Chat in Engish (オバさん専用) Part1

this thread is specifically for the middle-aged woman who loves to talk about her relationship story.

Oops I misspelled the thread title lol

should i ever need to say thanx?
it seems like i was just dropped here like 島流し

You are very welcome :)
Now you can talk about your story as much as you want here!

You really are a gender segregated nation after all.
I thought it was the Arabs who do that.

Well she deserves this because she destroyed the original chat thread. Just look at that! You'll know why

Are you a closet gay or something? You cannot stand women like

>>You cannot stand women like??????

Like what?

ending a sentence with "like" is Geordie-speak

Whatever

I was reading through blind date thread for men but they are all complaining
about they never had a chance to get married with beautiful women
They weren`t that attractive to those women
Pretty women really dont like guys who are too pushing because they are always treated like that
and they`re quite bored. lol

It`s funny to see that natural born pretty women tend to choose someone with really nice personality
instead of his conditions. I asked them why and they all replied b/c those guys seemed to have no interest
about her and it was pretty shocking.
Those guys seemed to have no interest about them but actually they already gave up at the first sight,
thinking that they`ll never have a chance. So modest.
But look at guys screaming girl`s appearance...they are damn ugly

Tell me what celeb you look like.

I guess she looks like a mitsuura yasuko!
Actually she is not that ugly

True.
She's kinda cute when I'm drunk.

I dont even look like her

I have received two offers for my next job and I have no interested at all
of what I used to do for living
It`s my first time in career that I can`t even pick up the phone b/c
Im so sick to hear about the job info
Did I really collapse? Or am I starting my new life from now on

I used to have these dreams, which really sounds stupid so I hid them
and never tried to express them and I totally forgot
My parents were always very good about making me say whatever they want to hear,
instead of hearing what I want to say.
I had repressed my feelings all the times and I even thought that expressing myself
would end up making my parents get annoyed or confused
But I always knew that something wasn`t right b/c I really had hard time loving others

I had been reading books day after day trying to find missing puzzle or
missing words which I really need them to live.
It was very shocking to face the reality. Maybe my parents mistreated me
and maybe I should have had much more better life than this.
At first my parents never admit about their mistakes so I left the house
The conversation was totally a disaster, when it gets deeper, they tried to
defend themselves but hardly ever imagined what I`d been carrying for years, alone

I wanted their attention so bad. What I did was to make them satisfy,
killing what I really wanted to do. Never expressed them b/c they felt
it stupid and worthless. I was only a child, and I was not allowed to
talk about my dream. They say something like, " you can eat with that"
to a very young girl. Sometimes, when I`m alone, I have imagined many things,
other times, I just studied really hard, morning to midnight. The time where
I talk to myself was the only pleasure I had and I felt secure as long as
other don`t know about it

It took a quite a time for me to finally understand that my parents are
also imperfect being, like me. We all have different characters, even if
I am their child, Myself belong to me. Somehow, they were not mature enough to
understand that one`s life don`t belong to them and there are a lot of people
with different characters. I had many difficulties but I am so glad that I had
my family, who made me learn many things seriously. There were full of love,
which I received from them but eventhough they`re my parents, there`s a limit

I think it is so absurd to think that one knows everything like God.
I prefer to think that we all do have limit for every single thing we do
In that way, you have less chance hurting others with unconcious brutal act
If we are a perfect human, then there is exactly no need to meet other people and get influenced
Sometimes, I think God is very sad because he is so alone, for being perfect
Isn`t that why he made man and woman? I always wondered why he made Eve

Because Adam complained to him, saying," Father,I hate to say this but I'm sick and tired of doing fap fap fap wth my right hand.
You should give me another way."

Be more romantic lol
God will be like, "you fool, but it`s okay, I`ll create something that I call a female"
But what if Adam said, " Father, I hate to say this but she`s not my type "
or like " Father, I want more Eve "
That`s our society is like today...(^_^;)

It is not like that at all.
First of all there is NO GOD.
But, there are lots of Adams and Eves who are just hormone driven
animals. The fornicate and move on to the next. They are promiscuous
and selfish. Where do you fit in this equation?
It is not your looks or personality. It is your hormones. Your glands
are not on the same energy level as theirs. But that is not the only
obstacle. You have extremely rigid thoughts. Can't do this,
won't do that. That limits your actions severely. These are the
main reasons why you cannot take the next step and fly away. If you
gonna make a change, you have to be flexible. Otherwise you will
stay put like this forever and ever.

I`ll try to be flexible when I start to feel that Im getting narrow-minded
but not now. I really don`t have that energy to do so

I'm home now.
Frankly speaking, I've read a lot of your posts so far and I'm in a state of so- called "jyouga
uturu" to you. I don't know how you say that in Engish.
The only thing I can do is to pray for your happiness. ...from a middle-aged man.

Thanx
It`s not only me who had gone thru these things
Some people I knew suffered so much from materialistic behaviors of
their parents. Those are the parents who really tried to consider about
their children in their own way. Although, for some children, they are all
overwhelmed by too much pain and fear. We rushed things so quickly, and those
were really important for Japan to recover from disaster but killed many emotions
at the same time

Ironically, you are a magnet for stinky ossans like poop with flies over it.
Of course I'm also a stinky ossan.

LOL

Do you know what. That stinky smell helps women to get pregnant
Believe or not, it`s already proved scientifically

When we have sex, women need to feel that she doesn`t want to sex with this person
If you like this man, it`s really hard to get pregnant, somehow
There are a lot of couples who are in love with no baby. Ironic, isn`t it?

It is really interesting to see that some girls get pregnant with a guy
that they only like a little bit. A man has to chase after woman, and
if they have a chance, they should make them pregnant, so girls marry you

For men, not taking bath for 3 days before sex is so important
So he can make his gf pregnant but many are refused to have sex before it happens lol

I see why guys are much more ugly than women hahaha

When the owner of a cat, she tries to mate a cat with well trained cat,
this female cat doesn`t like sophisticated male cat at all
Instead, a female cat chose a stray cat with no training or anything
It is likely to get pregnant that way

Sophisticated men tend to be gay, i guess
Maybe stinky is sign of a stray cat

The man's armpit releases pheromones which is a broadcast sign
of their health and genetics. Then women decide if he is good or not.
It all happens in a *flash~*. the evolutionary
motives behind the decision making is of scientific interest.

I guess a man who knows what he wants in life is more likeley to be
bisexual. Because he has no inhibitions for plesure, he learns faster and
he is more sophisticated than the stright men. What do you think.

GOD HATES FAGS

>>34
Let`s say that stinky ones are always ready to make women pregnant lol

>>35
I never seen bi in my life so I can not say anything but when I
read through threads and honestly, it was disgusting!
I was like what!? omg,omg,omg...
and imagining that penis also stick into myself...it must be a great exploration

The gays are okay, they can do whatever they want to do with their lives but
bi is very scary to me. I dont like poops or some other hole which is not a normal hole
That thing stays virgin until I die, I swear.

Wow so many bigots here

If your man is a receiver in his gay relationship?
What does that have to do with you? You won't notice anything right?

>>40
There are 2 things Im worried about bi

disease
obsession to a certain hole

If he is the receiving end with his male partner and he is in a straight
relationship with you, you only have the disease to worry about.
Am I wrong?

>>42
Good morning
I don`t know about bi. People really dont need to think about bi,
because I think that there are only few of them. Maybe we should
be careful more for gay. They can marry a woman w/o letting the partner
know about it.

>>42
Im not so strict about men`s adultry but these days there are a lot of risks,
including HIV. Unlike other countries, Japanese HIV is rising like developing countries
Making family is having children so we have got to be responsible for that but
maybe bi`s curiosity makes me very scared. I`d never been raised without adults or parents
I think some people really have this very strong, unstoppable nature. I don`t want to get involved with that thing

It is so much better to work outside
I got so fatigued by divorce and other things but I`m recovering
It is so nice to have my own thread that some fagot gave to me lol
Today I saw a dream that my grandfather was just there watching me from behind and
he did say nothing but he waved his hand and tell me to go on
He was smiling like he always used to smile at me

I was passing this very icy hallway and I grab a door so I don`t fall but I cut myself
so deep that I could see thru my bone and it was bleeding so much. I cried and I woke up
I bought this book about meaning of a dream. It said that bleeding is
a good dream that I`m willing to start a new thing

It could be PMS.

I think that dreams consist of a variety of experiences you've gone through so far.
And then those things mix with your worries and anxiety.
So they have nothing to do with fortune telling.

>>48
Some people say it`s stupid to believe fortune telling but
not always but sometimes it helps me to go forward
I have so much fun dreaming about many things
Since I got divorced, I`d seen many deads in the dreams I see
I swim together with my pets, they`re all passed away, they were
having so much fun and so healthy. My grandpa and my pets, they never
talked but showed many emotions, just looking at me. I miss them so much(;_;)

I read the traditional Japanese stories and I really liked Susanoo.
Did you know that Amaterasu was once a hikki!? She was deeply hurt
because she trusted her own brother, Susanoo, but his action betrayed
her so she became hikki.
By the way, Susanoo, is a very simple minded and he easily gets his temper,
no one accepted his behavior, except his older sister, Amaterasu.
Although, he finally found the place to live, where his personality fits, and where
everybody wishing for a man like Susanoo, in Izumo by annihilating a monster, which eats human

He got this beautiful wife and had very clever daughter, a princess Suseri,
a very beautiful and having a personality like his older sister, Amaterasu.
She then met Ohnamuchi, the very yougest among gods. In the ancient, they were
really funny that it seems when people fall in love, they just got married.

She took Ohnamuchi to introduce to her father, Susanoo.
Susanoo never liked his son in law because unlike Susanoo, he was soft and sophisticated
Also he was liked by women, unlike Susanoo, also taking away his daughter probably
made Susanoo really mad. And so, he asked Ohnamuchi to do him a favor, which are so mean and cruel
But everytime, a Princess Sumeri helped him out. Stories go on blah blah blah...

At the very end these couples planned and runaway together and Susanoo finally accepts his defeat
He screams outloud, it`s the way he celebrate their marriage. His expression is always wild
Susanoo is kind of alcoholic and he loves talking about his victory in the past, like elderly do sometimes lol

I hate someone who pushes one`s opinion to others, not aware of
it`s only their own OPINION. I`d been brainwashed by so many things,
such as religion, family problem, and others things.
I don`t feel lost when someone only know that it`s their own opinion but
they push them thru. I get so upset and confused when one tells me,
" that`s what others do "
I really liked a word, " mind your own business "
" what`s the matter with your life! don`t you got nothing to do but worry about my thing?"
I hope I can say this is Japan!

Quite impossible...
Especially, I used to be in a rural, a very country-side in Japan
with my ex-husband. This BBA, they`d always asked me where Im going
everytime I went out. When I was in the house, watching TV, BBA
came into my house w/o my approval...She was just inside my house...
I have not much thing to say about this...It`s just that i couldn`t
believe my eyes!

BBA stands for Bachelor of Business Administration

>>56
lol good work there

I hardly can not believe what student of Kobe University done in USJ
In my hometown, a national university is something really meaningful
I understand there will be couple of students who fail but
what he had done is something which is very very very ugly
What he did was something so disgraceful and I was really disgusted
to hear the news. I really hope University threw him out from school
when they`re ready and show some respect to a place where people learn things
for future

>>55
Did you get caught jilling off?

>>59
you sick minded asshole.
It was summer so I let my windows open, with curtain closed.
I was wearing only petticoat. No one ever imagine someone entering the house
from the window without saying nothing
I was really suprised. Just like seeing a ghost

can you ever imagine someone standing there in your bedroom?
when you open the door, she was just standing there!
Since that incident I always had to put on air conditioner on all the time
Eventhough I dont like air conditioner

I ate bamboo shoot

This thread is getting more and more exciting
Carry on please.

>>56 Hilarious!
So what really is a BBA, motherin law? grandma in law?
Why was she following you?
Why the air conditioner oh you confused me terribly.

Even a heroine in a suspense drama "Kasasu" may be surprised by the situation.
Generally, the plot to this type of story goes as follow
The BBA had grudge agaist the heroine for some reason, which is gradually revealed as the drama goes on, and she
decided to take revenge on the heroine.
As the first step, the BBA had to discover her whereabouts and approach her.

to be continued....

>>62
I love bamboo shoot. It`s everywhere in the market and I feel spring has come
>>63
Hello there. I think a place I used to live with my ex was so and very country-side
People were so obssessed about their neighbors, especially neighbors who are not one of them
I used to have a friend, who she also was from outside the town, moving in with her husband
complaining about the same thing. That people are really annoying asking everything about her family
The same thing happened to me also and never ended until the several years past I leave the town

There is no reason for that, I guess. I could not even wear cool dress
over there. Just so plain and simple. So I always put some clothes in
our car and changed in the restroom. They`ll be spreading rumors all over
if I wear something nice. Many men became alone b/c their spouses got neurose
and left the town. Few days ago, I watched tv, and it said that town is suffering
from severe population decrease of young people. Im like ofcourse,
do something with those BBA, young and old. They love stereo type so much
I mean I do that sometimes but that much!
By the way, Bachlor something was not my idea, someone else did!

SORRY correction! but "NOT" that much!

Unlike other countries, we have air conditioner in every room.
It`s very hot and humid in the summer but I prefer automatic fan
than air conditioner. There is something that we call Sudare,
which shuts sunlight but wind will come in and I put on automatic fan
I drink a lot of water and take a bath. But if the temperature raises so much,
I put on the air conditioner on.
Having too much air condtioner is not that healthy. Although, it`s
very comfortable inside. But I don`t usually turn it on 24 hrs a day

we have the air conditioner in each room we need, is much more better to explain
Some rooms we dont have air conditioner, like the rooms that we dont use much

I am addicted to this thread please go on ...

Air conditioning, because it was too hot,
you were in petticoat and this BBA woman comes through the window?
Saying "what are you up to?"?

It is understandable that people who have never left heir home town are very
curious to the point of obsession.
They spy on you because they are exploring THEIR life through yours.

>>69
maybe that`s so true!
they were asking so many questions, even tiny little things lol
i was like omg! just leave me alone
I`ve learned never to say Hi! because they keep on asking you so many questions!
It was just unbelievable!
So when I was watching few young people carefully, many were just nodding
like a pigeon and moving so so quickly while they pass thru some annoying neighbors

Wish I knew that technique before I got caught

「花の色は　うつりにけりな　いたづらに
わが身世にふる　ながめせしまに」
小野小町　古今集

"The colours of the flowers
changed it`s phase, losing the days, as I,
the spoiled luxurious time passed between us two together,
a long spring rain falls,
while I sunk into deep memoir"

Ono Komachi from Kokin-shu

I couldn`t find no translation for this
can somebody help me to translate this
I want to send this to my friend
I love poem so much, especially Komachi

I know it`s something so different. Especially the last phase
Im really confused with vocab and phrases

it`s not memoir...i don`t know how to express this
maybe a sleep will help me to find a good expression
im a neet so I got a plenty of time to think
before I start to worrrrrrrrk

>>73
I'm a native English speaker, poems are difficult for me to understand, so:
If you can post the rough idea of the expression you are looking for, I can try to find the best match.
However, it will not be a true translation. I trust you will find the correct term.

>>74
thank you so much
i was searching thru internet then finally found English translation
though it was not that perfect. It never mentioned about the spring rain

Japan has this beautiful 4 seasons. After the very cold days, we feel
that Spring has arrived, with little moist in the air, there comes warmth of
Spring rain. The spring rain is the vapor and the feeling of their relationships

Japanese poems are more like misty, covered with clouds.
You don`t actually read them, you sense them using your images
It is said that showing itself fully is not Japanese culture
Show only few or some but all the rest if your sense and images
That`s our traditional style
If spring rain is not mentioned then you can`t sense it
That`s what I feel
But it mentioned about the rain, and this poem was inside the
catagory of Spring so maybe it is okay.

Yeah, it can also apply to a girl's panty.
We call it "chirarizum" as a Japanese coined word.
We men are more excited when we catch a glimpse of her panty under skirt than when we
see it directly without any obstacle.
Imagination! What a wonderful power!

Absolutely!
Back then, women was behind a bamboo curtain and men could
only see her shadow or a candle light showing only little thing about her
Every women had their own scent from "Oko" (incense)

Ofcourse, when they had relationships it seemed to be different

I think the passage I've just written is not logically good.
It is better to put the second sentence between the forth and the last.

There were so many scenes, which I really liked from "the Story of Genji"
but I think the scene with fireflies are the best!

Tamakazura was behind a silk curtain, Genji released bunch of fireflies while a suitor saw
her shadow appears as the fireflies blinked around her
It was beginning of the Summer, with heavy moist in the air,
with lots of rain all day. Also the season for beautiful and colorful,
mostly blue, hydrangea

It`s sad. I used to go watch fireflies and hydrangea with my ex-husband in May
I love May

>>79
Anyone?
sorry, I dont know much about grammer

>>81
I talked to myself. It was a monolouge.
So it has nothing to do with you.

I found beautiful temples!
The temples and hydrangea flower match so much

Temples of hydrangea flower in May
www.youtube.com/watch?v=NR0SLLQr6RI

Once I heard there used to be very beautiful temple of
hydrangea flower somewhere in Hyogo but I couldn`t find that place
The lighter the air, the more vivid color of the hydragea flower, I heard

Actually, these flowers will bloom around end of May - June
Depending on where you live

I remember a passage in "Makurano soushi", which was an eassy authored by Sei Shounagon.
It goes as follow; dawn is best in spring, night is best in summer, twilight is best in autumn and
early morning is best in winter.

>>85
She was so splendid
We were forced to memorize some phrases from this book, when we were really young
don`t you remember that?
It`s suprising that I still can say some, without reading
Now, I can`t remember anything...my poor brain...

I ate waravi

>>86
Please don't talk to me.
I've never talked with someone in English, I mean in a spoken language.
so I cannot respond to your post so quickly, whick makes me feel a bit pressure.

I sometimes come here just to practice in writing English.

Waravi contains a cancer-causing agent

I think cancers are similar to humans.
They rebel agaist the harmony of human body's mechanism while humans are, in a sense,
against the order of nature.
For example, They have created new atoms such as..I've forgot what it is called, which have never existed under natural conditions.

>>89
I never knew that

>>90
I am no expert about cancer or anything but I read that Western practice tries to
take away all the cancers, while Eastern practice don`t take them all,
instead they try to fix the original cause of the cancer by taking time
I thought that was so...I read a book such a long time ago and I don`t remember much

My mom had a bad knee, with liquid inside.
She had gone to a hopital so many times, so a doctor take a liquid
out from her knee but it never recovered

Although, one day, our neighbor told us that there are really nice
Kanpo clinic, so then she visited a doctor. It took around half a year but
her knee is never filled with liquid again.
But in Japan, we cannot use insurance for Kanpo, so it`s expensive

And around my neighbor, there is a very famous Kanpo clinic for a diet
So many people succeeded. It spread thru rumors. But I heard it`s
also pretty expensive.

I see lemons everywhere in the store
I really love lemonade

I made lemons sliced and poured honeys into it and put in the refrigerator
for couple days. It really goes well with some alcohol
There is also an alcohol mixed with lemons

Lemon is the best match with steamed chicken with vegetables, I think
Also goes so well with raw salmon, maybe little burned put some lemon
and it taste so good!
I found lemon sauce which goes so well with sliced beef

i like guacamole

>>95
This week I saw that guacamole in Costoco
I didn`t buy it but how do you eat them?
do you dip vegetables? or put it on crackers?

or maybe with white meat of a fish?
or dip it on a toast or sandwich?

guacamole don

http://sumiredou1123.blog69.fc2.com/blog-entry-142.html
http://plaza.rakuten.co.jp/abtea/diary/200701180000/

What do we keep memories? I don`t need no pictures to remember them
I have many memories which are so like trash, but they are so luxurious
My last 10 years, I`d been in love with ex.
Never I understood many music lyrics and novels this much. They came penetrating
into my heart so directly in my life. As if my vains of a soul are tasting
every bit of its spices in desperate thirst and grimming with satisfaction
Alcohol is getting bitter, as I get old, with pain which surrendered myself in a sweet defeat

>>98
omg, they look so delicious!
thanx so much(*^_^*)

I was reading thru threads and it said that yen also have a chance to collapse
I dont know many thing about economy but maybe I should go to country-side,
grandma~s house and raise some vegetables on my own
They also have some jobs there but it is so country-side
I hope grandma returns from Tokyo, so that I dont have to live there alone
That house is way big for me to live alone

Raising your own vegetables and fish from the local market is ideal.
But it is best if you have family and boyfriend/husband to help you.
How about you open a bed and breakfast for tourists?
You can be selective who you let in, even show them aroound and
teach them Japanese? That would preserve your ENglish skills
and allow you to live a traditional and peaceful Japanese lifestyle.

>>102
Hi! Yeah that`s pretty nice idea!
I have a tour guide certificate only domestic tour, though
I have to study more geography and history to get certificate for
tourist from foreign countries

I kind of gave up, studied couple years but something blocks my mind
The words I read goes left to right...never enters my brain
We have to memorize the EXACT YEAR for the history and there are many
tricky questions.

I don`t like tricky questions, I don`t see no meaning for that

I love watching and listening to NHK tv and radio. I don`t watch them
a lot these days but I used to watch " Japanese Tradition" every week,
I bought text books. A teachers were so brilliant, and this Japanese teacher
had really nice way of explaining things and I`d learned so much from him

A domestic tour, they paid me so low, but it was so free trips everywhere
around Japan. I even had a chance to go to see many temples
My parents never let me work until next day, so I could only able to
go to the places nearby, a day tour only

I talked a lot with a bus driver and he had so many informations
and I wrote everything down on my notebook
It was so fun but so much responsibility b/c I have to take a lunch at
highway stop and if I ever make a mistake then it will be a big problem
In Japan, everything needs to be so accurate

I have to take everyone`s lunch at the bus stop...correction pls

Other colleagues were enjoying trips to many places, they leave
records so that we can share informations.
I really enjoyed reading them

It was really funny to hear that this young girl was a single, and her
senior, who was also a single, told her " you know what, dont you ever think
you can meet anyone here, b/c there are bunch of JJI (retired men)"

We laughed so bad. We never thought someone is working to meet somebody lol

Today I found many funny videos
It was so hilarious!

Just going thru thread about revenge, some people were so negative
Maybe they`re really young. The young people needs to express their feelings
or else they`ll just explode, I guess

Many emotions, the good and the bad, lead you to watch more movies and make you read more books
I believe teenagers can handle those emotions because they are so young

Sometimes their youth lead them to make wrong decisions
Especially, the teenage boys tend to make a lot of big mistakes
I got my own nephew so there will be so much discussion with my sis,
when I see her in this Summer

What are Japanese men like in relationships?

>>107
Everyone is different. I only know about 2 guys but they were different
I always chose someone who`s comfortable to be with
My first ex was quiet, a good listener, but he also had nice sense dealing with other people
So he had a lot of good friends
He could deal with many emotions and read other`s mind instantly and gave the word that they wish to hear
I was more like a so so rigid personality and he was really flexible type
Although, he never cheated on me

My ex-husband was more like me, a rigid type. My first ex and my ex-husband had many things in common,
like more traditional and old type, but he had no flexibility. He is more like a researcher type
but he was really kind. He took me to wherever I wanted to go, he kind of enjoyed being pulled around to everywhere
He was pretty childish but really mild. Although, when we quarrel, we are both rigid type
so both of us never yield our own opinion. I was sp pissed and returned my house so many times
He did come pick me up several times and we quarrel again but we still never yield
We are good as a friend but as a partner we`re no good. I hope he`ll find the right one

After my divorce, I thought my first ex was actually very nice guy.
Whenever I became rigid, he is really good at running away or twisting my opinion around to different directions
I notice them later...My ex-husband and I were really alike

I don`t know about other guys but I had dated with several other guys but
they were all mild and nice. I`m so glad that I`m Japanese
They are really honest, so pure, and so straight sometimes...
Not good at expressing their feeling, sometimes it gets really straight and
so I get confused a little but they`ll never hurt you much, I guess

I don`t know about flashy guys because they`re on the other side of my world
but most Japanese guys are timid and mild, but sometimes really passionate,I think

We have a lot of place to date
My both ex loved the game center, I`m not quite into that
so whenever I get bored I`ll just go to the bookstore or
manga-kissa, a place where you can read a lot of many manga,
and read manga until I receive a phone

We enjoyed hot spring too. We carry this porch with shampoo,conditioner,
body soap, and clothings to everywhere b/c in Japan you find hot spring everywhere
Sometimes nearby the sea, mountain, or river. We enjoyed lunch or dinner, with local vegetables
and stops at a local store to buy some foods or drink from that local places

We explored and tried many Sake. We ask shop person an advice and buy them in a local store,
with some local foods that match with that Sake and enjoyed it during weekdays after work

We have fun both inside and outside.
You can spend your time inside with your bf or
there will be a lot of places to go and enjoy 4 seasons.

