. you don't have to be kind to guess what the girl's true intention was.
>>896 correction: I dont know if she likes me, even if she likes me she can stop liking because she is really clever, talented girl, so she dont seek for an average guy! (I am not seeking for an average girl too) maybe she just enjoed it but she can stop it anytime she wants.. who knows.. lol
>>894 you're not a boy. you're a man now... i think you just have to think about what you really want in girls. you tell female friends of yours about you idea of a good relationship. and you'd be sorted! this is kind of what i do to girls. i tell them, if i'm not interested in them sexually, i tell them straight (of course with some euphemisms), that i am not interested in them in that way. you might have to clarify yourself a bit.
>>900 if you really want to her to be your lasting partner. you just have to know her well and vice versa. the only way you can do this at the moment appears to be with her all the time chatting away about random thins and also about yourself, how you think and what you think about. then the other end gets a fairly clear idea if she really wants you or not. the same applies to you. as you talk more and go out more with this girl, you can get rid of "illusion of her" from your head and introduce more of "real her". this would help you to decide of the girl is right for you or not. i had this problem as well. i used to like this girl, and more i went out with her, i realised that i was not right for her. if going out with her, and shagging helps clarify your vision, then you can't discard this options...
To me what makes it even more impressive is the fact that 日本語 is a totaly different lingusticaly from english, going from a language that comes from latin to one that it shares nothing in common with is very cool.
(-_-;) 僕わ悪い日本語分かる <-(i hope that isn't to horrible)
it's beautiful all right... but living here is different from just visting for a few days. i had been in london for 8 years before i moved here. and dublin is too small for me...