In the Spring, many make or buy some foods and we have a picnic underneath
cherry blossoms. I brought some tea and wine

You make it sound so attractive to have a Japanese boyfriend.
I too noticed some very special qualities unique to Japanese men.
One thing in common is that that there is this inherent calmness
they have and they are so shy and sweet.

Actually they are not shy nor sweet

What are they then please tell.

What do you want from men? Money? Love? Sex? or Status of wife or what else?
When I was young, I confused love with sex...maybe
Plus, loneliness fueled me to fall in love passionately ,even though I didn't like her so much.

Now I don't know what love is like.

>>115
you might find this blog interesting.
ttp://hitmejust1moretime.tumblr.com/

That's true. Some people have so called "gaijin fetish".

>>116
Money and sex that's all what women need from men

>>118

I think that is even more true with white guys actually... japanese girls will spread their legs for any guy, as long as he's white.
Doesn't matter if they are complete assholes (which they usually are).
These kind of people wouldn't get any attention in their homecountry, yet japanese people happily invite them to their bedroom, just because they are white... it's so pathetic.


I can totally relate to this!!!!
What do you think?

>>121
No. It is not true, not all Japanese are like that
This is my thread and I even don`t like those girls nor people like you
Maybe you`re talking about yourself here but it is really disgusting

>>113
I think the guys which I went out with, they were really fun to be with but
like anywhere else in the world, there are some guys like >>121 or >>120

I don`t get close to guys like that because it`s not really interesting
They are totally virgin in many ways or have severe trauma from the past, I guess
Although, it`s not my business, it`s their own business.
They are severly lame with opposite sex. Most of the times guys like them only talk about
their fortune or degrees or whatever!

I keep on telling them (eventhough, it`s so boring) don`t show-off in front of girls,
but some still does that and it`s quite unbelievable!
So some will be just used. Sad isn`t it?

I see some guys attacking girls in other threads too
Most girls just shut up or leave the thread but they are just so happy to
win win win! So childish
They focus too much on winning and not the conversation.
I thought wow, maybe they never had a date in his life!
Almost all the girls, don`t like guys who don`t make girls win

I think it is our government`s job to do something about them
All the Japanese women are really kind enough to ignore what they say
They must learn how to communicate with others than just attacking women
They have chance in the thread but they won`t try to have a talk

>>122
go easy on others. nobody's perfect

>>125
But she thinks she is perfect

But you see, the guys in these threads are so aggressive
I`ve seen these guys in real life and it was no suprise that
girls stay away from them as far as possible
It was like " an Island with only furious guys "
Their conversation is really unique sometimes I crack out so bad
" women just want money! "
" yeah yeah yeah " and blah blah blah
They never accept other opinions and if someone did write some of his/her
thoughts then they keep on yelling swear words
What kinda Island is that? homo?

She hates men that's all. She is a female chauvinist

Also apparently he hates gay people as well

But I truely understand their feelings. A true virgin is kinda sad
I used to be like that, like a warrior, fighting for imaginary enemies
People usually get normal when they have sex with an opposite sex
I think they just lost their chance to do so
It`s something that we all do, stuck in a maze, with no exit

you say the same thing over and over again

>>131
then don`t read, pass some. terminator

>>131
your eyes like a scanner
mine`s like what? sushi-go-round

Is she really in her 30s?

I hope you guys have a chance to go out with a girl so that
your small world changes dramatically
Just enjoy your time!
Im like in my 30s and I had really nice experiences with my ex
so I have no regret. I live good
I wish I`ll do good with my work too!

I had really nice experiences with my ex
I have no regret.

I have no regret.

I have no regret.

I had really nice experiences with my ex
I have no regret.

I have no regret.

I have no regret.

I have no regret.









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you guys are so strong. Im not that strong

I really enjoyed that we lived in same period of time and shared many emotions each other
Some people might think that it is so natural to find a partner but to me,
I feel like it`s almost as though it`s a complete miracle

Japanese way of saying 一期一会, we only share the moment, we are not eternal being,
it is also same in every relationships. All we can do is to enjoy and to appreciate the moment
that we share together

We both had many problems within ourselves and were seperated but it`s not that bad
as long as we talked them over and over and finally came to conclusion
We never regret about the days that we spent together

Isn`t that how relationships should be? I think

Whatever

Enjoy? Appreciate?
Well, life is not all fun.
According to Buddha, life is bacially agony.
He preached that there are twelve agonies in life, known as 四苦八苦
怨憎会苦(onzoueku) is one of them and that means an agony that you have to meet someone you hate.

I guess western gaijins will never understand the ideas of Buddhism because they think it is a lower religion than Christianity.
They believe they are created by god lol
Pathetic...

Hang on. You are being over the top with that generealisation.
Most gaijins do not have beliefs. Most of Northern Europe are especially
less religious than you think.Those who believe in a religious hierarchy
are the ignorant types. They have this ignorance of the world
which is incurable in their life time.

Please could you tell me about the onzoeku ?

When I look at traditional couples, who stay together despite severe
difficulties, I think that is how a marriage should be. Because of conditioning.
But it seems life doesn't work like that. Women live longer and reproduction
stops midlife. That is a big change in life. It seems that has an
impact on the role of women and how they are valued (or not). Society view is like that.
Your life quality, the amount of love you receive seems indexed to
how reproductivefuly useful and available a woman is. For some reason, life
is not based on a woamn and her children. A man has to wait on them.
I think after a while the man simply becomes impatient and leaves
or cheats. Some men have paternal feelings, most don't. I watch
male blackbirds carry food to their offspring. They are incredibly proud. It is
instinct. I am not sure if male humans are in touch with their instincts and
if they have the same paternal wiring. This make srelationships very complicated.
(1) We don't know how instincts are wired (2)We don't know what is instinct
and what is social conditioning.
So we should, in reality expect anything from a relationship. It is a gamble.

>>116 You are asking a very hard question. You made me think about it
since yesterday. You know what, I don't know. I don't know what I want.
As caregiver-san says, relationships are for a brief moment in life.
Men seem to have a polyamourous mission to fulfill. So how can we
expect them to give their attention to us only, for life?
That is so unrealistic. We mustn't take men
too seriously and nor trust them. If women are birth machines,
men are first things first, donors of quality DNA.
The rest is complete unknown.

Why do women need to give birth?

Not all do, but when they do, it is because they need to make something
of their own.

I've been curious. Where are you from kamegril? The US? Europe?

I am just an alien from outer space.
What is the impression I give you? From what you know so far
about me, who could I be?

What is the impression I give you? From what you know so far
about me, who could I be?

What I have impressions about you are...pathetic gaijin who is into Japanese men, arrogant sometimes, mysterious and that's all I think

Why pathetic?

You mean women are not arrogant at all in Japan? Tell me please.

but I think if you don't have courage to trust someone from the bottom of your heart, you'll never get something that is called " true love".

So you mean a man would only love someone truly, if a woman trusts
him? I am not sure I believe that. Trust is something easily
destroyed, so there is too much of an assumption there. You can
love someone but you may not trust them at all, knowing what the
reality is. It takes time to stop loving someone, but a moment
to destroy trust. So this "trust versus love " situation is
not balanced at all.

Of course some woman in Japan are arrogant like the middle aged woman in this thread.
just because they are woman they think they should be entitled to something which is annoying.

I think it feels so weird for me to see gaijins who are attracted to Japanese men /women or dating them. I don't know why but usually gaijins always say something like Japanese men are not good-looking bla bla bla.
Also gaijins often here say its so pathetic to date japanese. So being attracted to Japanese men is kinda weird for me

Maybe there are too many people in this world and it happens that I am unique?
I don't know. Maybe I find beauty in the places I have never been to.
Maybe masses are (told to) look somewhere, I freely look elsewhere,
with less inhibitions. Maybe I have an artists' mind.

You know , to trust someone is a risky bet, but it is foundation for true love.
Ture love is something that is given to two of you after mutual efforts have borne fruit.

I think there is "true love" but I'm not sure if I can find it in my life...also I don't think I can handle breakups

Is that worthwhile?

It is something you can't get without your efforts, so I've learned from Fromm Erich.

Well I'd better to be single because its wise to spend time on other things like jobs, study,,,, right?

I heard being single is more common in the US and Europe. Is that true?

As a long term expat in the UK I can tell you women are lonely and getting lonelier.
43% women aged 18-49 are never married singles, doubled since 1972:

http://www.express.co.uk/news/uk/382706/Rise-of-the-single-parent-family

Single parenthood is on the rise. You can actually see it on the streets.

It sure is a lonely place, Britain is.

Although single life is good for us women to develop confidence,
I don't think isolation is healthy at all.

I believe you can experience true love any time any place.
You just say to yourself " I am going to fall in love, and it will
be a divine love". Say it to yourself and you will fall in love.
Try it! Although thereis no guarantee they will love you back, it will
be true love because you know your side is 100% true.

Good morning. It is so cloudy here today
i have done some morning exercise watching the tv program

>>167
I do not know nothing about other countries but here in Japan,
I think guys don`t really hate women who goes out a lot with guys
and enjoy having relationships so easily so many times.

Many of timid women hates these girls and also men who likes these girls
So my friend was going out with this guy almost getting married,
found out he was going out with this slut , hurt her pride really bad,
she broke up immediately. Good thing she never had a relationships.
It was a good decision. She also changed her phone number because this guy
was calling her way too much

We don`t need no guys like that. Especially, when we see some stupid girls,
who talks weird with high tone, it is pretty disgusting to figure out that
your guy has that kind of a taste.

We also worry about STD as well, especially in Japan, it is very serious.
It is probably really embarassing for some women and unforgivable if she gets it

They say they love virgins but most men are not that qualified for that
Instead, they should keep on going out with sluts. They deserve what they deserve

It is no wonder that why some women don`t want to get married
The guys are really negative, sometimes so aggressive, and so nasty
As you see in this thread, they keep on saying about money and all that crap
They don`t even have no clue what else to give instead of money

Most decent women are so tired of these guys. Unlike past, we are also
exposed in the society, at the working place, we have no tolerance for guys
like these no more. We`re pretty much exausted
We have fun too. We love romantic Korean films and dramas. We have fun going
to trip together. Spending wonderful time with friend(s) is much more satisfying
than staying with negative guys.

Japanese women don`t actually fight, if we don`t like their opinion we just become quiet
but there is a deep hatred toward this man

Sex and the money is all they talk about because that`s the only thing
they know about. Do you feel attractive? Well, I don`t.

They never have a chance to go out with decent ones but only sluts
so the girls they`re talking about is one of a sluts, they know of

They have no idea, that how they are so nice couples

The splendid moment does not last forever, and there will be a lot of challenge
in our lives but at least, in that moment, no one really want to hear about not romantic things

When I was dating with ex, there was a man with good clothings with his gf, he doesn`t want to sit because
it will get dirty and I thought that was really a crap.

My personal opinion, I don`t like show-off and someone who cares about his appearance too much.
It`s not man-like thing to do.

Just in the net there are few guys who I really don`t understand much
but men I`d seen in my life were really nice.
I kind of thought that maybe I was really lucky

My instinct was not that bad afterall. I`ll stay away from nasty people
and keep on finding someone who`s really trustworthy

I never heard in my life that a guy ever make a woman have an abortion
nor threw woman away after having sex eventhough she`s a virgin
Having an affair, cheating after marriage, and so on.
It is all about the quality of human being, even if no one sees you,
your morality still do exist. That was what I was told from my grandmother and
mom and teachers.

I don`t ever trust people like that.

An ancient Greek philosopher Plato said that we all know what is right, what is good.
So if you listen to your heart carefully and honestly, you can find the answer when you bump
into a situation in which you have no idea what you should do.

They say birds of a feather flock together.
Your instinct just contributed to this saying.
I know a typical examle of depending on her instinct, who is famous for the following phrase.
" Bi bi bi to kita" but in the end, she failed twice.

Women with less trouble are likely to not to get married

Men spend money unlike women, they are really negative giving women
a heavy migrane. A real control-freak. Also when you get married there is also step parents to
look after. Sluts are use to getting away from troubles so they`ll probably
flee for that, but people like us, it`s almost duty to do so.

Although, on the other hand, we also know that guys treat slut with goods,
no money spend on his wife but full of works, so no decent women want to get
married anymore or have a divorce, if she has no child. If men do not treat her with respect

I prefer to die in loneliness, rather than treated like a maid

Women tend to enjoy their times when they get old without men but
men tend to get really crippled as they get older.

Although, the big difference was before there were not much sluts
but these days there are many people who are not trustworthy, so
eventhough, guys feed them, it does not mean they are been taking care of
and some really want to get divorce with his own wife immediately, but
ironically, women who gave the birth tend to live longer and they`ll never
accept divorce. No matter how man ask for divorce

But those are women which men choose to be with, then be it!

It was something like bi bi bi, but who cares
I really enjoyed being with them so there is no problem
I feel so sorry for those who never had a date but just a nature.
Sorry, I`m way far beyond that. If I am the speed of light, then
they`ll probaly like a wind. Too slow. Some just stuck in the earth

I always believe that people who go out too much they get old faster,
as well as women who don`t go out much.
So at least 2 decent relationship gave me the youth.
I took everything good (some bad) from those experiences, which I think
better than having none in my 30s

>>178
btw what yakuza clan does your ex belong to?

>>179
Excuse me? I will never go out with yakuza

I hated him gambling because those places are not good
Although, if that`s a choice he made, keep on gamblin, it is not my business anymore
No one really want to see a person`s life is ruined like that

What made him act in such a way? I don`t know much but sometimes ambition kills and eat
one`s emotions. Some uses that energy to go forward but mostly are eaten by those emotiions

Our generation are forced too much to be " Something " one day.
Somehow I hated that. I felt so ashamed. It is so cold and there is no worth to feelings we have
It is very hard to climb a ladder but it is also hard to give it up

Maybe he couldn`t give up. That made him run to gambling...
It was saddest experience of my life. To see a human weakness

We lost morality in everyway and now some of us are asking oneself,
why do we need to keep a moral. Today, the society is a chaos and
so many very weak people are victimized, like children.

This is very wrong. The freedom should not exist in this way.
The freedom are for those, who think of other`s happiness as well

We`re exposed to the dark-side of human being everyday but no one
really tries to give anything away.我利我利
The society is really tight and tense. I call this state, the hell

The hell shown it`s shade, when I broke up with my ex. It was so close to my skin
It gave me shiver to see how he lost himself completely in short-term pleasure, lose
his feeling, and become something I never imagined.
I don`t know what he is doing today, nor Im interested but human can sometimes can
get corrupt even if there is someone who helps them.

At that time, I never knew but I think that it was the ambition that
killed him. No sacrifice pleasure will only give human, the corruption

The society today, really not depend on those morality anymore
As if though, people like that are so stupid and I see hell here
So I quite believe in heaven as well. Maybe heaven do exist in after-life

Good thing about life is, that it will try to get its balance unconsciously
When things are way too bad, way too good, those never last long
無常 tells us nothing will last long. Everything changes like seasons or wind

六道輪廻の間には伴う人もなかりけり
ひとり生まれてひとり死ぬ　生死の道こそ悲しけれ
　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　一遍聖人
世の中を思えばなべて散る花の
わが身をさてもいづちかもせむ
　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　西行法師

口がるく尻のおもたい居候
川柳
　

no one is allowed to talk about my ex anymore in this thread
because I get really really upset. Especially the first one

I was so perfect so God gave me some pain, I guess

It is so and so amazing to see that many ugly moms have really nice family.
Even if they`re not even educated, fat, and ugly, they still have
really nice husband and children
No one is never too bad nor too good

I think I was destined to meet him. I still think it was funny that how we met
I really liked following him around everywhere. I am very lazy type, but I worked
so hard those days. I don`t know how exactly I`ve done that! It`s a total miracle

Say if my talent is 30%, being with him having many troubles,
turns out to be giving me another 70% of talent from nowhere
It was totally burst of youthful power combined with affection towards
our relationships

Even after the breakup I was still working hard so that my attitude still remained
for couple years. The relationship with him was negative but for my career, it was
a total positive. So ironic

It is so nice to have something you love so much so that you can burn yourself to dust
I don`t think much when I`m into it so much. I just stop thinking somehow
It is so hard but it is also sooooooooooo fun

There is no god you know?

I think there is a God
I don`t care for those who don`t believe God and I just think that there is a God
I don`t like radicals but my faith is all I need to have
If God ever told us that getting fat is so sinful, I would stop eating chocolate right away

I am so into chocolate and I can`t stop eating them, like everywhere I go,
I carry chocolate around. Japan has many good chocolates. I love all sort of
chocolates. I put hersey`s chocolate onto a vanilla ice cream until I see no white spot
I put chocolate paste onto a bread almost every morning
I love all sort of chocolates. Brownie is my favorite.
I love this restaurnant`s cake, which has a frosten camamel on top of a chocolate cake
I feel really alive when Im eating those eventhough my weight is gaining
One day, I really want to live in a candy and chocolate house
In Summer, house will melt and I get ready with mashmallow in my hand
dipping into the wall

Just curious. Are you a member of westboro baptist church?

nope

i live on booger

>>193
I see ghosts and I live with boogieman

I never crave fo choco. I must be strange.

I thought she talked about hashish (choco).

Oh is that what it is in Japanese, I thought choco was short for chocolate.

I 'll get me coat.

no no you are right.
Choco is a shortened form of chocolate in japan too.

Actually choco means a little in Japanese

Chotto! are you making fun of me.

Chocotto means a little
Similar right?

Denshi Jisho

chokotto rather; a little; small
Adverb, Noun or verb acting prenominally, Onomatopoeic or mimetic word.

Caregiver-san yesterday a friend of mine who is deperate to have a
short term relationship that would get her pregnant was talking about
a relationship that lasted for a couple of weeks. She broke up yesterday
when she found out he had a child and acommon law girlfriend.
She was divorced just like you and had trouble getting back to making connections.
So it means you are not alone in this world. The idea is to keep trying
and move outside your comfort zone. She tried to change things internally and externally
and I have feeling she will get somewhere better one day.

Caregiver-san I bumped into a video on dating for marriage,
it may not interest you intellectually but has a lot of messages in it:
http://www.dramacrazy.net/japanese-drama/goen-hunter/
One thing i noticed, also from watching other Jdramas, how women drink with
women friends, they talk about age, then they drink and drink.
I guess they are adverting for the alcohol industry.

Hello KameGirl
Thanks for the info
I really feel comfortable being alone now
As I mentioned before, I had been with guys for 10 years all together
My 20s were filled with being with ex
I had a lot of fun but also very exausted
I`ll be working soon and Im planning to go to school after work(*^_^*)

All I want is peace and calmness.
I am pretty good with being alone and enjoy time on my own
If I start to earn money, I`ll go on some trips too.

Yea, I drink a lot and so does my friend.
We drink so much. We drink in the Izakaya(casual Japanese restaurant),
then we buy some alcohol and drink inside the hotel with snacks

So much fun! I love ume-shu(梅酒). It is made from ume fruits
I have the one from 5 to 6 years but it tastes really good
Long as you keep them, it tastes so good
Last time I found 10 years 梅酒 and it tastes incredibly wonderful!

I`m so happy that Im once married, though
It is so hard to express this feeling in front of people, so I hide it
The divorce is so painful but also you feel so free
Many singles around 30 and over are asked so much why they aren`t getting married
or they are blamed so much. Although, I just need to say,
" It was painful so I have no interest now " then people just stay away from this matter

They will never understand your pain .

I keep writing a diary. It helps me a little

Well, looking back on my life, I've tried keeping diaries several times.
But my daily life is so boring, as can be described " same old routine" that my attempts always enu up so-called "mikka bouzu"

How do you say "mikka bouzu" in English?

quitter?

>>210
Just think that you`re not a paranoid type, who sticks on to others,
like a stalker.
I was writing on the other thread then I noticed I like to be in control
but I hate control-freak. My first ex was really good with that
I was only in my early 20s and did not know about the world so much but
now I learned a lot and I feel so depressed. It was quite amazing to date with
my first ex because I did not know anything about outside world

His stories was always so interesting and I always wanted to hear what he thinks
I really enjoyed absorbing his idea. On the other hand, he loved to think and
very suspecious of everything he sees. That was annoying sometimes, because I believe
things I see, and I don`t feel so bad about it. But when he tells me things, Im like
" yeah maybe that`s also true. " Although, some I never understood. I thought he was
some kind of paranoia or something

It was pretty funny to see my ex`s behavior. He was so paranoid but
also very curious about things he saw. That was weird. I just told him
you no need to care about it but just concentrate on things you believe
but he was pretty different from me. My sense is much more rough than his sense, I guess.
It was my first encounter with a man, I still don`t know what man is.
They are so different from girls. The communication differ too, btw men and women, I noticed

When I`m at work, women tend to be happy if I take their job and do for them
but men hate it. Women love to share the work, some don`t, but men tend
to get really irritated when I do that. Instead, when they take a lot of time to finish them up,
you only got to say, "thank you" and they`re all satisfied
Sometimes they make a mistake so I correct them without letting them know
If that`s a women, most don`t feel bad being corrected but men tend to get irritated again,
so I just shut-up. They figure them out later on their own. I don`t care if I get humiliated
as long as I can correct my error, but men are so fragile to humiliation, I guess

My grandma used to get so tired of grandpa but that was so understandable
Having a man inside the house is so exausting.
When we get married, we go to see our step parents, then girls tend to smile
and have a little conversation or whatever. Even she is very tired.
However, men, they sit in the kitchen with no smile, no conversation. Just there
And all they talk about is wanting to get home asap. Read the air!
By the way, my grandma was never allowed to see her parents after she married becuase
grandpa was really selfish. And when her sister came to visit her, my grandpa whined so much
and told her sister to go home! That really pissed my grandma and she left the house for a week
in her first time

Nowadays, men are better. Like my sister`s husband.
We have this very long talk, when sisters and women relatives are
all together we keep on chatting all day. Although, we need food
and she asks her husband to buy us some pizza, so he goes out and get
us some pizza also not forgetting to buy some drinks! And we keep on chatting.
I went to visit my sis, a long time no see, we`d gone to a restaurant and chat
for such a long time. Eventhough, we talk on the phone every single day.
Children were so tired they slept well. My nephew is pretty used to our chatting behavior,
and he is quiet. I noticed when mom is talkative, then that child with opposite sex tends to get quiet
Our family we all love to talk and never stops. There is no topic, we keep on talking

There is a saying " Seeing is beliving" and that's ture but it would be better to keep in mind that
you can see only one aspect of a thing at a time.
So it may be necessary for you to observe the object from verious angles to grasp it precisely.
Otherwise, you tend to have a prejudice agaist it.

A German philosopher, Immanuel Kant called the whole thing "mono jitai (物自体）”
I don't know how you say it in English.

Men are a sort of creature which has a strong sense of pride.
That is why you often see words such as ass-hole, idiot or fool, the English for 馬鹿 in the world of 2ch, with wich
they can insult each other in order to satisfy their own self -esteem.

There is something wrong with my key board and that is why there are some typos
in my writings.
Who cares?

>>221
Some women becoming like men and when I look them closely, they seem to have
some beared around their mouth. It`s quite suprising. Men and Women become equal but
it`s more like women becoming like men. I heard some female fish, when they see no male out there,
some turn into male. What about us? When I see girls swearing so much, I see some male-hormone out there!

Who ever said that Japanese women are weak, I think they are so wrong about it
Maybe few decades ago, women were weak, but now it`s so different
I see no difference between a dog and a husband. The big difference is only whether
they have a leash or not. We call those couples, kaka-tenka（カカア天下）
カカアmeans mother, tenka means rules. Mom rules. Some men they just work for family and
only gets 500yen a day without a lunch. Anyways, we don`t need to get angry because some men are satisfied
My family is so different but some are used to that situation, maybe since they were born, so
it`s really their own choice. I think many foreigners don`t understand and some Japanese don`t even understand,
but some really are satisfied

>>221
You see many testosthrone in the net but I think most are really timid in real life
Japan is such a little country filled with a lot of people, maybe they need a place to
yell out or they`ll go just so crazy. So pity for those lonely wolves, they can scream as long as
they want to, we just skip those lines and read ahead.
Men are like that, like grandpa and dad, whenever they feel mad, they keep on shouting while
they`re watching baseball game or whatever. We`re just like, there he goes...leave them alone
Every men wants to be a team coach. When I see baseball thread, there are so-called coaches all over the thread
and I`m like WOW. They really love to gave advice. Isn`t that pretty funny?

These days women don`t yield so easily, and so men evolved
This man I know of, when he thinks he can not win over his wife,
he will begin to whine. Like, "you don`t have to say that...I was
really trying to do so" making women feel that she is sorry and he wins.
I think he is really good at that. He learned that he can not win over
his wife with quarrel because women are so strong with debates. If he swears
he knows his wife will never forget what he done to her, so then he found
the way to win over disputes. Pretty smart

Is your hobby "ningen kansatsu" or something?
I don't know what's it called in English.

correction → what it is called

When I learned an English word "hen- pecked husband" for the first time, it made me laugh a bit
because I imagined the scene literally.

>>227
what about observing others?

I was so so shy before. I hid behind mom or sis all the times
I only talked with my relatives and few friends

While other talkative sis and friends are talking, I was just observing that person
I was so interested to know others but too scared to step out forward
My sis and friends did that for me.

Now my sis left this city, and I am so sad. She was very active and
I heard a lot from her but now she is one of those house-wives, sometime
interesting to hear her story but not fun as it was used to be.

Even very attractive women become a little boring if they get married.
They are way too devoted to their child or children.
When I see her so into her sons, I think women really don`t need no man to live

Here is a really funny story I heard of. There was this mom, she was cleaning the house and
tried to wipe the floor with her son`s worned out shirt. Although, she couldn`t do that because
she loved her son so much so instead she used her husband`s not that so worned out shirt to wipe the floor

Oh, that is a well-polished story to get some laugh, but I am a Kansai jin, so we are generally trained to
respond like this; " Nnna ahona!" when we hear such a story, which is called "Tsukkomi"

hahaha
People from Kansai are pretty unique, especially in Osaka,
They`re not like Japanese. They are but they are so different
I was so suprised to hear that many girls live with their own parents
They talk so funny but many of them were so conservative
I liked going home with this girl, around age 32 and I was about 24,
after the work. She was really cute saying that " I really love walking
this street to the station, icho-namiki(lined up Ginkgo trees) are so pretty"
There were so many unique and warm people over there

I don't like them because their language sounds so vulgar....

I mean, I`m a woman but so many women are so attractive in Osaka
I do not know about the guys there but I like guys from my own
prefecture. We live in this city for such a long time.
I like dad and grandpa, they all born here like I did

>>234
I didn`t hate it but I was with my ex-boyfriend so we were keep on
talking in our own dialect. I felt so comfortable. Then these colleagues once asked me,
you never talk in Osaka dialect. So I told them, I would like to but
isn`t it s weird if someone talk weird with your own dialect? Doesn`t it make you a
little annoyed? Then they were like " oh yeah! " (*^_^*)
My ex-husband was from different prefecture but we were both talking in our own
dialect maybe mixture sometimes. I didn`t quite feel right though it was interesting
My sister talk to me in a dialect when she`s with me but with her husband, no dialect
It`s kinda sad

It is almost time I have to go to bed. I had a good time in chatting with you.
If only I had a better command of English....I could respond to you more. Sorry!

I had fun too.thanx Good night☆

More precisely, I had a good time in hearing your story, though. lol

really(*^_^*)that`s so nice to hear lol

Awwwwwwww so cute thread here☆*:.｡. o(≧▽≦)o .｡.:*☆

yeah, isn`t it really sweet =^_^=　
I was thrown out to this thread but it is pretty nice to be here

Can you not post to Chat in English 176?

Oh my KameSama these people even date only men from their own town.
That is not good for your DNA health you know.

I saw a lot of azalea today. Those were colored in light and dark pink
and those were spread all over the city and it was pretty fantastical

Yeah, the flower is blooming here and there in my town, too.
I know how you felt when you saw it, but it is very difficult for us to express the emotion.
The beauty of nature is beyond description.
Since it is in full bloom in May, in my image, the flower is a symbol of warmth.

Totally. I don`t even have a word when I see a city covered with bunch of colorful flowers
It is so breathtaking

Now my city is filled with so many colors
The green is sort of yellow green and so youthful covered with warmth of sunlight
pouring down the trees and grasses
There were many lively sparrows twitter
The Spring is everywhere

When I look at the flowers carefully, their colors are so
complex and so delicate. I never seen a pink like that
Really fastinating.

I'm home now.
Yeah, I know your hobby is observing anything, from others to flowers. lol
If you take a close look at natural things, especially living things, they are so exquisite that
you feel the mystery of nature from them.
How come they are so complex and so delicate? Who knows?

well, to tell the truth, I rarely have some time to do such a thing because
I'm busy doing my daily chores. lol

You no need sarcasm here. There are so many other boos in other threads
so I want to make my own thread at least peaceful
Eventhough, I was working I used to observe things and that`s my biggest hobby
who cares

I was talking with my sister today and she told me how rasing childrenis so hard!
She is a very cheerful type and リア充 but how she talked for
about half an hour without breath, difficulty of raising children in the community,
gave me some sort of feelings. I have my own house, I got some savings, and a job so I guess
I don`t need to get married anymore. I felt so unlucky having no child at all but somehow
I feel I`m kinda blessed after hearing her long stories.

She really enjoy having children but on the other hand, she always
tell me how she really wants to go to a trip with her husband.
She told me that I`m lucky enough to go out with many guys as I want to,
not single all the way, at least divorced once. That`s pretty true
I do not know why I was destined this way because I`m not that type a person
who goes out a lot, and I feel really ironic when I see my リア充 sister carrying
a lot of babies around her. Life is pretty funny.

I alway need sometime to make decisions. The feeling I have today is
quite close to what I had in my late teens and early 20s. I think it is
the frustration somehow end up in acceptance of who I am. It is quite
a suprise to find out that I haven`t changed at all. I feel like I am
completely the same as what I was used to be a decade ago. The only improvement
that I had is to acknowledge the emotion I have inside and pretend like I am
one of a mature person. Actually, nothing really changed inside me

I know the word リア充, but I don't understand the meaning of it at all.
If you look on your sister as リア充, I recall a person whose circumstances were similar to your sister but committed suicide.
She was an idol singer whose debut year was the same as that of Matsuda Seiko.
You know, the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.

Do you know the Ishida family?
If so, what do you think about "okaachan"?

>>254
I read about that idol on the net
I kind of see someone who`s likely to commit a suicide
Their faces are some what very dull eventhough they laugh
It seems they`ve lost some brightness. Some people are aware of
their slight changes but people can not do anything about it
Suicide is more like a black hole. People shouldn`t look at them so close
I tend to think or see something else rather than looking into it closely

>>255
Personally, I like her so much!
Believe or not, I really wanted to be like her
You know how she really flirts and sometimes a little serious?
I think she is a person who has a good balance. Very awesome!
I never ever imagined my life would be like this (not that bad afterall)
but I think God knows my capacity. I can not be like her.

you know what
I really don`t like very small family
All they talk about is how they`re planning to make every children go to college
I think that is important but I see no energy there
What I was so impressed about America was that they have so many children
Not only poor but wealthy families also have a lot of children including adopted child
as if it is their duty to do so. It is very simple and so powerful
Japan used to be like that before and grand-grandparents used to have so many children,
having kids until women have no periods

I've never been to America, so all of my knowledge about the country is secondhand or from books.
They say churchgoers are decreasing more and more nowadays or atheists are increasing over there.
Still, they must go about their daily life based on Christainity.
" You shall love your neighbor as yourself."
Compared to Japan, there are many more foster parents in America because they regard children as the treasure of their society.

Among the social phenomena, what makes me most offended is that there are some parents who commit suicide
with their children.

>>259
Maybe it`s so bipolar now. Some are still so so religious. I`d heard about Amish
I really wonder how would they think about being atheists in the US b/c everyone has their own middle name
I heard the story once that this Catholic girl`s mom was expelled from the church but she had a child
so she came back and beg for a child`s middle name. I don`t remember much about this story though
We don`t usually have middle-name so we have exactly no idea how it feels like without having no middle-name

>>260
OMG! There are so many out there, like it`s everywhere
I think many were money involved with DV husband and other multiple reasons combined
But the isolation from other mom, having so much difficulty fitting into the society,
those thing make women with child go really mad.
Sometimes, people call it the law of the jungle, but I honestly really feel so confused people
referring these rules to everything including the child care

I never had a child, so it might be so arrogant for me to say this but
I feel so strange these days about fatherhood today
Have you ever seen a husband scowl at his own wife?
In Ohzu bullying murder, did you see both parents were attacking the school?
It was pretty confusing for me b/c eventhough in the house or in the society,
another one should be more calm enough to tame the another. I thought that is how
family and society works. Instead, these days, they both are so emotional
That was honestly so weird thing to see, at least for me

Caregiver-san. You think you live in an ideal world. Today's modern life stress
levels is millions times more than our granparents'. No wonder people
go mental and start being violent. It is much, too much to handle.

Excuse me, what is wrong with atheism? Do you think believing in
a fairy story makes you a better behaved person? Or having
an understanding of ethics regardless of religious beliefs?
I have met good and bad people of all belief backgrounds, but one
thing for sure, is that the religious people are more forceful
and dismissive of non-believers on moral issues. I have
seen that religious people can be hypocrites because they lie to
themselves. IMHO that is the penultimate wrong doing. If you lie to yourself,
you lie to anyone. And, love of family, country, making strong human
bonds have nothing to do with religion but an upbringing that values human
life and our dependence on each other.

According to Oxford advanced learner's doictionary, the definition of both theism and atheism is as follws;

theism belief in the existence of God or god
atheism the belief that God does not exist

What is the difference between the two?
It seems to be me that both sides are in the same box in that they believe in something.

that is the Oxford definition. don't believe in them w.
The real world is something else.
Atheism is about disbelief and suspicion methinks.
It is not a belief. It is about not having to do anything with schizo
stories, anthromorphic deities or supernatural things.

ゲーデルの「不完全性定理」によると人間の理性では神の存在証明はできない
らしいから後は個人個人の信仰の問題に過ぎない。
信じるもよし。信じないもよし。個人的には人は神なしでも十分やっていけそうな気がするけどね。
でも、人間というやつは自分の信じていることを他人にも押し付けたがる生き物だから
両者の相克は人類が存続するかぎり永遠に続いて行くんだろうね。

>>265
As someone says in >>268, to me, I think religion is more like an individual belief
Although, sometimes I think, athenists could be arrogant as religious people who
only tries to push their own opinions, no matter what. There is no right or wrong in this world
I had a chance to see a lot of people around the world but everyone had different background
and opinions. Some I didn`t understand but I thought it was not my business as long as they
don`t mess with my life. Although, I know this is just my own opinion and some think different.

Although, as the society expands, with tons of people with different background,
every nations need to have their own rules. I don`t know a lot about laws but
some are based on Bible and some are based on their own tranditions, I guess
Today in Japan, I do not know how these criminals are raised but there are people w/o
only little morality. It is quite suprising and they`re all over. Maybe I`m more of idealistic
type but I do not want to do things that makes me feel uncomfortable.

My idea is that we don`t live that long. Maybe several more years. Who knows?
Some people just wanna enjoy their life, going aggressive. That`s also good but I`m more like a
calm type, I really hate fighting or quarrel. My signs of Zodiac is libra.
I really like to be peaceful and quiet in wherever I stay. Sometimes I need to fight or resist
because people gets into my territory but as long as they don`t mess with mine, I just don`t care much

Going back to the topic, where people learn their morality differs.
I learned from traditional ways and Bible rather strict than others.
Although, my sister is more like, learned from her experience
I think everyone has their own way of learning things. We used to oppose to each other,
b/c I really did not understand how she thinks, way she handle things is not totally in my dictionary,
and so did she think the same way about me. Although as we get older, we kind of admit difference
and how the difference sometimes help each other to get along with the society.

I used to hate having a lot of siblings and relatives because they easily mess with
my idea and space and I always want to be by myself. These days
I think I was pretty lucky b/c I`m very cautious type and not that talkative
to strangers, so if they didn`t mess with me, I probably had no social tolerance or skill at all
Having different people close to you, is sometimes good. Expecially they`re not living with you anymore

Being aggressive have nothing to do with life enjoyment.
Being good has nothing to do with religion.
You can always set strict rules without religion, and discipline yourself.
It has nothing to do with the Bible.

>>274
I think some people can do that but I really think some people really need their religion to do the right thing
There are many suicides in Japan and I understand their feelings sometimes
Having deep hatred and sadness within itself is so torture
I used to had that feeling when I was in middle school to this bully, who
always teased me and spread terrible rumours

It was awfully humiliating and not true at all either
but she sure was having so much fun and I was so terribly hurt
Although, I didn`t fight neither commited suicide b/c I had this faith
I don`t say the way I act is always right but I really appreciate the fact that I met Bible
when I really needed the desperate help

Bullying has nothing to do with religion either, in the sense
that you cannot stop bullies with religious rules.
Bullies derive energy from victims. The moment the victim stands her ground
the bully would not be able to operate any more.
Exactly, Freud's theory of helplessness worked in your case.
You were notsupported so you turned to the supernatural
for help. That is how religion works. It feeds on your desperation.

Caregiver san

I have a favour from you.

Please could you learn how to make a thread on 2ch and start your own listed thread
if you can. I don't know how to because I do not speak Japanese.

I will support your thread.

Thank you for your advice. I don`t know much about 2ch either
though I can search how to do it
I`ll be start working from next month so maybe I don`t have
much time to spend my time on net. I also started working on my diet
because I have to wear an uniform. OMG, I really wanna die
I`m in the kitchen for such a long time today. Just like I was before
when I was married (*^_^*) 　

The kitchen is pretty special space for me. I think every woman
hates someone else in their kitchen. So mom and I sometimes argue
but it`s her kitchen so I have got to shut-up. I bought this special
yogurt and it`s pretty expensive compare to other yogurt but my parents
are eating them all! So is my precious nattou, rotten beans that you can eat
I bought sparkling waters but dad had some already. I bought some fruits but
when I wanted them, they were all gone and my parents ate them. It is very stressful

When my ex husband is around me during weekend, that was so stressful
I want to have an apartment on my own. The kitchen with a window
The old apartment is pretty big compare to new apartments,
I really love kitchen, but not good for woman to live b/c of the poor security
I really don`t know why new apartment don`t improve more on kitchen
Too small and no window. It doesn`t have to be in Western style
I prefer Japanese style and sleep in futon rather than a bed

So you are not keen on sharing things.
If I have something nice to eat, it tastes far better when I share
it with someone. In fact I wouldnt eat anything luxurious if parents
are not having it also. It would make knot in my throat.
There is bonding through sharing, I am suprised it is not like
that in your family.

>>282
You`re so nice. I had many siblings, relatives, and my sisters friends
visiting our house all the times, so food was all about fighting!
I still remember my sister eating all of the strawberries which seemed
so delicious with rudy red. It was gone after I`d gone out with mom
All she said was they were so delicious! I used to write my name on everything
I bought but that did not work either. They`ll just say, they never see anything

Now they`re gone, nobody mess with my things anymore, except my parents
I bought this Japanese picked vegetables in Kyoto, I heard the rumour
and I woke up so early in the morning, took a bus for 30min from my hotel,
walked another an hour to buy this thing. I brought them home in the morning and gone out
to work

After I came back from overtime work, 3 of them were all gone. I was so suprised
and asked mom and she told me that dad ate them all! I asked dad and he said those were so delicious
My family is some what like this. It`s humiliating but we all love to eat and they even don`t have
nerve to think about other member of the family
My mom even gave my treasure, fossil stones, to her friend`s child while I was in the school!
She told me that it was just a rock. They killed so many of my nerves

Hey. Is anyone here?

It's nice to have a place for not so young women to talk to each other. You
guys have a great command of English. I would like to improve my English by
chatting with you.:)

No, she is mine. lol

>>287
me too(^^♪
This thread is pretty nice without some people swearing too much
I feel so comfy

lololololololol

It's just that it takes a while to reload the site again. Is it because of
my PC or some technical problems on Channel 2's side?
Anyways, >>289 I feel more comfortable when people don't get too aggressive.(^^♪

Whatever

so far I see no problem

According to my diet, I cannot eat bread nor rice
That was one of my pleasure. A toasted bread with butter

Which do you think is more like a pig, Watanabe Naomi or you?

I am not that big, more like chubby, people don`t think Im fat
when I wear a dress but they get so suprised when they hear my weight

When I was a child, people would often say," kuimono no uramiwa osoroshii"
Well, with my English, it is a bit though to translate the phrase above into English.
"A grudge over food won't be forgiven easily."
Even today when people can eat to their heart's content, there might be cases the saying is applied to.

Did I make myself understood?

correction with my English →with my English ability
though →tough

I know. I remember every details about the foods that I couldn`t eat
Most of the times, people just eat w/o thinking about others b/c
the foods are so delicious
My ex did that sometimes and there was only a little left in a plate
Actually, when you get married, we don`t really sit and eat together all the times
because women are too busy in the kitchen cooking

I mean, a cold dish, like ban ban chicken, is easy
you can make it in beforehand and put them in a fridge
But most foods are served warm so it takes a little time
A man eats a first dish, mostly a cold food, served with alcohol,
while that you start cooking food you prepared beforehand
So men eat them all. I woke up around 11pm-2pm b/c my ex came home
late from work. I have my own schedule and I really like this

>>296
I learned that as for women, the ideal weight is your hight minus 100.
So why don't you give it a try? Even a kindergartener can do the math.
If your figure is under 100....oh my

It is not a problem about math. It is all about fighting with appetite
People who mention about math are those who does not have so much interest in eating
If I don`t take too much carbohydrate, I easily lose weight but unfortunately,
I love to eat rice, bread, and pasta
I feel so sick eating vegetables EVERYDAY, I feel like I`m a grasshopper

When I read through diet blogs, you see many of them are saying
that they have really hard time cutting carbohydrate and I feel so same!
It really makes me cry, when they whine so much about wanting to eat carbohydrate
Your love is somehow your enemy! That the pretty huge tragedy in a person`s life

My feeling toward rice, bread and pasta is just like
Michelle Branch`s "Goodbye to you" especially, the main chorus
really makes me sobber. The only affection that I had in my life
was to eat. Cutting carbohydrate is much more torture and harsh than the divorce

This is the main reason why I divorced
My mom got fat after she married but dad really did not say anything
or he mentioned just a little but everytime mom got so pissed so he shut his mouth
I thought that if I get married I can get fat and eat whatever I want to eat then I got married!
Then I go bigger, bigger and bigger. My ex keep on asking me to do the diet, he told me that
it is okay to spend money but I really didn`t care

But he was really obsessive about my diet and he keep on whining everyday
I told him that he is just the scum of the earth, if he a man than don`t mind
what other say to him. He said that he is good b/c he never had affair with no one
eventhough I`m fat. So then I told him, it`s a normal thing that he doesn`t need to brag about it

As the years gone by he become more and more stressful asking me for a diet
I got pissed so I came back to my parents`s house all the times and he came to
pick me up but all he talked about was my diet! So we were keep on fighting everytime
I got so and so tired, we start to use some swear words to each other, and got into the big fight
I ran away from the house we lived together and I felt so fine
NO ONE ever gonna tell me what to do about my weight!
Although, I feel sorry these days I hope my ex find someone good and thin

>>302
I'm sure your figure is far below 100. That's why you can't disclose it.
You know, in every field, the first step to solve the problem you face is the recognition of your current situation.
How can you do it? It's crystal clear.

>>307
That was bad luck for you.
They say" there is no accounting for tastes.", so there are some guys who like girls fat, and others like them thin.
I'm the former type, so I don't mind at all if my girlfriend get fat like Watanabe Naomi.
Actually, I have no girlfriends, though. lol

>>309
Exactly. That`s why I decided to divorce
Glad we didn`t have a child. My ex told me that he liked my face only
and I really didn`t understand what he was saying. We had fun talking
but after our marriage we both thought maybe we`re somehow married to a wrong person

My sister and I were talking and we kind of came to the conclusion where
maybe guys have some tastes, each individual differs
Why would I have to waste my time for someone who don`t treat me right?
If I have a child then I would probably never got divorced with this reason
but luckily we didn`t so it made us easy to divorce
That`s why we didn`t have too much arguments. There was no betrayal or anything like that

What I hate the most is someone asking us that one of us had an affair or not
We control ourselves very well and we`re not a child. It`s such a rediculous thing to say to us
He never had an affair b/c even if he went out to drink with his colleagues, he came home quickly,
eventhough I never asked him to return home early. Also he could have stayed in the hotel but he
always came back home asap, when he had the business trips
Me, I never had an affair! Those people who ask those questions are so nasty!

Just because someone's got a divorce, it doesn't mean either one of them had
an affair. It's just chemistry between the couple didn't work and neither
of them are to blame for anything.
Actually, though, my ex had an affair, which was the reason for what happened
later, namely a divorce. It's kind of stupid of me but I still care about
my ex as a man and as a father of my children...

Anyways, we should move on. There are as many a number of men as the number
of stars visible to our eye.
As a real Obasan, I don't really care what I look like or how much I weigh.
Of course I used to before I became an Obasan, though...hahaha

>>313
Thanks for the cheers!
I feel so upset when some other make stupid assumption about our divorce
I don`t care as long as I don`t hear nothing from them but some really ask us "why"
That`s pretty stupid question to ask. There are multiple reasons and it`s not that something
you can share with others. The divorce is something that you need to look from multiple angles and
from the both sides. We, ourselves, really do not know much reason about the divorce until time comes to understand
our own habits. And so we finally learn and grow individually after we go through many tears and pain

THe older we get, the more we tend to indulge in our past memories.
But I think it's not a good thing to look back on the past too much.
As you've just mentioned , you should move on.
He is not the only one guy in this world. Just look around, and you can find kind-hearted men anywhere.

from an middle-aged Japanese man lol

The relationship between the individual is much more painful sometimes,
when we understand to respect and love each other. Also so serious. It is easy to say but hard thing to do
b/c we all have the strong ego within ourselves. Neither do we really don`t want to admit our own
weakness so we usually blame on each other. But even little love, which still left inside us, help us to choose
the right way and wish for ex-partner`s happiness as well. The divorce is something like recognizing the sign of dead end
Maybe we were immature, maybe we could have done better, but at that moment we made the best decision
The day we gave the divorce paper to the city, I saw him crying a little, and I was so relieved
I had this feeling that we really loved each other for some couple years and those were so true
I really loved him

>>315
That is so true...
My work is starting from next month so I think I`ll be fine

I used to believe without no doubt that I`ll marry a guy who I love so much with so much
responsibility and we`ll be lasting forever. I had never imagined having two severe break-up in my life
Life is pretty ironic but this isn`t bad at all either
It sounds weird but I`m so glad that I could able to love someone so deep in this spare of time
and having so many good memories that comes with it
They all had problems, like I do, and we are so incomplete but I really love every bit of them

It is very hard to break up with someone who used to be such a big part of
your life, I know. It took a long time form me to get over it. Actually I
might not 100% have gotten over it yet. Ten years later I still think about
it once in a while and of course my children just keep reminding me of the
failure...Anyway, I simply don't think about it most of the time.

After I broke up with him, I made friends with a very nice guy. He was
married and I thought he was happily married, so I thought we were just
good friends. One day he said he wanted to start seeing me as a man and
woman, which made me so shocked; I liked him because he was happily married
and respected his wife...
I was also shocked about the fact that he thought I was so easy...you know
what I mean?
Anyway that was the end of our friendship.
Are there any single men who would get interested in me, I wonder?

>>318
It is so much same with me
I can`t just play with the partner. I`m always serious
It`s how I am so I can`t change this and I don`t even think that I need to change my behavior
How can married one even ask for a date when they have their own family to care about
If they would like to have a relationship with us, then they have to talk and divorce with his wife
before he starts something new. I could have continue our relationship with my ex but I did not make that choice
because that would be very rude to someone new and I know I`ll regreat it someday
What they make us so irritating is that they are treating us with no respect. They do not see our pride
I even think they are making fun of my serious decisions. I see no heart in them

Although, I do believe some people can manage the relationships with such an attitude
They might even have a good influence to each other
I don`t say those are wrong all the times but I hate it so much

Some tell me that I didn`t make right decision about men I chose but I really believe
that the men I chose, they all deserve my love and more from other women as well

I only have only few friends but through my experience, I believe ex could become one of your friend
not all the times but maybe sometimes it can happen
because we shared so many emotions together in couple few years
and exactly, NO ONE can deny the fact that we were serious about our relationships although we failed to last forever
I don`t know how they feel about me but I feel this way

After the divorce, I was bit scared to see men
The divorce equals to someone who`s easy? Noooooo I don`t think so
Yes, I do feel depressed but that does not mean I have sex with who ever I see.
That does not give men any excuse to ask us out so easily
They should go to prostitute for that. I really hate that kind of nasty thoughts and
it really makes me shiver seeing so much ego directly
The divorced need to laugh or smile so that people don`t really bother you asking, " r u okay?"
Ofcourse it is not okay! It`s a D-I-V-O-R-C-E

Most women act as if she doesn`t really care about the stupid divorce but we all know that breakup is always very painful
It can actually sometimes kill one innocent human being
I really hope I could cry in everywhere I want to if I can, but how can 30 something can cry in the public?
It is very humiliating
But some are more rediculous than that. They have nerve to think that divorced women are so easy to have sex with
We just need to laugh softly and push them away but it is also very very painful to be treated like that
and feel so much anger and disappointment inside
Although, I know we might have a chance to see someone with the heart,
who knows how to respect others as well and make our shield melt and be warm again
I believe not all the men are evil and insensitive like what I mentioned above

Good night! I`ll go to sleep

I've been thinking of what love is like.
Love is not definitely a sort of emotion but is action, in other words, the way you treat others.
When it comes to your children, you can love them without asking nothing in return.
Whereas, as for man-woman relationship, you'll never be able to love your partner in such a way.
Every good relationship involves give and talke.

By the way, why don't you talk to yourself?
It is your hobby, isn't it?

correction 　talke→take

IN that case, which is correct, " without asking anything" or "without asking nothing" ?

>>324
It is better to know that every human being have this very strong ego
Many people, parents and partners really say that they "love" others but
at the same time they are moved by strong ego
It is very unhealthy to reject the existance of ego
Love is romantic when it is over but while your in love, it is most
likely barbaric

Where people call love, they search for satisfaction
At first, it stays in a state of like and this is very very ego
Many confuse like and love. Most are like. Like is just an emotion within itself
Love needs philosophy. When people confuse them, "like" really are
unstoppable and can be very dangerous.
Love is where you find yourself so alone. See the difference in two and
learn to back-off, even if it really hurts them so much. That`s where you need
your own style of loving others
Many of people think they love their own children but I doubt that sometimes

OMG! I`m so happy
I just met this incredible guy at my working place
My uniform didn`t fit so I was kinda depressed but he told me
not to worry about it and he was really really kind and nice
So I walked my way home today eventhough I was exausted

I thought I`ll never get over the pain but now it is becoming
just the past accidents. I am so glad that I can see someone
who I really like maybe almost everyday!

I never seen anything sweeter than that
I was so tired to take a walk home but I was so happy that I couldn`t stop smiling(*^_^*)
According to my diet book, it says I can lose at least 10kgs in 6wks
I am not eating any carbohydrate during dinner anymore
I made soup and dinner after I came back from work to take many vegetables
I`m going to wear an uniform better than anyone else over there and
I will totally suprise him.

I heard about his story and he is from my neighborhood
It seems we got many things in common. I feel serendipity
I pray to God and my grandparents everyday and so maybe it is something
I need to search more about him
I did not want to talk about it but it`s my big mouth lol
I can`t keep secret. I am so and so happy now but the training is
just for few days. When I thinking about that I get so sad but we`re still
in the same building

I even don`t want to think about my training will be over soon
I usually pack my thing and go home asap after work and I hate drinking party
but this time it was so and so different

Noone mention about drinking party that`s sad. Maybe I have to wait for few months or so
I stayed a little to ask questions after work

I can see him again tomorrow! Good night! Waking up late totally hurts my skin
and it`s not good for a diet either

533 可愛い奥様 sage 2013/05/01(水) 22:13:37.18 ID:6j8AYDNP0
荒川さんはトゥーランももちろんだけど、その後のエキシビションもすごく印象に残ってる
シンプルなんだけどすごく柔らかくて、歌詞と彼女の人生が重なるようで感動的だったなと今も思い出せるわ
演技終わりの表情も、その後の挨拶も美しくて本当誇らしかったな
仮に浅田さんがバシンバシンウォーの鐘で金メダル取って肋骨衣装で踊り狂うエキシビやったとしても
到底荒川さんのあの感動を超えることはできなかったと思う


534 可愛い奥様 2013/05/02(木) 10:19:47.05 ID:VgUvigp30
自分が浅田嫌いだからフィルターが掛かってるかなと思って、感情を排して思い出してみても
荒川さんのあの時の演技にはＳＰ・ＦＳ・ＥＸ全てがなにか大げさに言えば神々しいというか
特別なオーラがあって、トリノは荒川さんのオリンピックだったなと感じる
同じようにバンクーバーはヨナのオリンピックだった
塩湖は９．１１後という意味で特別だったけど、それぞれのオリンピックで金メダルを取った
人達は皆その時特別なオーラを放っていたような気がする
ソチが浅田のオリンピックになることは無いね、彼女にはそういうものが無いから


535 可愛い奥様 sage 2013/05/02(木) 10:58:45.98 ID:rZ/SqCw50
>>534
荒川さんもヨナも表現者だもの
コスも安藤さんもレオノワも…っていうか、浅田さん以外すべてといっていいな
浅田さんはただただ金メダルが欲しいだけだ

>>329
I guess all buttons of your uniform came off like popcorns pop when you tried it on. lol

I wish you good luck! Good bye!

>>335
Thank you!

>>334
Actually NO b/c they gave me an uniform of my size
so it won`t pop out like popcorns

>>333
what`s totally wrong with you? ur posting on a wrong thread!
I like Mao, she is so cute. I noticed that she was having difficulty
in the end. The competition is not totally her style, I guess
I would like to see her on ice shows. She is really brilliant!

Very good! You never know how a man feels if the girl who he likes talks about other guys.
I didn't want to hear you talk about that guy any more, so I said good bye to you.

I talk whatever I want to b/c this is my thread
People keep on kickin` me out but this is mine!

Anyways, I had many garbage and it was like 4 garbage bags all together
and I cleaned up my room completely
Clean the garbage, wipe everything less important in my life(>_<)
I feel sooooooooooo good

2nite I`ll have dinner with my cousin, her fiance and our relatives
The one getting married while other broke up lol
Should I be there anyways? Aren`t I like disturbing them?
Dad asked me if I`m having dinner with them and I was like yeah but
maybe he was asking different thing. I`m pretty not good at reading words
so he need to be more direct

>>337 Wow ,that is an impressive indirect confession!
So cute!
>>338 Care giver san what are you sayin'? >>337 san said he liked
you and you talk about cleaning and food???Isthat th eJapanese way of
avoiding to reply?
I am baffled. I don't have a clue about Japanese relationships.

It is an anonymous thread. I understand there are good people but
I think there are people who`s so evil
Ironically, I learned that in 2ch
When I see thru the threads there are some pics spread all over and
it really is so frightening
I was stunned that I did not know anything about the world
It was just that I was lucky that I haven`t involved in any of those mess
I`m not use to seeing people on the net. I am very very careful type

Although, I know from news that some women get killed by men who she met on the line,
and leave dead and naked somewhere in the forest. I don`t believe
life after death but it`s so terrifying

I am not even prostitute and if I was treated like that I would be
so shocked even after death. Also leave behind wearing nothing...
From reading thread, some are used to meeting others on the line but
I began to think that I have totally different DNA
Too scared. Maybe men are more low on risk but women have such a high risk
Anyways, I`m talkable on the net but I have this terrible stranger anxiety
so I think I can not speak anyways. It is not fun to be that way

Well guess what. The whole world is like that, not just 2ch.
And women have all contributed to this. Because they want other women
removed from their territory. If they had some sense, they wouldn't
let their sons be violent towards women. Women are far stronger and
cunning than you think. If the state of the world is like this,
don't allow it!
The world is like this and even worse. Look at the horrible wars
and violence. Why do we let it happen? I am glad you discovered
the truth via 2ch. They say ignorance is bliss. But a supremely naive
and stupid-happy, I wouldn't want to be.

>>342
Today I was watching this news, about 3.11, kindergardeners visiting
the disaster victims. I thought it was pretty arrogant and insensible b/c
that some would have lost their children or grand-children. It would be
so much better to leave them alone.

I didn`t have a child so I suffered so much. Meanwhile, some mom, not all,
they talked so mean about me not having a child and I was so hurt. Just because
they become mother, it doesn`t mean that they are filled with love or kindness
Some are but what I seen was something so depressing

The world today is somehow so competitive and I feel so sad
I do not know why people pull each other`s legs
It is getting worse that I had seen some mom pulling not only other mom`s
leg but ignoring and saying some so mean to her child. She was only
a kindergardener. It was pretty painful so I stopped talking with with
this former neighbor mom
She got pissed and she started attacking me

I do not know how people can do such a thing. She also have a kid
of that age and for some people becoming mother is something that
gave them power to do anything they want to do
It is so shameless

My dad really hate me reading Bible but I need some escape from reality
I think I am childish sometimes but I long for some rightousness
It is a sense, we usually don`t need that sense to live, but living
without rightousness is the world with no water, just a desert

It might be funny but I always wanted to be a nun. When I was in
college I think I can not be a nun b/c all I talk about is just an ideal
and I felt so ashamed. I thought I need some true experience

I had seen this young girl in Italy from America and she was studying
for being a nun. The good part of America is there are people with no
too much decoration. It is sometimes considered not sophisticated but also very powerful
and those people are filled with love

I think so too KameGirl
All the war starts from ignorance toward others, looking through
historic events, there are some exception but most evoke from
not accepting others. I truely believe that it all starts within family

I am one of people who doubt about maternal affection is all about love
because my mom made a wrong choice facing her child`s competition
My mom is very loving but I noticed how maternity can be so filled with ego
Believing materity as so sacred is really dangerous
When I was young, I do not understand the tales about Hariti (goddess of childbirth and children)
but now I do. It warns people to be cautious about maternity

Although, don`t you think such a pure place contains terrible incidents?
I do not understand why but I think this is just a fact
I think saint and evil must exist on same weight. This is how the world goes
So if everyone becomes more like saint, I`ll probably turn myself a little evil
My sign is libra. I just love balance on everything
My family is all so strong ego on good or bad but I always took the balance by
observing them. Took my decision on the very end. I begin to think that this is my ego and personality

If this world is filled with vituous women then I would have become more carouser
I guess I really love my internal pain and thinking about life by becoming alone
It is very bad habit though

Maybe I`m so conservative but what do you think of abortion?
The adults around me, they all told me not to have sex until I have responsibility to raise a child on my own
I do not care about what other thinks but when it comes to the family matter,
I think someone who had abortion, including men, I think I`ll have very hard time trusting that partner
I really don`t understand why he/she choose not to have a baby while they`re having sex
If it`s a rape, it is understandable but most of the times, they had sex because they are both responsible for that, right?

when I was reading some pro`s opinions, they somehow have different
values about having a child. Some says having a baby in a poverty
is not good, it`s a women`s decision, and so on
While I was reading con`s opinions, they replied, having a baby is a result of sex
and people need to be responsible for that and so on

I think those are values which never come across. When my mom had her own third child,
dad told her to have a baby no matter what and she agreed as well
I think those value agreement is so so important

I`m the one who never had a child but if my partner ever tells me to
have an abortion in any circumstance, I would probably go crazy
I remember when I had this blind date once and I told this guy that I am against
abortion then he complained. I didn`t like how he thinks about abortion and
I never dated him again. I really don`t like that idea
When I had sex, I always told my partner that I`m having a baby no matter what
and no one ever going to tell me to have an abortion. Well, no need to because I never had any...
so ironic

can't you type '''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''?

She does it on purpose.

I don`t know why but I feel comfortable using pinky
My typing class was such a long time ago, back to my middle school and
I thought it was supposed to be on the very right of the board?
Am I wrong about my memory?

My sperm is so healthy that it can penetrate any woman's egg no matter how hard its shell may be.
So why don't you give it a try?
The stork will be sure to winging your way. lol

the definition of "healthy sperm"

must be under age 35
not exposed to poisoning of the fast foods
non-smoker
training
not living above 4th level
no disease
regular base of masterbation or sex
not soaked with diseases

by the way, your sperm must ask my egg the direction b/c
mine is not that easy on guys. Mine really loves to trick the sperms
and give them the wrong direction saying, "another stupid ass-h**e" lol

btw, how old is that guy you have a crush on?

OMG! It is just so unbelievable
I just found this nose pack and I`ve never done this in several years
but I thought my nose is kinda getting oily so I did it after bath then
there were tons of a black-tipped plug which is clugging my nose pore,
they were all sticking onto this nose pack!

Soooooooooooooooo fun

I have hard time throwing this away eventhough this is all garbage...
I also showed this to my parents, dad were angry but who cares
It is so much disgusting if I see this from side ways,
instead of looking this from above

When my sisters were together we always used to do this nose pack
to compete who have more black-tipped plugs. The most disgusting
one wins!

Must try this! If your skin is not too weak
It just gives you this feeling...so exciting!

Here is a tip
Wait until it gets dry out completely, it takes around 10-15min
Then bring your mirror and SLOWLY rip it off from your nose
If your nose is extra dirty then you are lucky enough to see
that black-tipped plugs coming off from your nose, sticking to
a nose pack. It`s quite a thrill

I haven`t try this since I got married so these black-tipped plugs
are something like long time no see...

OMG I really think I can sleep so well tonight

Who gives a crap about you having a strawberry nose?

Strawberry nose lol　(>_<)

The reindeer who has a red nose like strawberry is always made fun of by everyone.
But on the day of Christmas that year, uncle Santa Claus said," Your shining nose is very
useful when going down a dark street at night."
The reindeer, who wept all the time, was delighted and said," Yes, tonight, I'm gonna..."

It sucks. It`s kind of getting hotter each day and my nose are beginning to shine
I`d never seen oil off paper for the face anywhere else but in Japan
It is so amazing to see how much oil you get off from your face!

NHK sucks. I noticed about the bill keep on coming to my parents house on my former name,
because I haven`t tell them that I moved
So I called then this stupid lady told me that I have got to pay the bill until I request the change in address

No one lives there anymore... I told her that no one really lives there anymore and
there is no TV, and asked why do I ever need to pay for it. My parents are paying for bill as well
and I`ll be paying double. But she was keep on telling me that I need to pay
We were quarreling for couple minutes then I told her to change with someone who`s more responsible
Then I told him about NO ONE lives there anymore and NO TV and why in the hell I need to pay the bills
I got my own document that I had left that place long time ago, and I told them to ask those
who doesn`t pay! My parents and I pay every time! It was soooooo rediculous!

I`m living so honestly and I have hard time believing why in the hell
people got to mess with my life this way, wasting my time, energy and
also some phone bills! It`s unbelievable. I know some ass don`t pay the bills
but I am a person who is so proper. No wonder I get involved in religion so much
I really wish those bad people burned in the hell! ALL OF THEM!
While stupid ass having hard time, I`ll be drinking a pinacolada from heaven
watching them suffer for the rest of my life!

You have to pay the bill.
You forgot to tell us that you had moved. It was your fault.
I'm gonna visit your house as many times as I can until you pay it

>>366
You are so 盗人猛々しい.

Do you read my lines correctly?
I paid everything while I was living there
They`re asking payment after I leave that place. My city record has already removed
I never knew that there was such a rule that I still have to pay for them
until I let them know about the move
You guys should be careful too. After you move, you really need to inform them
I think they do so b/c some people refuse to pay
Like my former neighbor, they watch NHK all the time b/c they have kids but they never paid for it
Unlike them, I paid my bills w/o no delay. Anyways, I feel so bad that this happened I need to pay for it

The apartment is empty and there is no TV...
or maybe new people came in instead...
Isn`t it really weird that I still need to pay for it?
And I`m living with my parents but they also pay the bill for NHK
I do not know why >>368 tells me such a thing
If there is a rule that involves money, wouldn`t be necessary to
let customers know beforehand? Because I`m so sure that there will be
some people who is going home and living with their parents
I felt what they`re doing is something like Yakuza

How deep do you love jukujo?

I get this depression b/c eventhough people outside leave me alone but
my relatives are asking me and my grandma so much about my divorce
I used to go to my grandpa`s grave but now I`m so scared to see my relatives
They been nice but too much questions. This relative of mine, he keeps on
telling to marry once again but I do have no interest anymore
Why would I have to do something that I don`t believe in anymore
I wish I can say this out loud but I know then he`ll start to lecture

Please marry someone again, or as your relatives, all of us will become objects of redicule from
people around.

I enjoyed marriage but I was so exausted to live with others
It was really lucky that I didn`t have a child
My family and relatives, they all tell me that I`m really selfish and so rigid
but I have my own way of living. I feel so comfortable being with my parents
and I do not want to live with a stranger anymore

What has become of your job?
It is strange that you are at home at this time of day.

The good part of marriage is that you can have your own child
but the bad part is that you always have to concern about somebody other than yourself
My first marriage was pretty nice that I did not have too much relative things, just us
But I start to listen to those who married after me, friend and sisters, they all have
relatives problems. Mine was so easiest but I couldn`t tolerate
I think I carry a lots of problems within myself and it would be so much better to be alone
If I would know my personality a long time ago...but who cares

>>375
I work in hotel as a part-time and today I didn`t go to work b/c
someone who I like, who teaches me about the work, he had a day off
My working hour is rather very fast or very late but not midnight

They told me that I can take a day off just for now b/c it will get
really busy later on

OMG! Tom Cruise is on Iitomo
I have Toda-san`s book but I heard she is the biggest fan of Tom Cruise
I think she is the best translater so far
I used to love Top Gun
I must see his new movie and the movie location is Iceland!

I really do not know why he is having divorce so many times!
He seems like a really nice guy

It is because he is destined to meet and marry you.

OMG! Is it true? lol
That type an imagination really gives obasan a big fever!
I noticed that Toda-san really enjoyed being with him　^m^
I heard that she does interview ONLY for Tom
Look how she`s smiling! She is really cute(*^_^*)

I'm home now.
Thewy say the best way to get over lost love is to find a new lover, but I think if you've found something irreplaceable in your
ex-lover, you'll never get over it.

Sorry, I'm a bit drunk.
correction →　Thewy→　They

Honestly, I want a baby and I`m so upset about not having any and
I`m in my 30s and this was not my plan at all
But you know, relationship is so so important because I can not imagine
having a baby without a father but it does not mean that anyone are suitable
for the fatherhood. Also it is so important to find someone who I can get along with
and it sure takes time! I`m in my 30s and I wanna cry.

My plan was to have a baby at least in my late 20s and I absolutely feel that this is just a bad dream! and I`m really upset but
I do not know where to blame b/c I think no one is that really bad but it just was an unfortunate accident
My sister told me that it is just my only second time but to me it is just a disaster!
Also divorce, I don`t blame no one but it sure was not one of my plan

I feel like I`m a whore but I am NOT whore!
I don`t want to be compared with those people who goes out with many guys
because I never liked or understood that in my whole life. Although, I know some people will think
I`m a whore because I`m divorced. I feel so ashamed and it is not fair at all
People do not know how I feel like whenever I need to tell them that I`m once divorced
It is something that I can not tolerate. But I tell myself that I can be more confident
because I had never cheated anyone in my life and I always done my best no matter what the result was

Also explaining a stranger about our reason for divorce is something which is so hesitating
Sometimes I see people who blame ex but I do not feel right about that either
I really don`t know what to do. This is my first time which I feel so scary what other will think about me
I have got to be much stronger than this but sometimes I am so depressed
I`m so glad that no one really mention about my divorce yet in my work place

I was so scared of that and the job I had before, this girl told me that she`ll never get divorced like me
Although, I never explained her a reason but she told me so and I was really hurt
I expected that but it still was really something painful enough
I didn`t want to get involved with girl`s talk that`s why I chose part-time job with no lunch time
I think I`m still not ready for those opinions

It`s raining Hallejulah!
I hope today is a day for my job becuase I hate to walk home on sunny days
I bring the sun with me everywhere I go

It is really funny to see that some people are really skeptical about the partner cheating on him/her
A Japanese author, Shungiku Uchida had once written something like below and I remembered it
" When you have an affair, you are most likely to get jealous with your partner when you get married "

So then while I was reading through some comments on the other websites
I thought those who mention about the cheating, without no evidence, maybe they had an affair before
in their life. Maybe they are haunted by scary thoughts
I thing it is also same with guys as well. If they ever gone out with married ones, they`re
most likely having hard time believing his girlfriend or wife
I`m so glad that I never gone through those hell. I might haunt you later

Anyways, I really loved Hilary Clinton when her husband cheated on her
Like she never cared about stupid Monica. Instead, she took big advantage
over her husband and she was just so cool! She is so so smart
When my grandpa cheated on grandma, grandma was too busy with her work and
taking care of step-parents and she just said, " at least I don`t have to
babysit my husband"

I have work tomorrow, and next day, and day after that, and after that also
and it will be sunny tomorrow. Sh*t

I`m on a diet so I can not wait to eat breakfast tomorrow
That`s the only thing I can think about

Well caregiver-san, I disagree on some of the points you raised above.

Firstly, if you can pull enough resources youdon't NEED a man to stand
there pretending to be a father.

Quite frankly I watch blackbirds with envy. The male of the nest
collects food for his offspring and is so caring and protective
of the nest, and his off spring. The female is more scary actually,
when it comes to defending territory.
I think they are beautiful.

But is it not the opposite with the primates. Men are all talk
no show when it comes to real fatherhood.
Very sorry if this offends men, no I take it back I don't feel
an inch of that.

There are some incredibly powerful men out there, fatherly type,
and they are loved to bits by their people. Unfortunately they are
are far and few in between. Therefore, think seriously of raidsing
a child alone if you cannot stand men cheating on you or being a
source of unnecessary stress rather than asupportive adult partner.
Don't team up with a man unless he is 99 percent supportive.
Don't get me wrong but for your health 's sake, choose an extremely
hot Johnny's and make lots of beautiful cute babies.
You are so lucky to live in Japan.

She said before that she hates Johnny's boys because they look like bean sprouts or burdocks.
She likes hunky dudes with chest hair.

I always dream for my own apartment(*^_^*)
It can be so little as long as toilet and bathing room are seperated
I can not believe those are put in the same room together!
I really hate living with my parents. I love watching real estate posters
which are folded in the newspaper. I`ll let no one enter my place, except
my sister and close friends. I can paint a kitchen into pink or orange and
wallpapers in the living room and bathroom

I`d walked to my working place today and it was foggy with some light rain
The bridge over a dark green-colored river and trees lined up beside it, they really looked
fantastic. In the afternoon, fog went away and the sun came out and all those trees and grasses
were so beautiful, in color of yellow green, they were all over the street
I just enjoy Spring but I do not want to walk during Summer. It`s really hot here

>>397
I really don`t understand why so many people are so skinny here in Japan
Who`s gonna wear that skinny pants anyways. I totally thought that was for kids or maybe a small puppy???
It`s really funny that I don`t see boney couples
In other threads, people make fun of fat couples but I was wondering
why people never mention about boney couples...I guess others don`t see those couples either
It sure does feel like having two of the god of poverty in the same house
I can`t kick him off the sofa when he disturb me watching TV b/c I`m afraid he might break his bones

OMG do you kick your husband, that is so wrong!

>>401
When we had a big fight, I never kicked him but we threw many things to each other
It is really funny b/c I`m the one who clean those up anyways so while I`m throwing things
in a quick second, I really have to decide what to throw
At first, I threw a sponge or papers, then clothes, and so on
A sponge and papers first b/c clothes, I steamed it with iron already so I really didn`t want to
mess those clothes. When it got too messy, I do not feel like cleaning anymore, I just went out of house
if it`s late night b/c there will be somebody during a day

When I leave the house, I always yelled, "who`s gonna clean this mess!"
and he goes, "you!" then I got soooooooooo pissed and I ranaway but my
ex never liked cleaning the house, so after I came back, I cleaned everything

Now I don`t have those anymore, I`m in a city instead of boring country-side w/o a job,
I really am so stable. I am so happy!

Today and tomorrow is my off day, so I went to my relative`s house yesterday
This morning, I walked inside the mountain to find some mountain vegetables with my relatives
I ate wild strawberry while I was searching for those
I saw this weird bugs and a blue-colored lizard
Mountain water was very delicious and I brought my bottle with me so I pour them in
but I noticed that there were some sand in it but who cares!
Many birds, many bugs, many interesting flowers. The air was so tasty
and I really had a nice time

It makes you think why men and women live together in the first place.
A child is a good distraction, but men and women simply do not grow up
and learn to live in harmony, so why do we bother?
We have different mood swings, hormone levels and
such.They don't get it and war breaks out. Violence
is terrible even if it means throwing soft things
at someone.
It is a sign that there isn't enough room to breathe.
Its animal psychology.

>>405
When I was married I used to whine my husband about living in a very country-side
I really could not stand it. People are way too curious about others, they really love rumors,
and I was so scared to go out. Just going to a glocery store, they were asking me about all sort of things
Why don`t you have a child? Who is the cause? What do ur husband`s parents say to you? Those things...
I cannot ignore them totally but I cannnot talk to them friendly either b/c they won`t stop spreading
whatever they heard to every neighbors. It was like a nightmare
I was really exausted. He told me that I could just stay inside the house but I was like
" what the hell I`m doing inside the house..." I had fun making foods and decorating the house but
each day I felt so depressed

While I`m suffering a depression, he had a job
I really felt that I was so alone
It was like I was pushed to the edge
I came back to the city, now noone really cares about me
I can say whatever I want to, I can do anything I want to,
no one ask me where I`m going, and I`m totally FREE!
Living in a country-side w/o a child, it really capture the people`s attention
Many jealousy and so on. I really didn`t like that at all

You should tell them that you are an artist, and paint something.

Their attitude could change.

No Way!
I was just a sea lion anyways

クリトリス舐めて欲しい奴いる？
近所なら舐めてやらんこともないぞ

KIMOI

but you also try to insert your thing so no thanx
my health teacher always told us, "no responsibility. no sex"
"say NO to the guys who has no responsible for what they do"
"having unwanted child and abortion will make your life miserable"
"if you do not have enough confidence, it will be so much better to focus on
something else"

Just don't have sex! This solves everything! Seriously too many people in this world...

Well, it is right to say this. Don`t have sex until you are comfortable
b/c many people are having sex without it and some people are just worn out, both male and female
Feeling without or having no affection to him/her and still having sex is rediculous

Isn`t it so simple? For me it is
Maybe some people have different idea about it but it`s not mine at all

No I mean never have sex ever!

That`s kinda sad...but if it`s that ur choice then there is no problem at all

I think sex should be banned for a while I know this sounds radical but too many people in this world!
I seriously believe we need to take actions to decrease the number of people because I mean can you assure we will be all right in the future because there is not a lot of food water resources etc etc....

I'm saying this for the sale of the future generations!

I always thought that it is not right for govt to decide what to do with our lives
Some want children and some do not want a child
Some want to get married and some don`t want to get married
These are controversal issues but we all have different way of living
and no one can really force us what to do about it
Although, I have my own opinion about my life and it is no right or wrong
but it is something more like what I prefer. It`s just my own opinion and
it`s nothing much more than that and as long as no one mess with how I live
it`s no problem at all

I do not know what is going to happen in our future
For example, no one really imagined about 3.11, right?
So what I`m saying is that who`s knows about the future?
What we all know about is just how we feel today
How you think about certain thing might change in the future
I`m always not 100% sure but I choose the feeling that I feel comfortable with

I had seen my relatives and one of my relative is getting married this year
and there comes again, they keep on telling me that I should marry again
and have a child. I have done my best during my first marriage and I had also
seen some bad part of marriage

>>420
You sound so selfish and irresponsible

It's like buying so many stuffs on credit card even if you don't have enough money to pay for it but who knows the future?! Because I just wanna buy it!!!!

Sounds like something like this

>>422
really? but people cannot be 100% so sure about the future
I consider maybe like half and I`ll just move on
The plan is just a plan and there is always change. We just need to
adapt to it. I prefer more flexibility rather than to calculate everything
Isn`t it same with traveling? Some people just plan everything but that`s quite boring
I love change and I enjoy it sometimes. It`s the same with a child
If he/she never likes it, too bad

I know this sound really rediculous but why type A (blood type)
are so tight about the schedule. I do not want to travel with type A
because they are so boring. I mean they are really good tourists with manners
but it seems like they have no other choice than the schedule they already had planned
I`m more like a moody type so I go and I do wherever I want to do and it depends on my mood
I like to plan but I don`t go with the schedule
I believe in blood type so much b/c my parents, sisters, and I don`t have type A relatives so much
and do not have friends either

and they tend to be more sarcastic do to their perfection or ideal, I guess

You sound so stupid and stereotypical!

Don't you think your comment on blood type A is so rude for all people with blood A?

Well you don't get it because it seems you are a naturally stupid and rude woman who is not cured by any medicines.

I know...but whenever I think, "what is so wrong with this person"
he/she tends to be type A. They are so stuck with schedule and
I sometimes admire them for being so careful but they tend to force
other to behave that way as well. I kinda can`t do that...I guess it is
not in my DNA

Don't you think you are just lazy? lol

I have on and off switch
I do things when I`m really face with the problem
Like when I was in my middle school, my score was so low in the class
but I never cared about it until there comes a big problem
Then I realized, so I worked so hard. I need some pressure to do something
There are many animal types. We all have different types, whether you like it or not

>>426 You call her stupid,lazy and stereotypical
then criticise her for her comments on type A people.
What a hypocrite!!!
Practice what you preach and show her some respect!

Turtle woman again grrrr
You are so persistent! Just quit your job an then go to Korea!

Because Koreans are really persistent. You can be friends with persistent Koreans quickly!

I receieved mails from my ex today and those were filled with answers for
our break-up. If we are family now, we probably fought again but it was
really nice that we are far apart now. I noticed it is good for me to stay
away from him for my mental state. He used money like water. Not gambling but
it was pretty different from me. I do not pay or sign the paper until I fully agree
unlike my ex. The way he handled things really irritated me so much
But now I`m SO without stress

I always hated kechi(stingy person) but my ex type is really was something
When I told him tips about it, he wouldn`t like my advice
For example, I married with him and I could chose whether I go to free school
or just refuse that insurance. He told me that he`ll be fine in anyhow so
I refused to go to school and I handled him paper so that he can gave it to
his office. It turned out to be that somehow, he didn`t turn in that paper
for 3 months and I had to pay couple 万（man） yen for that
Many of those things occured. I was quiet for few times but I began to say things
and he easily got pissed. I should have known that there`s was somthing so different
about him compare to normal partner. I keep on paying bills for water fees after I left that house
I asked him to contact the water agent to stop the water after he leaves and he didn`t
I noticed it b/c it was still getting out from my account...I was so exausted, like again...
but this time I am finally FREE!!!

I really regret that I went to country-side
If I`d been married for all those 5 years, I could have raised more money
But it is never too late! Right now I have many many vaccine on various types
Sometimes mid-aged people, they are fooled by his/her partner
and lose a lot of money but I believe that I had those bad things beforehand
Or some cannot divorce because they are afraid when they get old but
I`ll try my best until the end!
I know this guy in 40s who are fooled by his gf, but he is in shock for such a long time
and it`s so amazing how he can still think about it for years and years
Although, I am so young, I`m so used to it, got vaccine, and I am so really strong now
I am alive and I am so blessed

It is so sad that we`re all aging
Guys start lose hair. Not only that but they gradually start to emit stinking odor everywhere he goes
I was really laughing at them but aging isn`t funny for women either
My period is not that good, maybe my oval, eggs, and everything inside me are getting crippled

Eventhough, I only look like in mid 20s, 30s is just 30s
At least I do have hair on top of my head, God bless me

Seriously, I have big breast but it is getting lower and lower every year
I don`t fight no more. I`ll just let hang them on

The wind is so nice during early in the morning with some warmth from the sun
Sometimes, I listen to " every breath you take " (The Police) while I walk to my working place
I live in the city where there are a lot of stone bridges. The air is so crystal clear in the morning
The breeze from the river is so fresh

>>431 >>432 Don't you lecture me about what to do!
It is none of your business.

>>438
I am just stating an opinion, baka!
I don't think I need your approval to write what I want
so just shut up.

Copy-paste nattou brain.
Zero creativity.

>>440
All jokes aside, I think North Koreans need you to help them improve living standards.
If you work hard, you might become Kim Jong-un's 1000th wife.

my city is soooooooo beautiful!
I want portable water-proof music player so that I can enjoy my bath more
I really love singing especially in the tub
I am so exausted after work and my legs hurt soooooooooo much but
I still walk home. To lose 1kg, you have to pay 1 man yen!
That`s exactly two birds with one stone
I want to drink so much but it will make me sleep so I won`t

>>441 this joke must be from the Gangsta of Logic, nattou brain
is not capable of such "depth".

Many customers ask me where can they get some souvenirs but
there are no good Japanese souvenirs here. Maybe electricity?
or 100 yen shop? or department?
I work in hotel but I always wonder that why no hotel have no
souvenir shops
They`ve got something for domestic customers but none for foreign
customers. What if 100 yen shop, electricity shop, and department
all combine into one near the tourist resort with some taste
It is also so rediculous to hear all the restaurants are closed around
10-11 b/c that when people check out and so many tourists are asking
us where they can have a local meal

When I go to visit other countries, there are a lot of small vans and
many tourists hire a driver to go wherever they want to
But I don`t see many of those in Japan. There are many
good places around here and without car, there is no way you can
visit to certain locations
When I see the brochure for the foreigners, I see no such locations
listed on those and I really wonder why
I`d been to many places around here but I really wonder why no one
really introduced them to foreigners. Are there reasons for that?

When I stayed in hotel in a hot-spring hotel, there was
this performance of Japanese drums and it was so cool

well why don't open a late night restaurant then?
You like eating, you have excelent English skills,
what are you waiting for?

Don't you lecture me about what to do!
It is none of your business.

>>448
who the hell are u?

>>447
It sounds fun! In my 20s, I only worked in the office but
I really didn`t like it. Now I`m working things that I really
am interested of but again I am spending most of the time doing
the office job. It is very important but I am like what the...

I would like to work in the Japanese restaurant once again after
I lose some more weight. It really comes to my knees if I don`t
work on a diet. So that I can taste some foods and learn more
traditional manners. I really love kimono
I see some people who work in the Japanese restaurant but this one
person, she is so beautiful. That was the moment I regret that I
haven`t work on a diet at all

OMG! American Horror Stories is going to start from tonight!
I really like Jessica Lang. I think I can`t see it b/c I have
to wake up so early in the morning tomorrow(;_;)

I went to a hot spring today after my work with my parents
It was slightly raining but it was such a beautiful green all over!
I have work tomorrow also
I think I did so well with explaining questions from foreigners today (*^_^*)
I saw this woman who works at Japanese restaurant but I really admire her
She is so beautiful...sigh

I recommend plastic surgery for you
The first step is getting Botox

I hate plastic
I also hate a guy who does not feel nothing about girl`s having plastic surgery
This is controvesal issue but this is my opinion. I HATE PLASTIC
It is something that God does not recommend and I believe aging is not that good but
nor that bad. I really love how people grow as they get old. As long as they
have beautiful smile, no matter what age they are, I just love it

now I understand why you are such a hypocrite because you are a fucking Christian!!!!
You really should be shamed of being fucking Christian! They claim Muslim are terrorists but to me fucking Christian's are TRUE terrorists..

I really love simple and unaffected personality
People can be materialistic in the social life but I really
do not want to bring that value inside the house. I just hate that
If there are serious reason for plastic surgery, I have no problem with it but
if not, I just feel stressed

Everything makes sense now! like she hates gay, plastic surgery, limit number of populations etc etc because SHE IS A DWMED FUCKING CHRISTIAN!!!!

Fuck middle-aged whore

>>455
It just depend of how you use those in your life
Some people are just contro-freaks but when you just read the Bible,
it never says those things are right thing to do
It is rather more human instinct than the religious issue
Some people use anything to win...sad, but true

>>457
I never mentioned about limit number of populations
I think it is good thing that people have children, if they like to
I think that is so natural thing
Everything are so simple, but I really do not understand why some people
make them so difficult

>>459
What do you think about 統一教会？

>>461
are they the one who calls to anyone they know in time of election?
I do not know anyone who`s in that religion so I have no comment about them

I hate it when this happens
I was speaking English during job and this guy I like
he is kind of ignoring me
It happened to my life so many times
I can also play some instruments but when I say that
they`ll be like taking some distance from me
My friend also said that same thing. She had gone out with
a guy who just graduated high school but he married to someone else
saying that he felt so far away from her b/c she had gone to university

Somehow guys who loves decorations and whatever, they approach us
but we`re not interested in them at all
Honestly, when is the best time to reveal those things?

I hate snob. They`re no fun to be with
I get so synical each and every year and so sick of it
I hate guys who only care about appearance and other stuffs
They make me feel so disgusted

>>463
What are you talking about?
You mean guys want to be superior to women for everything?

Fuck Christians! Fuck Christians!
Child molester...

>>465
I think so
I`m quite shocked but I got so used to it,
I`m just like "again…"

>>460
But too many people in this world! So you fucking Christians will be able to take all responsibility if there will be starving kids all over the world in the future right?

Look at Ireland. Because they are retarded catholic fucking Christians who can't get abortion, they have been so poor because they have so many fucking kids!

I seriously hope all fucking Christians will be wiped out from this beautiful earth...
They are so detrimental to the society!

>>467
But you are Christian aren't you?
In their principle, men are superior right?

>>466
Japanese guys are so rori-kon
It is so disgusting and stupid
But isn`t that some kind of human nature to go for young girls?
On the news, like almost all the time, elderly is caught by police
having sex with young girls...like middle school...
It is totally disgusting but that`s men
Even if they got no hair, they have this urge to have some young
pichi-pichi girls...

Don't change the subject you fucking Christians!

Only you fucking retarded Christians have to do is to worship those child molesters!!!

Isn't is so strange because they severely criticise homosexuality but in fact pastors rape boys!! What a hypocritical fucking shit.... They seriously need to die

Oh suicide is considered as a murder in fucking Christianity? Who fucking cares?
They have been murdering innocent people in the name of fucking god all the time! Next time they fucking Christians should kill themselves

Malice hurts itself most.

I CAN`T WRITE ON THIS THREAD!

I bought this bloody orange on sale. It was half of the real price
but still costs 300 yen! So expensive!
I love the fruit venegar but why do those cost so much!?
I also bought some lemon juice. Which is 100% pure lemon
A bottle was 207yen. The cheapest store was 6 lemons/100yen but
I can`t squeeze them all so it would be better to buy in a bottle
I heard it is good to drink in the morning so that your stomach acid
will work well. Although, is it bad for your skin? b/c having vitamin c
in the morning and getting sunshine seems not good for the skin

I really hate these people messing in the religion thread
I think they are somehow involved in porn or something
They are absolutely so disgusting
I think they have no idea of Bible or nothing
If I translate such a thing, it is very shameful
They have no idea of the backgrounds of all the religion
or the foreign countries

I think If Saibaba had been born in the same era when Jesus Christ was active, he would have been the strongest rival to the founder of Christianity.
Unforunately, he was born in the modern era, where most people are brainwashed by physics, so that they never believe his miracles called " materialize".
On the other hand, Jesus Christ was lucky enough to succeed in deceiving people in those days with his miracles.
But modern people are convinced that they were not miracles but tricks.
He was only a magician with smooth tongue.

>>477
I don`t believe in Saibaba things but I believe in prayer sometimes
I do not know why but as long as I live, I have hard time living without it
I was raised in the nature when I was young. There was not much concrete
like way we are today. It is something that I cannot explain with words
but I really sensed that something so fearful was there with me all the times

I used to swim alone in the river where forest are around almost 360
The hawk was crying, the sunshine was silent but so direct, and it was so quiet
Leaves and sometimes snakes were floating and passing me by from somewhere up the river
The river was so dark and I had hard time seeing my feet
Just by sitting in the big rock, the water temp changes. Sometimes so cool, sometimes warm
The clouds hid the sun, spreading and bending lights everywhere
Everything was in such a beautiful harmony

Why someone is paying so much for his former wife?
I was reading thru thread and pretty confused
Didn`t he fight for that?
I would not want to marry with someone who already have a kid
and still paying for fees b/c I`m so cheap
I heard this guy married to this woman and he already has a kid
but he suddenly told this woman that he wants no kid no more
They are having divorce. Why wouldn`t he told her in first place?

♪♪Honesty is such a lonely word, everyone is so untrue..♪♪

OMG! I heard that people keep on quitting where I work at
Maybe there are too much to learn with less money
I really love learning new things and I get so bored once I know them all
so they just have got to make me busy as possible
I have -2kg by the way! I just love it
As I said before, losing 1kg costs like 1万円. It really makes me
feel like that I`ve just earned some money

>>482
How many times a day do you take a shit?

you`ve just wasted my very important comment line
take this shit. DON`T READ if you don`t like it
Your comment is just way too worse than mine

I`m doing so well with my diet but I miss the chocolate so much
I want to have some hot coco or maybe some chocolates
Like I am so tired drinking fruit venegars all day
I want to eat an apple pie or orange or lemon mardelane
I also want to make a lazagnia
I am eating but I am starving for the foods I miss so much

If you ate more fibre you wouldn't get constipated.

I you have a good breakfast in the morning, move around and don't sit down much,
and eat only clear vegan soups in the evening, it will help your
metabolism.

thanx so much for the advise but I want to eat something sweet
I was watching thru this cooking book filled with sweets
They look absolutely so delicious
I have Lindon`s chocolate in front of me b/c I haven`t finish eating yet
and it feels like a torture sometimes

My stupid ex-bf, who`s gambling all day, he told me to have a diet
one day, and he was saying something like fat is wanting some fat to eat
I still think that was really disgusting thing to say and he should have
returned my money before he had a nerve to say such a thing to me
The guys and dogs, they don`t respect human when you take really good care of them
Instead, you have got to spank them hard

Having 3 children and getting divorce is something but are there
some reason for that? I really have no clue at all
Have they married someone so bad or what?
My childhood friends, they all have 3 siblings but none of the family
is divorced. Some insult Christians but I had been with not religious
guys but I think that might be the problem. If they got not much morality,
they are just like apes so that women need to be spanky. Although, I hate that
kind of relationships

I am not guys mother, neither a baby sitter
They have got to know how to behave on their own
Use their brain before they act
Think about what is wrong and right
It is not something that women spank them about before they
act in a certain way
That is something I call even relationships

You have learnt the true nature of men and there is no turning back.
Whether or not religious, it is all the same. That is why men invented religion.
Humans are rotten to the core so the needed a make-believe, fake
purification process. It fails to make humans decent.
If your core doesn't want to stay decent, no matter how much
religious pressure, you won't stay decent.
You are being fooled more than once. I think if you don't
accept it as it is you will never be able to progress.
Why don't you construct your life around reality instead of looking
for non existent things? Why can't you open your eyes
and do something for yourself, witnh the realities of life at hand?
I don't like people who complain and do nothing, that is why I am asking.

Good morning
Some says religion is just nothing but other people just deeply believe in it
I think either way is not measured by the right or wrong
I consider myself religious b/c I think I`m not that strong
I really hate having contact with people too much. I just enjoy a little contact
I haven`t changed since I was so little. I had learned the skill but
the core part never changed. Some say that it is not good but I feel comfortable

I think this runs in my family
My family is rather so positive or negative personality
My aunts were having the same problem
They had never gone out of the house except work, even other siblings tried to pull her out
from the house, she got so pissed. That kind of reaction is almost the same as mine
I don`t know why but I think it is some kind of DNA
I don`t feel comfortable being with strangers for a long time but
just a short time, I enjoy it

The common sense between the Christians makes me feel comfortable
I noticed by watching my other siblings, knowing and accepting other
values make one`s life much more lively but it is just too much for me
I get so fatigued. So that I just learn so many things from my siblings
I really love talking with them and watching how they react to certain things

It is called agoraphobia, the fear of leaving enclosed spaces.
You have met your matches here, the hikikomori.

I know. I feel so comfortable in the closed area
I used to love spending my time in a garbage can when I was little
I hated to play with my young siblings so I climb up the trees and waited
until they had gone away
I also collect things since I was so little. I used to love garbage day for
the furnitures and all sort of things
My parents were so mad but I couldn`t stop bringing them home

I loved collecting stones and beads. I walked home looking down
after school every single day. My arm was always stuck to this Japanese
castle wall b/c I really loved to put my arms in every hole I see. Then my childhood
friend always brought our parents to help my arms get out of those holes almost everyday
I think I was really stupid when I was young

I see. How do you cope with the real world?
How did you manage to survive school?
Is your agoraphobia a chosen way of behaviour
or an established disorder,
If you are staying alone by choice, don't expect to
gain much from life, no iteraction, no reward.

I always find someone who I can rely on
Some girls are "MO" like me but I also
gone out with some girls who are so positive
Actually, I always had 3 groups or more and I always had different
personalities
It all fit together when I was in college
I think it`s not so agoraphobia but I prefer that way
I interact with people whenever I feel like I have to do it

I was a good student, I was good with some instruments, and
I was also good with sports. I also gone out with someone
who`s not the same school as I was. I always felt so tight
being forced into only one place. Luckily, I had a lot of people
from abroad around me, it was pretty international
There was no much of common sense but the words and the facial expressions
were the only the key to try to understand each other
But I am so rigid. I got my own opinion about things I see and I feel
It does not matter to me if the opinion don`t come cross b/c that is something
that I am so used to since I was very young. I was raised in so many places

My parents are from such an old traditional family
They`ve never gone out from their homeland until dad` s work
made us leave our homeland for years. I`d seen my own homeland
thru our parents stories. Now we are living in our home
My dad always said, my core will never change, no matter where I live
Take all the responsibility to myself so that no matter others tell me
what to do, I am the only one who can make a decision on my own
He told me never whine about it. It is very shameful
The good and bad, all belong to me

He wanted a boy. Maybe he didn`t have no clue raising a girl
I always thought my dad is very strict compare to other fathers
He really hated me crying. I didn`t want to go to school so I was
crying at the porch when I was in elemetary school, then he shouted and
locked me out. Told mom not to have any conversation with me
The other girls were whining everyday but my dad never ever accepted that kind of
behavior. SOOOOOO tight on everything

tsuki ga kirei desune

tsukiga tottemo marui kara- toh mari site a-ru-ko-

keiko lee`s "moment of love" is so nice to hear during night

You talk about other people's rules. As if set in stone.

I believe that everyone has that eventhough they`re not even aware of it
Or how can we have our own value on life?
The environment is something that we cannot do anything about but
having some idea about life and somehow when it penetrates to your bone,
not lie or dislike, people have to learn to live with it

>>506
Well, this is the first time that I've ever heard of her name, so I googled her.
To be frank with you, she is not my taste at all.
I could not find her singing the song that you were referring to, so listened to "Rainy days and Mondays", instead.
I am a big fan of the carpenters' and so I didn't figure out what is so appealing about her voice compared to Caren's

Really? That`s sad. Well, everyone has a different taste
I love Jazz and also slow jam
I really love drinking around 4pm
I got this really nice barcony with many flowers bloomed in
so many colours
I feel like I wouldn`t want anything more than that

Today is Sunday, so I've been studying English since morning.
Now I'm tackling Vol 10 of Power Idioms published by ALC.
In this book, there are a lot of funny expressions whose derivations I'm curious about.
Let me take some examples!
1 throw the baby out with the bathwater
2 make a pig's ear of
3 like shooting fish in a barrel
4 have a beef

How can a person study on Sunday?
That`s something so incredible and I really hope that I have
that kind of DNA. But God made me this way and I really think
he made exactly no mistakes. Like, Born this way

I was listening to this Phillippino songs over and over but
I did not know nothing about the lyrics. Then I had done some translation
with this google translator. OMG! It is so nice!

I was thinking of learning Si-gin b/c when I was listening to
Takalog songs, I feel it is weird to sing in Japanese in a certain
melody. Maybe Japanese words have different style of singing
I am always walking to my work and sometimes I see this old man
singing, si-gin. And I have so much curiosity like whatz dat?

Like I`m writing this over and over but I really love this Japanese poems
written by Ohamano-ohji and Nukata-no-ohkimi
How were these poems expressed outloud in centuries ago?
Even the stories of Genji seemed to be read outloud in a certain style
I really have no clue at all. It is so foggy

I live in the area where there is a strong dialect
but elderly and young people speak differently today
Like my grandma and my relatives, they talk in such a soft and
mild tone. I think I need to record their conversations before they die
b/c there are some words that we`re not familar with anymore
How do words fade out?

I work for a manufacturer and the working hours are 12 hours a day every day, so I can't study
on weekdays.
You know, learning something is a lot of fun!

It is funny that when people in the same area are all together
all those words suddenly pops out. Even I get confused and
need to ask them the meaning of the words
They have really hard time explaining b/c it is all about this very
sensitive sense. So I asked them the sentence then I kinda get it

12hours is a whole a lot of work!
Maybe you`re somebody who really love learning the foreign language
I noticed that some people really are into learning things like having
some appetites about it
Unfortunately, I do not like studying the foreign language
I really hope that I had that type of a talent but I really enjoy music,
both playing and listening

Don`t you think that world is made just so perfect b/c
I am really lazy and not that smart so maybe God gave me the environment
and the luck, at least
When I was in middle school, my parents were called by this teacher saying that
maybe I need to re-do 7th grade once again b/c I don`t turn no homework
I really believed that everyone is going forth eventhough the study is poor so
I was so suprised and started studying. It was fun and I really got a good grade on
some subjects. If I was raised in Japan, I`ll probably studied nothing

Aw this "God made me do this , God gave me this" kind of resaoning is
so terrible! It will give you excuse to do nothing and stop your progress.
I hate lazy people but you are neither lazy nor stupid. You are simply
confused between western values and Japanese values.
Don't let your pure Japanese soul be corrupted by foreign religion.

Self pity, regret and guilt damage human spirit.
You will find all that in all foreign religions.

>>517 I respect hard working people. Best wishes with your study.

I'm home now.
>>522
According to Friedrich Nietzche, a German philosopher, Christianity is a kind of religion which consists of ressentiment.

>>523
Respect often turns into love. Can I expect that?

I was sleeping today and mom came in to my room crying
and I asked her why and she told me that this mom and a child died w/o
no food and money. Her son was only 3 yrs old and he was the same age
as my nephew. I really do not like ignorance of all the emotions and feelings
Too much competition sometimes makes people way too selfish and arrogant
As you see, the world is filled with competition and that`s the fact
but I do not want to live in the world where I feel so peace. Like I said,
I am Lybra. I love balance on things

I really think hard work is very important thing but looking back on
value in 19th century, you`ll be suprised to hear that this pope
had just the same idea as you guys did for those people who did not have
enough to eat. Although, that Industrialization in England was not possible
w/o those poor workers. I always thought Christianity based Capitalism and
Japanese Capitalism are somehow so different. Now we are becoming more Capitalistic
although we weren`t actually not capitalistic at all before

Japanese weren`t Christians but we used to had similar kind of value
My grandfather shared everything he had, eventhough, he was also so poor
My grandmother needed a sewing machine to have some money but he gave away
to those who are more poor
I think those are also our traditional philosophy toward life

>>526 That is terrible. You can live without money but not food or shelter.
Just as you explained regarding the agricultural life being eradicated,
your nation needs to go back to your roots and recover the humanistic
values somehow. There was a drama with Ikuta Toma as the lead. He leaves
Tokyo to go to a declining rural area to work as a temporary worker.
He has to make decisions at the end, about his life, an dfor the people
who have now become dependent on him. won't tell you the surprising ending.
It is very refreshing to watch, I would recommend it.

>>524 I used to read Nietzche, but it did not sink in until I travelled
a little. However anyone can see that religion is a great troublemaker
and a curse to humankind. No need to be a German philosopher to see that.

>>525 Respect is more important than love.
It is universal. Love is too obsessive and specific.
Though there is a transition from respect to admiration,
then love, I perefer to respect people without that attachment.

>>529
I know. I sometimes feel that some people aren`t like Japanese at all
They`re just like nothing. I feel that way b/c living in so many different countries,
somehow gave me the feeling about my own nationality
Living only inside the domestic, probably we no need to know about our own country but
as long as we contact with the people from other countries, we must know where we come from
Or you`ll be treated as you`re nothing
I must see that drama. It seems very interesting

Osozaki no Himawari
http://www.dramacrazy.net/japanese-drama/osozaki-no-himawari/
I am a huge Toma fan as you can tell.
But every single actor just shines in that drama.

I admit sometimes religion is a troublemaker but
can you guys see that the only countries where politic is not
absorbed with religion is just Japan and England
If you live somewhere out of these countries, the most countries are so different
I always hate to resist every single piece of value b/c I think
that is also same with the side-effect of religion

It is often very interesting to find out that politic is also the same with
living with a partner. The best thing is never say the truth
That is the clue for the everlasting lol
Like having hatred toward mother in law, those are feeling you have
got to hide for the rest of your life. We often express those feelings
when you end things

小室直樹さんによると資本主義というのはキリスト教的精神があって初めて
成り立つものらしい。
簡潔に言えば資本主義に不可欠な「契約」は人と神との縦の契約を人と人との横の
関係に置き換えることによって成り立っているということ。
マックスウェーバーの「プロテスタンティズムの倫理と資本主義の精神」を読めば
そのあたりの事情がよくわかるらしい。
日本に何故資本主義が根付いたかというと明治維新の近代化の際、神の代替として天皇を
戴くという政策を当時の政治指導者たちが考え出したからだとか。

So is there still a contract between God and ordinary man in Japane?
Or the corporations replaced the emperor?

I was pretty curious about Myanmar. Aung San Suu Kyi was released from
jail and now she is working on democratic govt
While I was watching news, I heard that they expect more of the Japanese system,
where middle class people prospher. Honestly, what Japan had done after WWII was
fantastic, I mean by economic way. It was possible b/c we didn`t have any conflict
regarding about religion. Some people say that Japanese do not have no religion,
but elderly did have religion. More like Shinto or Animism

They were highly discipline type of people. Although,
there were a bad side, where many were just so exclusive, i guess
by watching my elderly close to me
Around 70s, many of young people broke discipline but they did
not build up the new society. Only thing they did was that they just broke it
From 70s, everything are left that way w/o no basic measures
I do not know whether it`s good or bad, but I feel some sense of crisis
I`m no related to politics or economic but I think most people who live in
this country with normal sense are feeling this way

I feel pretty odd when some people talk about Capitalism and
they have no feeling of sin for their own affairs
I do not say it`s bad but I just feel so odd b/c I believe in discipline
Several centuries ago, Christianity spread in Kyushu area. I had been to
Nagasaki but I noticed many women were involved in Christianity
I thought about it, background of their history, and realized that in those
time, people suffered with internal wars and starvation. I guess many women
lost their loved ones. My relatives are from Kyushu but they are more traditional and
very stubborn type of people. It kind of make me understand why some women got so involved
in Christianity eventhough their life was in stake

According to Darwin, every species which do not adapt to the new environment
will extinct eventually. I feel that way also but I actually do not care
I was here, I lived with my own honest feelings and I really love my way
Although, within couple more years, I think people really desire for some kind
of the dicipline. I will go with the flow for things I do not care, but
for some value I care so much of, I`ll just stick with it

She quit her regular job.
After that, she looked and looked for jobs, which were not like her first job.
She can't pay back for her scholarship for which she had had easy learning days.

He repaid a part of his scholarship, but his payment was sent for payment delayal.
Who can keep on paying well enough?

>>540
Middle aged whore! You got a divorce right? The bible severely criticise it! How can you justify it?! Huh?

Fuck Christians! They are so hypocrites!
I wish all retarded fucking Christians will be wiped out from this beautiful world... It will be so peaceful without self serving fucking radical Christians.... *sigh*

>>542
are you talking to me? I don`t have no scholarship
I was asked for the different jobs but I did not want to work full day
and I was interested in other fields but I was not confident if
I can stay there for full time
But it is good that others feel that way b/c they treat me nice
Not with jealousy

>>544
Well, divorce is not good as a Christian but there was some
strong reason for my divorce, which is even acceptable
Please do not mix me up with other divorced people
I know there will be a lot of reasons for divorce but
mine was pretty unique. I had no affair, I did not ruin anything
I was a good wife and a partner. It was just unfortunate

Although, it was much better to know what the marriage is all about
than not marrying at all. Some would want divorce but they got too much
of problems with divorce or luggage with them, they surely cannot throw them away

I had many conflicts but I enjoy my life so much now. What comes in priority in my life
is that my family, my work, eating something I love, and myself. I have very least priority on a partner and sex
I do not want to carry many luggage with me. I rather enjoy being alone, or I am just used to it
If I haven`t married only once in my life time, I would probably felt sad but from seeing the
good and the bad, I am more free than before

>>547
In conclusion, you are a hypocrite.

I had so much fun with my ex and another ex
What more can I expect in my life
I got many sweet memories and I am somehow satisfied, like 70%
I have this feeling that if I have a child, maybe that will be nice but
I might going to lose other good part of my life
I never had abortion, I never had chance to have a baby
and maybe this is my life

>>549
show me someone who is not a hypocrite?
As you age, people make a living lying to her/himself
There is nothing bad about it
you`re too young
If ur not a hypocrite then you can not live with no other

You made a good decision.
You would rather care for your parents than raise children.

You are so Christian! They always criticise things like abortion homosexuality and they conveniently ignore things like divorce obesity as fuck.... by the way the fucking bible criticise these as well
And then people point to the fact that the bible criticise divorce or whatever, christians immediately try to defend themselves

What a shameless fucking arrogant shit....

SHAME ON YOU

This is why I hate Christians....You are TERRORISTS!!

FUCK CHRISTIANS FUCK CHRISTIANS FUCK CHRISTIANS

Religion spreads like a disease even in highly civilised
unique societies like Japan. Fortunately it doesn't seemed to have
a huge impact. Perhaps the education system helped.

>>563 Why are you on FLAME mode 24/7.
Can you not say things calmly, or you on someillegal drug or is it your nature
to swear, shout and be abusive like this?
What is the problem?
I dare you to give me a calm, decent answer.

Care giver san
Your problem is how to deal with yourself and the outside world.
As you yourself said, you are just not flexible. You don't want to change.
Since you cannnot change the world, you have to compromise a little.
But you need to move beyoond dogma, beyond fixed ways of thinking
and out of your comfort zeone , if you want ANYTHING positive
happening to you.
Otherwise do not expect change.

>>555
Actually there are tons of freaking Christians out there in japan
Last week I went to the Shibuya crossing and saw this freaking guy holding a picket saying something like in japanese "if you don't believe in Jesus, the world will be over" WTF

I guess in the uk there are tons of radical Muslims and Christians right?

I just saw a movie called, "conversations with other women" b/c
I really like Helena Bonhem Carter, but that was so wonderful
I cried a bit (*_*)
I kind of understand how they felt about breaking up
There were a lot of romantic phrases which women really want to hear and
how this heroin flatter is so sad but it was just so understandable
I never liked Titanic or The Madison Bridge but it was just the opposite
of those movies

>>559
Boring you terrorist
Also I hate it when you use emoticon
So gross

I mean she says some jokes but I understand her feelings more, in that way
very serious situation. Not flatter. It was all about their conversations but
the movie was something that past is the past and time just leaves us behind
no matter what we do. It is painful but it`s something that we call sweet sorrow

Boring boring boring boring

>>560
Well, this is my thread^m^
don`t you dare forget about that(^o^)／

Well this is your thread but I made this thread for YOU
don't forget it you hypocritical retard

I think you should thank me for that

>>558 If you are >>556 or the nattou brain guy,

I am glad we can converse.

I always think of Japan as a very unique
and beautiful way of existence, alternative to the so called Western world.
I hate to see that tainted by foreign religions. That is such a shame.

Well I live in a university town, the natives are not so educated but
the university has a huge impact. I live in an academic bubble.
The moment I step out to London I can see the huge difference in IQ and religious
preferences. It is just that ignorant people are more religious,
you can see that straight away. Although the town I live in has
many churches they have to organise dinners, bands, concerts, dances etc
to attract people. Churches are run mainly by the elderly.
But things are changing in the churches. They now have women priests.
Next they will have to deal with their homophobia.
They create problems for humans then resist to accept that they are
making life hell here on earth.
Will there be a time when humans realise their fragile existence
and get real? You may need ethics to exist together but you don't need
religion.

What I meant is that the church attendance is so low they had to attract
people by organising these events.

At first, I really did not like this guy in that movie
but his facial expression was o so perfect and it was so nice!
I`m too tired to see actions and all that. I think I`m too old for that
I used to hate watching movies like this b/c I didn`t understand at all

KameGirl, don`t you think when there is the world without ethics, isn`t it easy to
let others know that you`re religious. People won`t bother you anymore
Maybe in the net people say things whatever they want to say but
in the real life, people just stay away from my own value
I do not like sex w/o responsibility and having conversation about affair
with some nasty people. Maybe I am not flexible but I was always told that
I`m too rigid and laughed about those things. I wouldn`t like to be treated that way
So when they know that I`m so religious, most people stay away from me from those topics

When I broke up with my husband, this girl told me that was I ever having an affair?
I guess those things are so natural thing to do for some people. Although, I have this
strong hatred. I read some blogs but I am bit confused to read about people having relationship
with other partner before they break up completely. For their own safety
I am Christian, but whenever I tell them I am Christian, they stop asking me about those kind
of stupid questions. It really makes my nerve healthy without hearing some nasty people`s comments

>>565 Actually i can converse but I usually don't do that lol

> The moment I step out to London I can see the huge difference in IQ and religious
preferences. It is just that ignorant people are more religious, you can see that straight away.

You mean in London people are more liberal and tolerant and educated?

>>569
How about converting to Muslim?

Before I learned about Christianity, my relatives were all so strict
and I was raised that way since I was very young
Our ancestors were Bushi and we have many very strict rules
It is easy to tell them that I was raised that way but it is just a totally bad taste
I hate people who brags about those things
My hatred probably came from how I was raised
So if I say that I`m Christian, people easily understand
I do not have to explain things or feel really bad about them either
Although, I really love Christianity

even though Christians have been killing so many innocent people in the name of god? Right?

I know. Sometimes religion can be really scary
but I wouldn`t think every Christian believe in that action
Eventhough we have our own religion, every single person is him/herself
We are all alone. No matter where we belong or being with others, even with loving family
people sometimes feel so isolated
It would be so comfortable to be soaked top to bottom with one`s belief
Although, in time of emergency, I believe most people find their
own way of excuses
The religion sometimes are so powerful to control over people
in time of crisis. I believe there is nothing different between religious and
non-religious people. It`s their luck and people just have to rely on their own virtue alone

I don`t even trust myself that much until I face those situations
Who knows. All I know is that even if we survive with multiple of lies
after all the things happened, we only feel so much guilt, grief, and shameness
That is what Bible telling me. See, if human is not that weak, we no need to have
no religion. I know that I am very weak so I need it very much
I think I am better than those who are not aware of their weakness

If you know you are weak, thou shouldst seek strength.
Not merely succumb to religious dogma.

>>570 London, has become too diverse a metropolis. More tolerant
than where I live. But the average IQ level is definitely diluted in London.
Business, arts and culture and partying seem more important to Londoners.

Today this foreign customer called me, "girl"
I was totally like what? I don`t like high heel so I had this flat shoes on
but I was really so upset
My gosh! He couldn`t even see my boobs sticking out

>>576
If people are strong enough then they no need to have no religion
Ironically, weak people tend to rely on the religion
It`s just a value. Not right or wrong as long as one doesn`t mess with others values
In the foreign countries, it was so easy to have our own opinion (not all but mostly) but
here in Japan, if one is having affair, he/she never thinks of those who has a huge hatred of
those things. They just laugh at those who accuses them. But it is really nice to say that I am
Christian so that I do not need to hear about those stupid things they`re having. I just wish them
go to HELL asap

>>578
He or she knows you are in 30s but I guess that person is so polite or something

Or you are part Asian so you look younger to that foreign customer I guess

>>579
＞>>576
＞It`s just a value. Not right or wrong as long as one doesn`t mess with others values

Actually you christians have been fucking up other people values and lives....

Shame on you!

I really do not want to discuss about Christian thing with you guys
I think this is all parallel and it`s not good thing to talk about either
I hate it
There is nobody Christian in 2ch
Well, it is rare to see Christian in Japan

In that case I recommend this thread below

English through Christian Bible
http://awabi.2ch.net/test/read.cgi/english/1358597735/

This is a place for "kichigai" like you

Actually you christians should go to hell because you terrorists deserve it!
Well I don't believe in hell nor heaven that's so stupid LOL

moron

Fucker

I do not know if youre the same person but I`m a woman so I need no sex but
a man w/o sex is kinda weird. You keep on swearing b/c maybe your testrone is
having some trouble. I know Japanese education is somewhat so not healthy
that many are living society but somehow not fit in. Some guys really do not
have no access to not a single woman. That`s pretty miserable for a guy`s life

Well, if ur gay then maybe you need no girl but if ur not then
how are you going to live, if ur mom passed out?
Many freaked out with that kinda reality when they got so old and
gone to a woman like Kijima. You know that`s just only the tip of the iceburg
Because when I was married, I heard those kind of stories so many times. Men weren`t
killed but guys like in his 50s and 60s, they spent so much money for women and got dumped eventually

When I watch my nephews, they hardly cannot live without mother
They always want to stick with mom all the times. That`s really cute
My sis has all the control over kids, husband, and a dog
Men is just a piece of a women. No matter how they tried to ignore it,
fact is just a fact. Women can live without men but reverse is quite unusual
except gays. Their mental is just like women sometimes, maybe that`s why
But if you`re men, don`t get stubborn. The guys need to listen to what women say

Bla bla bla bla bla

Get a life you terrorist

I think it's time for you to kill yourself

Well I don't care whether suicide is akin to murder in retarded fucking Christianity

I'm sure you will go to heaven!
So just go ahead ^^

>>590
get out of my thread and stop wasting lines
eventhough, I said something true, it really makes me laugh
that you can only say, "die u Christian"
ur sperm is dying in the real life

>I said something true

LOL

i can feel your 汗汗汗

Gross don't feel it pervert
Speaking of pervert, you worship child molester right? This is so wrong!
How could you justify child molesters who predate innocent children.....

Fucking Christians

I mean sexual predator!

Don't you feel any guilty? Huh? You also defend these perverts as well? Just because they are Christians?

Omg... I hate this world...because of those Christians...

子供に手を出す奴なんてどこにでもいる。別にキリスト教の聖職者に限ったことじゃないだろ。
世間の人々が期待を寄せている職業人がその期待を裏切るような犯罪を行なうと社会に与える
インパクトが大きいのでニュースになり世間の耳目が集まる。警察官や教師の不正なども
然り。
お前はその情報に踊らされているだけの哀れなやつ。

English please?

So you are practically saying its totally fine to sexually assault young innocent boys even tough they criticise, say, homosexuality? Right? Isn't it so hypocritical? Also they teach sex as a sin right?

>>597
If I had such a good command of English, I would have done that from the beginning.

>>599
Try!

だいたい、キリスト教って信仰心さえ持てば誰でも明日から私クリスチャンですと名乗れる
いい加減な宗教なんだから、そんなものを十把一絡げにして批判してもしょうがないだろ。
その証拠に戒律の厳しいイスラム教徒になる日本人なんて聞いたことがない。

That`s true because I hate abortion and affairs but I don`t respect
my parents that much. Not hard working either
They keep on yelling about Christians but no one is ever perfect
That is the only reason some study Bible. Not like if you`re Christian
you are so good with everything. I really hate my mom because we do not get
along very well, but if I had no those conflicts then why would I ever have to
read the Bible. It is easy to say be nice to others but it is so hard to do
Instead of running away from house, instead of drinking, instead of facing mom,
I just read Bible

People who has this family problem, they tend to rely on religion like me
I had seen many people like that. It`s just like you can never get away from it
People who had good relationship with their own parents, they do not need no religion
They just have hard time believing people who get so into religion. Unfortunately, I wasn`t that lucky one
I had suffered with my mom since I was a teenager and still I can`t stand her sometimes
I feel completely lost when she cries like a child b/c I had never cried like that in front of my parents
Everyone got so many issues and some goes to sex, some goes to bullying, some goes to Bible, and
maybe some just conquor those feelings somehow

>>601
English please

Actually, I hate a word conquor. It seems it`s not in my dictionary
I think the best thing is just forget about it and just go with the flow
Too bad for all those. I don`t fight no more but I`ll just give up
I gave up most of the things, including my marriage
There is nothing more stupid thing than having unnecessary boring conflicts

Good for you

>>605
sorry to change the subject. can you eat alone at a famiresu.

>>603
I wanna let you cry to your heart's content in my chest. lol

>>607
Of course I can! What the heck kind of question is that?

>>609
you are brave
when i once ate alone at bikkuri donkey, a family gave me the "how pity this person is" stare.
Since then, I haven't been to a famiresu.

How about hanabi taikai? can you go to hanabi taikai by yourself?

I think it was an illusion caused by your anxiety.
If you ask the family how they felt about you at the time, they'll be sure to answer something totally
different from what you said.

>>610
Actually I really don't care how other people view me at all. If I want to eat out at famitesu, I just eat there. That's it.

I always like give "fuck you! What's wrong with you?!" stare when someone gives me that kind of pity looking.

Hanabitaikai is also fine

I want to go to hanabitaikai with you and see the firework reflected in your eyes.

...........gross

What a reaction!
If you take my word seriously, it is your side that the word "gross" can apply to.

lol
I feel like sucking big cock! Anyone?

My cock is so big that you can't suck it.
It is like a big mushroom whose umbrella is wide open.
What do you call it in English? goose or something. I forgot.

You guys are so nice to feel that way
I feel I don`t wanna go out with nobody
Fortunately, eventhough my wage is so low, I love my job so far
It kinda makes me forget about all the pain I had
I also enjoy exercise while I take a walk from home to the working place
I had 10 years of relationships with my exes and at that time, I thought
I couldn`t live without them but it`s so nice to find out I can live without them

BTW, I feel so much better w/o guys in my life
I don`t expect nothing as long as I have no relationships
That is so not a stress. It was funny to notice that I was filled with
pain and stress when I was with them but I really tried to fix things up and
got worse
As I said, I have to improve a relationship with my parent, just a bit
The emptiness I had with them, probably effected the relationships
with my exes. It is so ironic but I feel so much stable being alone

Women never learn. You get into trouble with men all th etime.
Why bother? Stay alone and treasure your bachelor life!
Yey for girlpower! There is always a Johnny's out there for every girl.
just kidding,,,,

Sorry to tell you this but I do not have any interest about Johnny guys
They are way too thin and that`s not so sexy to me
I do not like guys who workout either though
Also I don`t like guys who fools around a lot
I always wanted a child and that`s why I wanted to get married
but my period is getting worse every year and if I can not have a child then I don`t have
no interest about marriage. I used to trust love but it all turned out to be
so miserable. I got a lot of issues but I don`t feel like facing them all

There are a lot of bachlor in my relatives. Especially women
They all had this phobia for men and they surely are virgins
Because all the relatives were talking that they`d never seen them
with a single guy in their whole life. Maybe it runs in the family
We`d all been to all girls school that`s something we have in common
We all love to watch TV and just get satisfied watching some of the stories
And very very high morality with so much of rigid mind
I hate my blood

It is not bad though
They`re away from all the troubles
We are so used to being alone more than others, I guess
My sis has different personality than I am, so I always see her
using her cell pushing bottons so fast. She never like to be by herself
That is why she has this family with a lot of babies
I had done some blind dates but it just makes me so exausted
I hate returning mails and getting on the phone. So I just leave them
Mom got on the phone one day because she was worried that it was just ringing
so many times. I got so pissed and told her to leave the way it was
Too many phobia make one`s life so difficult to live

おまえら脇毛ボーボー

脇毛きんもー☆

don`t waste my lines

I met this sick guy today in the morning while I was walking to the workplace
He asked me out saying like " Have you finished ur work?"
I was like...it`s only 7 in the morning and I really didn`t understand
what he was saying...
He looked like guys who are stuck with Porn or something
And I noticed that he was following me for so long from behind

I really hate guys who comes from behind. I always say no when they
asked me out from behind, no matter what. Because it is just so creepy

Why do some guys look like they have just finished seen a porn?
It is so gross
It was so early in the morning and I was feeling so fresh and
somehow it all seemed like I have smelled a bad odor from the toilet
They should ask girls out in the afternoon
It was very rude

I think your all story is your imagination right? You just want to get some attention...by acting like an insane psycho

I am not that normal but not psycho at all

are you a perv?

If your story would be true, he just looked on you as a woman who works in a bar or nightclub or something.
Normally, people tend to judge a book by its cover, so you must have dressed in something flashy.

Her all story is real? If so, her life is totally fucked up

>>631
I did not wear something flashy. I even wore rain boots today
Although, he sounded like he was treating me that way
b/c he told me something like "have you finished ur work?"
like 7 in the morning? He looked like he never had a sleep
so creepy

Sometimes, it happens to me and I totally have no clue
b/c I wear nothing flashy and it`s not even that kind of street
where I was walking

I have black hair and flat shoes most of the times
Why some treat me like that?

Maybe you look like a hooker or "easy" woman

I know. That is why I am so upset

脇毛ボーーーーーーーーーーーボーーーーーーーーーーー

I want to go to Miyajima. I like deer meet.

meet☞meat

Show us your hairy armpits!

I hate cream puffs

Some guys do not change their shirts even if it`s summer and sweaty
They keep on emitting this weird odor all over the place
Even deers won`t get nearby
The black t-shirt is no good during summer b/c it collects
light and heat. It is even seems pretty nasty when they have
this white garbage and dandruff clinging on to their own black shirts
I believe guys wouldn`t need to be so fashionable but being neat is
very important

It is so important to wash the back of your ears b/c that is exactly
the place where odors exist. Nowadays, there are very good shirts and
it is not that expensive. Do not wear something shabby. That looks so awful
The worn-out clothes only works for the guys like Brad Pitt

What about you? You don't rock any clothes because you are ugly as hell

>>643
you really had a harsh time
good luck for ou

Actually I've been curious could you upload your face picture here, middle aged woman?
Sounds like you are a beautiful woman because you have some European blood and apparently some guy flirted with you yesterday

Don't be shay! You are beautiful! Upload your beautiful face for these ugly men in 2ch!

What kinda bitch upload her pic in anonymous thread?
I think you guys are just joking but keep in mind that
normal girls are not like one of those people who upload her own
pics everywhere without no hesitation. Maybe you guys are too
used to that kind of sense but that is very abnormal

Come on!
You are a strong, independent, beautiful woman!
Show us your beautiful face!

Keep in mind that if you are treating women in that way,
the only women you ever get is those type
On the other hand, smart guys actually know how to respect women
in a certain way
Although, this is just an anonymous thread so I don`t expect so much
morality here anyways

>>648
If you just hate women then go somewhere else
As it said, this is Obasan`s thread
Hope you`re not blind

Wtf?! I'm treating you so nicely....
Bitch....

I made this thread. If you have problems with that, you should make a new thread fucker

Oh i see now I understand! You can't upload your face picture because you must so ugly right?
You are acting like you are a hot chick like having European blood and can find guys as much as you want BUT in fact you are helpless ugly....

>>652
It`s not fair. You GAVE this thread to me so it is mine now
>>653
That is so pointless

>>654
Oh fucker all you do is just bla bla bla bla bla like Korean

It`s not that bad. If all the women stop talking then
it will be so strange
We keep ourselves healthy by talking blah blah blah all the times
It`s also good with your lungs if you speak out but
it`s good with ur brain when you type

I really hope that the elderly learn how to type so at least they
can stop complaining through the telephone making some young workers
so disgusted. It`s also so healthy for their brain exercise, like using fingers
I sometimes imagine maybe 70yrs old lady acting like she`s in her 20s
chatting with JJI.
JJI " so how old are u"
BBA " Im only 20yrs old. Not that good looking though..."
JJI " oh I really don`t mind how girls look lol" (like really LOL)

BBA " really. u must be so flattering. but it`s really nice to hear that
b/c my bf never make any completment like that"
JJI " how old is ur bf "
BBA " oh he is very old " (like his teeth merely left)
JJI " u must be a very nasty girl"
BBA " lol" (LOL I just got poop on my pants)

JJI " I really wanna see you"
BBA " oh that is really heart-stopping" (I just got my pacemaker a yr ago)
JJI " ur kinda cute"
BBA " Id never heard that for such a long time" (ｗｗｗ)

Im gonna have conversations with young guys when I become like
in my 50s so I could just enjoy everything!
Nice thing that we can type!

BBA!WAKIGE!
BBA!WAKIGE!

>>66
Do you have a fetish for WAKIGE?
AS for me, I like OOOO best of all the body parts of a woman. lol

Even when I asked who you look like, you ignored my question.
You are such a stingy person.
As the host of this thread, you have an obligation to treat us with the spirit of self-sacrifice.

She looks like a cheap hooker! That's for sure!

I really do not understand about the gambling addiction
There was this guy asking about his gambling addiction and
it said that he still receive some money from his own parents and
when his mom asked for some he got pissed and threw few money at her

He said that he can not quit b/c it kinda makes him feel like that he is a God

That is what my ex-boyfriend told me and I thought that he was just joking
b/c I had never been to Pachinko and I really did not know what kind of people
they are. It was totally NOT part of my usual life

OMG and he seems a little self-loving
Just like my ex-boyfriend. I really do not know why in the hell
I have gone out with that ass-hole
Mistake is just a mistake but that was a huge one. Like a crater dropped on the earth
Because whenever I see how he liked himself, it always made me feel somehow
so disgusted

I should have been more true to myself but I kept on saying to myself,
"he is just not doing well NOW, maybe things will get better later on"

My Gosh! If I ever had a time machine, I would probably be there asap
and I slap myself until I get myself into coma or something

I mean I don`t refuse all the part of my ex-boyfriend, he sure did have
nice parts but that was really NOT a good relationship
I was also really stupid. I was just too kind and innocent at that time

What did I got? I got pain which I can share with somepeople
who is having same experience. I don`t call them stupid b/c
I know how these girls are really serious and not knowing much about the world,
maybe they were just unlucky in that moment

There was this wife with kids, who had to divorce her own husband b/c
he was never able to quit from gambling and kept on borrowing money
I felt so much pain b/c while those parents were talking, somehow I was
being with those kids and they were so young to know about the reality

How could just anyone can do such a thing? That is so terrifying
It is really unbelievable

CG SAN WHERE ARE YOU???

Im nearly alive. I wrote this scary horror story
I had this reply saying that the story wasn`t even good and this person
told me that I`m so creepy. He made fun of me instead

I honestly thought I had done so well. I read this to my sis
on the phone and she told me that " it`s not scary but it`s really sick"
and I was pretty hurt for awhile

Who cares. It is just an anynomous
I had fun writing those things
I really really love scary stories and I really wonder how could
anyone write down such a scary one?

Japanese traditional scary stories are so splendid

I was watching "Cool Japan" and this guide, she was really perfect
So many foreigners ask so many questions about the things that we normally
don`t think of in our daily life
I am working at hotel and many foreigners all over the world ask me
so many questions. Also some Japanese from other prefectures
I write down this notes, so that next time I can answer them more in details

OMG I watched that too LOL
How's it going middle aged woman?

hello (^o^)／
You`ve also watched it! Great
Wasn`t that so interesting?
I love that tour guide. She was just so brilliant

Im just doing fine but it is really humid and hot here
I put on the air conditioner yesterday before I had gone to sleep
I had gone to take a shower so many times today

Yeah she was so great! I wonder how she leant English because her English is great right?

In my area it's super humid too and really uncomfortable I wish I was in Hokkaido or foreign countries where it's not humid at all. It's like a torture for me

It is really nice to visit other countries during summer, right?
I just had enough with humidity here
It`s not just hot but very humid

Although, too bad that it is pretty strong yen recently and
it`s quite expensive to travel abroad

Anyways, I gotta job so it`s really hard for me to take several days off
The good thing is that they are having this manner course eventhough
I`m just a part time employee. Isn`t that so wonderful!

＞Although, too bad that it is pretty strong yen recently and
＞it`s quite expensive to travel abroad

You are so baka

omg! that`s so true
im so baka(>_<)
anyways, everyone makes mistakes once in a while

>>674
you know what?
I definitely think that it is not that polite to point out
every mistake that people make
Eventhough I see some mistakes, I really don`t point them out
I just read them thru
I just think that this person just made a mistake
This is really mean

imo, pointing out mistakes is not always mean.
I think he or she wanted you never to be humiliated in public.

>>676
Whatever

I am really lucky
I was told to attended this class
I`d learned many interesting things and
it sure was a easy day

I met this girl and she was only 22
She was really cute and she looked just like Maki Horikita
Her skin was really PERFECT
I really miss my old good days
When was those days anyways? I totally don`t remember

She told me that compare to in her 10s, time goes so fast
in her 20s. So then I told her that, I`m in my 30s, and
it is really really fast like Shinkansen SUPER expresss

She said, "oh so then mine is like Kodama"
(!!!really nice humor she has)
I replied, " yeah, mine is like Hikari or Nozomi"
"I will be like a jet later on, and who cares after 50!
It all seems the same"

http://youtu.be/iIIuR-HjFho

http://awabi.2ch.net/test/read.cgi/english/1371720715/

It's a third rate humor.

In chat in English thread, there was a time when Horikita Maki was very popular among them but it soon
faded out
She is a typical example of so-called "Bi syoujyo" and this word reminds me of a song sung by Inoue Yousui;いつのまにか少女は

>>684
I love that song. That song was what I used to hear after breakup
and eventhough I feel like a girl, Im not a girl anymore but oban, oh my! too frightening...
I thought why in the hell I got mind to breakup but it was funny to
find out the core part never changes
Being adult is just the left over of junks of purity

Sometimes, I am so glad that I could be able to read many of the splendid
poems which are written in Japanese
They are so delicate and filled with senses

I also love Edgar Allan Poe`s "Annabelle Lee"
I had met that book when I was in middle school and I really loved it
with really nice illustration

read it.

I loved to read Christian writer Miura Ayako's works. She was a story-teller, whose books I did not omit reading almost all.
.

>>688
oh! I love her book too
I`ve read 「氷点」
The story is about the sin and the forgiveness based on teach of the Bible
I cried so much when I read that book

Many Christian authors really inspired me since I was a teenager

I really love the authors who have their own core or belief
We really need to be flexible in order to live, but faith is not something
which is detroyed by the others

So how can you justify slavery?

It was really nice to read such great novels in my teen b/c
I feel that when I read them now, I believe, that it probably
would not be so inspring as it did in my teen years

I had thought about many things and felt so much pain by reading those books
I learned how people are really strong and so weak

Also believing the existance of God really help some people
to go through some tough times, including me

>>690
That is very tough question and I thought about it years and years
I believe in no slavery, although I believe that not all the people
can make their own decisions

Do you remember when Berling wall falls out and East and West Germany were combined?
After all those happened and the people in the East have fled to West
Although, some of those people really wanted to return to East side
b/c they had had hard time deciding everything. For instance, eventhough
they want to choose the refridgerator, there are many types and they were
just exausted by just choosing them b/c they were not used to that kind of circumstance
I`d read it from Nanami Shiono`s essay but it was really confusing but very convincing

Don't change the subject
I think you christians should take your responsibilities

Everyone really calls out for freedom but freedom is not easy as what we think
We only scream for good parts of it but we don`t really focus on
the negative part of the freedom

Most citizens are just fine if government is stable and the govt are really good with
controlling citizens, unless we are exposed to danger of our own lives

Including me, I believe, most people are not all that good with handling the freedom
The true freedom comes with the huge responsibility

Honestly, I feel pretty comfortable being Christian b/c
I am very frightened and coward

Not every human is a challenger, or can not be a challenger
Also I feel comfortable doing the right thing little by little
and I feel good when I apologize when I did something wrong

If I believe no God in this world, I could have done everything I wanted to
but the aftermath would be a disaster and so stressful

For me, it would be so much better to believe in something

神の存在を信じるだけならそれはまだキリスト教信者と呼べないと思うけどね。
キリストが聖書の中で語っている言葉を神からの預言だと信じそれに従って行動することをもって初めて
キリスト教の信者になるんじゃないの。
つまり宗教を信じるいうことは外から与えられた規範に従うことを意味する。
宗教者が往々にして落ち入る陥穽がここにある。形骸化という陥穽が。
The nearer the church, the farther from God という箴言はまさにこのことを
指摘しているような気がする。

そ

Although the book is well-known, I've never read it before.
I'm going to read it after fishing a novel I'm reading now.
When it comes to books, I'm so fashion-conscious that I'm reading 夜のピクニック now.

自分の考えや行動を深く省みることのほうが特定の宗教に入信するよりずっと宗教的な
人生を送れるような気がする。

昨日は久々に三浦綾子さんのエッセイを読んでいたら、
戦争で帰還兵が帰ってきた時に石を投げられたり、もう虚無的になって
何もしたくなくなった男性がいたんだけど、聖書に出会ってすごく救われたらしいの
私もそうだったなと思って

ここぞという時に聖書は威力を発揮すると思う。人には正しい事をしたいという
要求があって、生きる事がなにか意味のある事だと信じたい事があるんだと思う

偽善者乙

偽善者ということなら上の数吉のほうが数段上手だよ。
奴は自分が施した義捐金のことをさんざん吹聴していたからね。

Take heed that you do not do your charitable deeds before men, to be seen by them.
Otherwise you have no reward from your Father in heaven
Therefore, when you do a charitable deed, do not sound a trumpet before you as the hypocrites do in
the synagogues and in the streets

正しいことのために正しいことをしたいというのなら天晴れな心がけだけどね。
でもキリスト教には最後の審判という思想があって、そこから遡って紐解くと
クリスチャンというのは自分たちが永遠の生を得るために善行を為しているという結論が論理的
帰結として導き出せる。
つまり、海老で鯛を釣ろうというさもしい根性の持ち主どもの集まりとしか
オレには思えない。

もっとも予定説によるとあなたが善行をなそうが不徳の限りをつくそうが
そんなことはお構いなしにあなたの運命はすでに決まっているらしい。
神の御心は人間の思案の外で忖度することすら不遜なことなのだが、彼らは勝手に
神の理想とする人間像を作り出してそれに近づく努力をしている。これを無駄な努力
というｗ

良い行いをすれば良い結果が出てくるものだというのは利益を得るような考え方で
とても俗っぽいとは思う。だけど人間の基本ってそういうものじゃないかなって思う
私もそうだし
だけど聖書があればちょっとは自分が間違っているかも知れないって思えるでしょう
もちろん聖書だけじゃないと思うし、仏教にも良い教えがあると思う
結局このほんのちょっとだけ立ち止まれるかどうかっていう事が人生に大きな豊かさを
自分や周りに与えてくれると思うんだよね

人の欲望にはキリがないから、それが悪いとは私個人は思わないんだけど
だけどそれを少しは自覚しておくと言う事は大事じゃないかと思うんだけど
みんななかなかそれが難しいんだと思うよ
何を信じるのかというのはすごく重要なんだと思う
間違った事を過度に信じすぎて欲望に走り過ぎてもただ虚しくなる事があると思うし、
全く欲望がなければ何もする気が起こらなくなるしね

人がどういう人に出会って、どういう感銘を受けるのかというのは、それぞれ違うと思う
私が育った環境ではクリスチャンの人に共感を得るような出来事が多かっただけだから
そういう縁があったのかなと思ったりする
でも私の父親はよく仏教や、中国の古典や、
坊さんの先生の話をするから、仏縁の方が大きかったんだなと思う

English please?

We were talking about religion
I believe religion topics will always be parallel
It it rather more spiritual experience for those who had a chance to believe in it
Eventhough some experience the same thing, some really do not feel that faith either
It is neither wrong or right
It`s more like what you favor in your life or what fits most to our own personality

日本語でお願いします
すごく読みにくい英語です。

I heard that the bible justifies rape. Is it true?

>>710
This is an English thread you fucker

>>711
where did you hear that?
Violence is always not acceptable in any circumstance

>>710
>>709の訳は
宗教の話はいつも平行線で、同じような経験をした人でも
宗教を信じる人とそうでない人がいて、
むしろ宗教を信じるようになると言うことは本人にとってはとても神秘的な経験だったりする事がある
善悪では決められる事でもないし、それぞれの性格や嗜好に合うか合わないかだと思う

人間原理的な考え方からすると人類全体は神或いはこの宇宙にとって何らかの
意味があるかもしれない。
だって認識対象は認識主観があってはじめて存在し得ると言えるからね。
でも個々の人が生きていることにそういう意味での存在意義があるかといったら疑問だな。
津波による犠牲者を持ち出すまでなく人が不条理に亡くなっていく場面を嫌というほど見せつけ
られると神も仏も無いと思うのが人情でしょ。
サルトルは「人は自由の刑に処せられている」と言ったけど、まあ何の因果が知らないけど気がついて見たらこんな世界に投げ出されて
いてその理由が分からないんじゃ普通の神経の持ち主なら誰だって不安になる。
人生の根底にはつねに茫漠とした不安感が通奏低音のように付きまとっている。なので仮初めでもいいから
何らかの意味を見出したいという気持ちはよく分かる。

>>715
私の基本的な考え方は明日は何があるかわからないから
なるべくみんなが気持ち良く過ごせるように工夫して生きたらいいんじゃないかと思う
だけど人はなかなかそうはいかない、ものすごく強欲なものが根本にあるんだと思う
自分もそう。誰でもそう
死生観を考えるのは良い事か悪い事なのかはわからないけど、人を救う言葉も
人をなるべく人間とする言葉も聖書の中に詰まっていると思う

亡くなる時に「自分は精一杯やって良かった」と思えれば良いのではないかと思う

多少霊感があって、人の魂は亡くなってからも存在する事があるんだなと思ってからは、
この世だけがこの世界ではないかも知れないって思ってる。これは聖書とは全く関係ないんだけどね

霊感だけでなくっても、生きていたら全くの他人なのに救ってくれる人や何か縁のある人も出てくるでしょう？
私はこういうのはとても不思議な経験だなってそう思う事があるんだよね
そもそも非常に道徳的に混乱している時にあえて聖書に出会えたというのは、やっぱり何かの縁だったんだろうなって思う
そういう状況でなければ読まないし、心の中までは沁みて来ないでしょう？

完全に基地外クリスチャンスレだな

不思議な経験が多すぎて、もしかしたら誰にでも少しは思い当たる事があるかもしれない
ものすごく好きな亡くなった作家がいて、小説の舞台に行ったら、たまたまその作家の
親戚に会ったりした。しかも話かけなくってもいいのに、場所がよくわからなくって聞いたら
そうだったんだよね

聖書に出会った事にしろ、元カレに出会った事にしろ、こういう経験にしろ、
本との出会いにしろ、暴走車を把握できたりした事があったし、時々私は何かに生かされているってそう思う事がある

>>718
わからない人はわからないと思う
私も話しても周りが気味が悪いと思うから普段は何も言わないけど

みんな同じなんだけど、ただ気づかないだけだと思う

きんもー☆
本当恥知らずなクリスチャン

まあ霊感商法などその言葉を食いものにしてきた輩のためにそういう能力に懐疑的な
人たちには忌み嫌われているから仕方ないよね。
以前はガチガチの唯物論者だったけど物質と精神はあまりに乖離し過ぎているように
思えたので全てを物質に還元して説明できるのか疑問を持たざるを得ないようになった。
そのうち量子力学の知見や仏教的世界観に触発されて物質というものに対する見方が大きく
変化した。具体的には実体的な見方に対して疑義を抱くようになった。
因みにデカルトに実体に対する定義を辞書から引用すると「「それ自身によって存在し、その存在の
ために他のなにものも必要としないもの」

精神と物質は同じコインの裏表なのかもね。

霊感商法は詐欺が多いと思う
しかも高額な料金を要求するのは宗教でもものすごく胡散臭いと思う
そもそも宗教の教えとはかけ離れていと思う

人の好き嫌いも会った瞬間からあるものだし、第６感は存在していると思う
この人は嫌！と会った瞬間に思えば、まずその直感が間違った事がない

笑っているけどこの人は苦手過ぎるとか、色々とあるものだよね
あまり接点を持たないし、近づかないし、余計な事を喋らないけど

>>723
あんたmiddle aged womanか？

>>713
i found this one. how can you justify this?

A raped, unengaged virgin must marry her rapist and they can never divorce (Deuteronomy 22:28-29).

>>726
(Exodus 22:17)
"If her father utterly refuses to give her to him,
he shall pay money equal to the bride-price for virgins"

I believe that time is so different now. Back then, when women aren`t virgin,
they had hard time getting married, even if she was raped
And so I believe that Bible added the above sentence

It is just so rediculous today, you know that...

how about this one?

A man must marry and have relations with his dead brother’s wife (Deuteronomy 25:5-6)

now its official christians are hypocrites!

the middle aged woman posted these japanese writings?!
if so, thats so new!!

I sometimes also wonder about some quotes from the Bible
Although, think about the period when women had no rights like
what we have today. The human right is founded nearly some decades ago

For most of who says "hypocrites" about the Bible, ironically, the human rights
are mostly based on the Bible. The God created human, and so we are all equal

The Magna Carta which leads to the French Revolution, are all based on the Bible

What do you think about this?

＞The God created human

Prove it NOW

When I spent time with the foreigners who`s backgrounds are based on the Christianity,
they all are so aware of the meaning of the "freedom"
Americans they fought for the freedom, such as, Boston Tea Party and Civil Rights

When we look into our own history, we really did not fight for the freedom
It was just there after WWII and I think some women really struggled and fought for that

So most Japanese really don`t have their backgrounds, so many aren`t so used to
how Christianity works and how it is affecting our lives

>>733
＞When I spent time with the foreigners who`s backgrounds are based on the Christianity,
＞they all are so aware of the meaning of the "freedom"
＞Americans they fought for the freedom, such as, Boston Tea Party and Civil Rights


Yeah it's so ironic they are Christians and the bible justifies the slavery and fought against it

I think in Japan, since we are Island and seperated from other lands,
we do not have no history of getting conquored by the other countries

When I read the Bible, I think that the Western history had much more
harsh parts than what we had. Many who accuse the way Japanese are,
they really did have no interest on our own history

I remember, Yukio Mishima, once wrote on his book something like this
"the foreigners, those who love Japan. Although they love Japan,
they all look very sad"

I understand that b/c when people are raised in value of Christianity,
there is no chance of getting optimistic like most Japanese people are

I am no good with translation but that quote he wrote, really hit my heart
b/c that was so true

OMG you read the book from yukio mishima?!
I didn't know christians read books from gay people....

Christians = homophobes right?

That's so strange.....

Well, I read his book when I was in the middle school
Somehow I took his book knowing nothing about him but
knowing the different value is not that bad
Although, I believe every splendid authors are all poison

how about this one?

Slaves, obey your earthly masters with deep respect and fear. Serve them sincerely as you would serve Christ. (Ephesians 6:5 NLT)

how about this one too?

When a man strikes his male or female slave with a rod so hard that the slave dies under his hand, he shall be punished.
If, however, the slave survives for a day or two, he is not to be punished, since the slave is his own property. (Exodus 21:20-21 NAB)

>>739
Slaves, include the rulers
God is the one which people obeys and the rulers are just rulers.
No more or less than that in the front of God
This idea led to the freedom

here's the homophobic part!
"If a man lies with a male as with a women, both of them shall be put to death for their abominable deed; they have forfeited their lives." (Leviticus 20:13 NAB)

according to this principle, you christians should kill most atheist japanese right?

"They entered into a covenant to seek the Lord, the God of their fathers, with all their heart and soul; and everyone who would not seek the Lord, the God of Israel, was to be put to death, whether small or great, whether man or woman."
(2 Chronicles 15:12-13 NAB)

>>740
Isn`t that the Old Testiment?
They totally had different value back then
As I said, in those days, many of the morality differ so much from today
So it was better to think which decision was the best, between the bad choices
The choices we make, are not always, good and bad. Sometimes, we have to choose
from bad and bad. I guess

so its so all right to kill not virgins with stones right?
"But if this charge is true (that she wasn't a virgin on her wedding night), and evidence of the girls virginity is not found,
they shall bring the girl to the entrance of her fathers house and there her townsman shall stone her to death, because she committed a crime against Israel by her unchasteness in her father's house.
Thus shall you purge the evil from your midst."
(Deuteronomy 22:20-21 NAB)

Anyone who is captured will be run through with a sword.
Their little children will be dashed to death right before their eyes.
Their homes will be sacked and their wives raped by the attacking hordes.
For I will stir up the Medes against Babylon, and no amount of silver or gold will buy them off.
The attacking armies will shoot down the young people with arrows.
They will have no mercy on helpless babies and will show no compassion for the children.
(Isaiah 13:15-18 NLT)

so you christians approve rape and babay killing....

The world is changing gradually. Although I really do not understand and
like gays, the world is still changing

At first, the freedom are for those who have wealth. After the Industrial Revolution
started in England, the workers were in severe condition, the freedom and rights
gradually penetrated through people. After that Colored people, expecially,
African American, they fought for their own freedom

Anyone arrogant enough to reject the verdict of the judge or of the priest who represents the LORD your God must be put to death.
Such evil must be purged from Israel.
(Deuteronomy 17:12 NLT)

OMFG!!!according to this, im going to die nooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!

>>745
Don`t you also remember how Jesus said
" Throw stones if you have no sins"
When people were throwing stones at prostitute?

I am also so frightened by some quotes but I think those are
something to make people frightened about the bad things
Like how your parents tell you about the hell, when we are young

Honestly, I really do not understand about gays
I don`t feel they should be punished but I just don`t understand
There are something that we don`t understand at all

Why are you gay? Don`t worry about the Bible b/c I know that
it really dont suit with your life
Japan is a country where no one really cares much about the Bible
Lucky for you

矛盾してね
http://ja.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E5%90%8C%E6%80%A7%E6%84%9B%E3%81%A8%E3%82%AB%E3%83%88%E3%83%AA%E3%83%83%E3%82%AF%E8%81%96%E8%81%B7%E8%80%85

I lose my words sometimes b/c I cannot explain things well
although I believe some people experience that too

We are all so different and eventhough we share many feeling sometimes,
every individuals, even among wife and husband, we really do not
totally understand about each others

It is really nice to share our own opinions but there is also limit to it
So I think it is always important to know that we really are lonely beings
and there is no full understanding. Like you find it nowhere

>>749
My parents never said something stupid like that

>>750
So why are you straight?

>>751
Because they ARE hypocrites

>>754
it`s the same question. Don`t you dare ask me why I believe in God
It`s one of my nature I cannot fully explain

Although, when I read some Chrisitian authors essays,
I found that everyone experienced some sort of sense of emptiness
I did too. The very deep depression
The wealth really do not really matter but almost I had hard time
breathing b/c I could not believe in anything what I see
I felt so alive when I read the Bible

I give up
This woman is insane and needs to be hospitalised at a mental hospital

I cannot tolerate hearing the sexual harrassment which occured in Kanebo`s
subsidiary company

This company made this woman in 60s wear a "bunny costume"
(bunny costume is something which people in the sex industry uses)
for the punishment that she didn`t achieve her goal

Then they took her pic and show it to the other employees with the slidesshow
(That`s what I read in source here)

By the way, Kanebo is a cosmetic company in Japan
This company`s cosmetics are very good

I deeply wish for the punishment of those people who were involved in this matter

You look beautiful without makeup.

How could anyone do something like this?
It is THE most disgusting way

I cannot ever imagine how much pain this woman received by
this kind of sexual harrassment

I think money is not the only resolution, they should quit their job

Every women enjoy having make-up, no matter what age they are,
feeling young and healthy. How could they ever destroy that like this?
It is not acceptable in anyways
They are in the Cosmetic field and this is nothing but the discrimination towards women
And who is the major customer?

If these issue is true, it should NOT be forgiven

My grandma buys very expensive cosmetics eventhough she is very old
When I was reading through some comments, some says so much painful
thing to this woman, who was harrassed, but I think that is so wrong

They hurt her pride so deeply and the rest of women who loves make-ups

If they are from the other fields, maybe I would just think that they
aren`t quite used to how women feel but they live with it

To me, it was quite a shocking news to hear. They aren`t professional
They are just hypocrites. They make fun of those women who are old

Women hurt men's pride too

＞They are just hypocrites.

LOL

>>657でBBAとか言ってお年寄りを馬鹿にしてる人がそんなこと言うのか
俺から見たらあんたも同じ穴のムジナだよ

このmiddle aged womanは他人に厳しく自分に甘いよね
そしてちょいちょい人が傷つくようなこと平気で言う

You know what...If I am not BBA then I don`t call other people BBA, right?
>>766
Like what?

I think you just want to take an advantage over woman
That is exactly why our conversation is not working well
Because conversation is just to have fun and not thinking about
winning or losing

When I talk about the religious topics, you always scream and do not listen
Like I said,
" there are times, where people don`t understand each other, no matter
how long we talk"

What is making your life so hard?

Maybe you are way too young or maybe your personality is something
that don`t fit me or neither us don`t like our idea much but that`s life

It`s okay to share the opinions, I like it, but it is not okay to
pursuade others to think the way you are. Just accept the difference
I don`t like gays and you don`t like Christians, so what?

>>766
しょうがない。バブルで一番甘やかされて育ったんだから

>>768
So you should die you terrorist

>>769
Actually bubble really didn`t affect my life

I feel so pity for you
I was like that when I was young. I really didn`t like
how people didn`t understand me at all
Actually they did but it wasn`t enough for me

If you`re feeling empty then you`ll soon going to find someone
who will accept all the parts of you
You just don`t have that kind of experience and those people
who don`t really accept itself, they are always insecure and
try to force other to feel the same way

すぐカッとなる

Whatever pyscho

>>771
play it cool

>>772
本当にねwwww

きっとカルシウムが足りないんだろうね

Sometimes I still see some people who seems never been accepted before
in their lives. They are also having hard time, as well as others who
surrounds him/her feels the same way

I know men will have hard time than women to get accepted b/c they
have very high pride and also so scared to be humiliated
They do not know how to express their own emotions

My advice is cry when you want to, whine if you want to,
try not to find the answer right away. Most of the times,
time will just solve your problems and mixed feelings

Just let it be. The rain is going to stop anyways

Okay. You just can`t ruin my own thread
I know it is so hard for you to do something with your temper,
it`s the same thing with me, but you can`t keep on cursing me like this

I just ate very delicious carbonara, and I am feeling so much better now
Maybe you`re the one who said that you can only live with capsule, but
maybe that is somehow affecting your life...eat something nice

today's quote from the bible!

As you approach a town to attack it, first offer its people terms for peace.
If they accept your terms and open the gates to you, then all the people inside will serve you in forced labor.
But if they refuse to make peace and prepare to fight, you must attack the town.
When the LORD your God hands it over to you, kill every man in the town.
But you may keep for yourselves all the women, children, livestock, and other plunder.
You may enjoy the spoils of your enemies that the LORD your God has given you.

What kind of God approves of murder, rape, and slavery?

>>779
There are some points in the Bible, which is hard to understand
from recent values. Also many of the quotes are distorted in past period
because the religious factors are always connected with the power

Although, what is the real religion?
It must be something that really helps human to live
It must be something so secure and opened to everyone who really trust God

It is okay to be skeptical, I think it is much better than to trust in everything,
but all you saying is all the bad parts of the Bible
Is everything has to be all perfect for you in order to believe in something?
Can`t you sometimes imagine that some people are just too weak, that they really
need somethng to believe in order to live through this harsh world

I know many just make fun of religion but I have seen many people enter the religion
whenever they lost their loved ones. There are sometimes, something
unbelievable or unexpected happens in our lives. Maybe you haven`t experienced it, or maybe you are
just strong enought to not needing religion at all, but not all the people are like you

What you are doing is just too arrogant and very very very rude!

坊主憎けりゃ袈裟まで憎いというやつだよｗ
君が自分からクリスチャンと名乗ったのかどうか経緯は知らないけど、
そうと分かったからには攻撃に対象になるのは仕方ないと諦めるべきだね。
君のように信仰は個人の問題として片付けられるなら世の中平和裡に行きそう
だけど、実際のところ君たちは自分たちの信仰するものを他の人たちにも推し進めようと
しているでしょ。宣教師という存在はそのためのものだよね。
宗教を毛嫌いしている人々にとって穴から出てきたもぐらは叩くのは当然ｗ
オレの個人的な感想だけど宗教を信じている人たちって純粋で真っ直ぐな人たちが多いような
気がする。
でも、その純粋さが時に徒になることにまったく無頓着というか、要するに単細胞な人たちばかりｗ
（オレって来る者拒まずのところがあるからエホバの証人の人たちが家にときどき話をしに来る。）

>>782
then you are doing the just the same thing as what the other did for you
after knowing that you`re gay

That is the most humiliating thing to do expecially if you`re the one
who had been accused. Because we have done nothing wrong but to live with our own thoughts
even if it is not understood by the others

There is no right or wrong. This world is made of like and dislike
It is very childish so people really don`t really talk like this

Although, I really love to talk in the style of like and dislike
because I know that I am not perfect and I really don`t expect too much
from others either

But when I say it in my style, I easily get accused by some numb people,
I cannot tolerate it sometimes being with them. And so I don`t talk much

youは単数と複数と総称の意味があるから見分けるのむずかしいよね

I really have to go to sleep now but I already had slept couple hours

Sometimes, I think I am very cold
Sometimes I am very warm

I am Christian but I really think that morality all depend on the individuals
I am not perfect either

It is much better for me to be alone than being with people
with different values. So I think I am very selfish
I feel so comfortable this way

I have strong dislike to some values
It really makes me feel so fatigued being with those people
I just cannot tolerate

It is okay for me if I see them during work hours but not okay at all
during my private time. I just want to stay away from them asap

>>783

>Because we have done nothing wrong


LOL

today's quote from the bible!

When a man sells his daughter as a slave, she will not be freed at the end of six years as the men are.
If she does not please the man who bought her, he may allow her to be bought back again.
But he is not allowed to sell her to foreigners, since he is the one who broke the contract with her.
And if the slave girl's owner arranges for her to marry his son, he may no longer treat her as a slave girl, but he must treat her as his daughter.
If he himself marries her and then takes another wife, he may not reduce her food or clothing or fail to sleep with her as his wife.
If he fails in any of these three ways, she may leave as a free woman without making any payment.

>>759

middle aged woman大丈夫ですか？
http://headlines.yahoo.co.jp/hl?a=20130704-00000063-jij-soci

>>789
Where have you got that quotes?
I see you really don`t like Christians but would you just
quit that. I really don`t feel comfortable talking with you
about my religion or belief

>>790
OMG! Im fine now but I am using one of those brands...
Am I okay?

You don't talk too much so that you may not get in a confused entaglement with some people.
It's wise of you to avoid entaglement with others. But you should insist with smiling that there is a way to go better than what the other one are going on.

>>784

OMG i didnt know the fact that christians hate fortunetellers too... so scary....

A man or a woman who acts as a medium or fortuneteller shall be put to death by stoning; they have no one but themselves to blame for their death.

>>792
I know I always have a smile on my face in order to avoid unnecessary conflicts
I don`t share my opinions in my real life either
That`s why I don`t like sharing privacy with strangers b/c most of the times
I hear something I don`t want to hear or say something that might hurt others

It is so hard to fit in the society b/c many singles do not like
married women and visa versa

I don`t fit in any catagories so I better say nothing which might
trigger others irritation. That is sensibility, I guess

Men really don`t care about if others are wed or not but
women really do care about it
So happiness just kept inside of me and not to be spoken out

except here

> except here LOL
did you know you are quite funny in a way, middle aded woman?

Just curious did you go to missionary school? Middle age woman?

don`t ask me about something related to my Chrisitianity
you just want to make fun of it
I do not want to discuss NOTHING about my religion with you

You are so mean.....

This is my thread and I thought I was supposed to say something
I would like to say but all you did was a mess
I am telling you million times that there will never be a point
talking about our own belief, especially about the religion, with someone
who do believe in it and someone who doesn`t believe at all

So what is the point asking me about such questions?
I am so tired to talk with you about this topic
I really DO NOT feel comfortable

Good for you!
Think about innocent people who are killed by Christians! They greatly suffered....
Compared to them, your current discomfort is literally nothing!

And you are not only rude but also very arrogant
I am telling this over and over but I personally think
it is not a problem to believe in what you want to believe

But in this thread all you did was to make me so disgusted
Please STOP! I really do not like this manner you have

>>803
There are also people who were saved by reading the Bible
I do not support the religion totally, but I also believe
that there is also a relief in believing God

Now, get out of my thread. You got so many threads that you can
write down all your mess. Actually, all the other threads are
messed up with people like you. Go there and have some fun
That`s your life

Yeah whatever
actually I'm tired today so ill come back tomorrow and post some quotes from the bible again ^^

Fine then I won`t come back here anymore
post anything you want
it`s the " thread for gay who hates Bible"

you said it!
You will never come back here again

>>807
I miss you.
I want you to stay here for good.

>>807
You are my sunshine! You are my everything!
I can't sleep at night without thinking about you!
Shane! Come back!

Shane lol
The middle aged woman is actually a guy?!

Is my undestanding OK?

(It is) [ Amazing ] grace! How sweet the sound
[ That saved a wretch like me ] (was)!
I once was lost, but now am found;
(I) Was blind, but now I see.

(I)’T was grace [ that taught my heart { to fear } ],
And grace my fears relieved;
How precious did that grace appear
The hour [ I first believed ]!

Through many dangers, toils and snares,
I have already come;
(I)’T is (that) grace hath brought me safe thus far,
And grace will lead me home.

The Lord has promised good to me,
His Word my hope secures;
He will my shield and portion be,
[ As long as life endures ].

Yea, [ when this flesh and heart shall fail,
And mortal life shall cease ],
I shall possess, within the veil,
A life of joy and peace.

The earth shall soon dissolve like snow,

The sun forbear to shine;
But God, [ who called me here below ],
Will be forever mine.

[ When we’ve been there ten thousand years,
{ Bright shining as the sun } ],
We’ve no less days [ to sing God’s praise ]
[ Than { when we’d first begun } (we had) ].

Finally the middle aged woman is gone?

>>815
The middle aged man replaced her.

Either ways that's good!
The middle aged whore is officially gone!

Aren't you all middle aged women are you?
Look up at the thread title.

Months of the disaster from the middle age whore has finished....I'm so happy now! YAY

1949 was the year when I was born. Yet I don't remember how I was born.
But I have a startling memory that I came out of a truly narrow place.
After I had a memory, I heard from my father that it took so a long time till I come out of mother's body.
My father told me that I took so a long time to go through the tunnel-like thing of my mother's body.
When my head came out of my mother's body, the head was so long that my father startled.
It's katawa, a retarded person. But in one day, my head came back to normal roundness.

I was so cute when I was born. That`s what my parents used to say
but my granny told me that I totally looked like Kaniya Keizou when
I was born
Anyways, looking back on the album, I think I am so and so perfect
I do not know why I can not have a baby. My sis got some but
they really don`t look like her either but they are still cute
Not like us but still cute

My sis was very serious when she was getting married saying that
if she marries with her handsome bf, babies will be most likely really nice looking
but if she marries a guy (a husband), who propased her, she cannot
expect more about how they look
Well, in conclusion, I pick on them sometimes but every mother
loves their children no matter what

I'm very glad to know that you've come back here.

>>807
＞Fine then I won`t come back here anymore

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

You mean Kanie Keizou?
If so, I'm very disappointed in you.
Imagining a woman who looks like him makes me laugh.

Good Morning!
I was also so disppointed but looking back on my album,
when I was a baby, I look little like him... it is very hilarious

then i should call you Kanye Far East.

I'm reading hyouten now.
I'm going to write the book rerort after I finish reading it.

>>828
I think that`s a perfect book for thinking about sin
People are forgiven but often we are too arrogant that
we have hard time forgiving others as well

We are no Christ, we all have limit, but knowing about
our original sin is much more better than having no idea about it

>>807
＞Fine then I won`t come back here anymore

Ayako Miura was born during WWII and she was a teacher in the elementary school
She wrote on her essay that after Japan was defeated, she suddenly lost all of the confidence
about how she raised children in her classroom. She used to believe so strong that she was teaching
something worthy to her students but after the defeat, every value she trusted collapsed
That`s when she met a Bible

>>807
＞Fine then I won`t come back here anymore

I also found this very interesting story in Japanese traditional book called
"Konjyaku monogatari"
This man became a Buhhist priest after seeing animal tortured and killed
He cried so much and he threw everything away and become a Buhhist priest

Thinking of sorrow that we all cannot get away with

>>807
＞Fine then I won`t come back here anymore

オレってさ、原理的、根本的なところからものを考える癖があるんだよね。
その結果、いつも袋小路に追い込まれてその物語の人のような純粋な気持ちには
とてもなれそうにない自分を見出すことになる。
例えば仏教では殺生を禁じているけど、まず根本的な問題の一つとして一体命とは何ぞや
ということがそのことの前提として考えなければならないとこなんじゃないかと思う訳よ。
べジタリアンという思想の根底にも殺生に対する忌避が窺えるのだけど、じゃあ植物は命を
宿しているものじゃないのか。
その果肉や葉っぱなら彼らの命までは奪わないだろうけど中には根こそぎで命を奪っている
場合もあるはず。
それに人間はとても身勝手で自分たちが愛情を注げる対象の動物の命は考慮する一方、ゴキブリやダニの
命までその範疇に入れない。
生命とは何ぞや。　南方熊楠という人は粘菌の研究を通してその謎に迫ろうとしたと聞く。
粘菌というのはある状態のときはほとんど結晶の塊、つまり全く生命を宿していない物質



会社に行く時間が来たのでオレのモノローグは尻切れトンボ

時々旅行に行った時に息をのむような景色があったり、本当に近くの
植物１つを見てもこれほど完璧で繊細なものはないなって思う事がある
宇宙に惹かれた事もあったけど、地球がものすごく細かいバランスの上に
成り立っている事とか、知れば知るほど調和や緻密さに驚く事がある
数学でもそうじゃない？法則がある事自体がスゴイと思う事がある
ニュートンにしろ、宗教はともかく神様の存在は「いる」と確か言っていたみたいだけど
神様って何を指すのかわからないけれど、私たちの想像ではとても追いつかないような
そういう存在は目には見えないけれどいるような気がするんだよね

ベジタリアンは私も正直胡散臭いと思っているけど、宗教は
自己満足という形にも畏怖という形にもなって現れる事があると思う
その人自身がどのように噛み砕くのかという、そういう解釈の面があると思う
人間も１つの自然だと思う。森や川と何も変わらないのね
昔はよく川で泳いでいたけれど、川の流れに座っていると
音とか水の温度とかトンビの鳴く声とか、川の奥の雑木林の影とか
木漏れ日とか、ヘビとかカエルとか、とにかく言葉には出来ないくらいの怖さと一体感があると思う
最近はコンクリで育っている人が多いからわからない人はわからないんだろうけど

Why do I get so tired after getting so much tan
When I was young, I used to sleep a lot after I have gone to swim
in the river. When we wake up, gramma or the great-aunt were lying
there with us, they swept this fan to send some wind for us and
talked us about some scary stories. Obon is close. There will be
twisting of blue and white lights around the family Buddhist altar
Our nephews will be come here soon and they'll be experiencing the
same things like we used to very very very long time ago

We also go to fish some crayfish and tadpoles
Acutually, children really love to play in the river and fishing
Now I don`t enjoy them a lot but watching them having so much fun there,
makes me remember how we were used to be

Before we go to sleep, grandma had these soda with a marble
We push this marble with our thumb and soda pops out from a crystal bottle
I always put the tongue in it and my tongue got totally stuck into it and
cried so many times doing the same things again and again

>>807
＞Fine then I won`t come back here anymore

自分からもう来ないて言ったくせに、また書き込み始めたのかよ、中年糞ババア

I do not want to talk with you. Stay away from my thread
You gay!

I used to watch VH1`s pop up video. It is very funny
Now I`m watching "California gays pop up video "
I love it!

>>807
＞Fine then I won`t come back here anymore

>>807
＞Fine then I won`t come back here anymore

I know that you have hard time accepting Bible b/c you hate to get
accused of being gay. But here in Japan, if you live in the big cities,
you got so many options. Mine is one of my own decision. So is yours
Don`t mind my business

>>807
＞Fine then I won`t come back here anymore

Why are you so persistent?
It's nothing.
Human beings is a kind of animal which changes their mind easily.
You never? Oh,I see. you are not human.

それって確かエホバの証人の人がくれた小冊子に載っていた逸話と同じだな。
詳細は忘れてしまったけど、緻密なものの背後には設計者がいると考えたほうが合理的
だとニュートンが言ったとか。
最近知って知的好奇心を多いに刺激させられたのはリーマン予想と宇宙を構成している銀河の渦巻き
との関連性。
天才ってほんとすごいよね。
素数の並びに何かの法則性を見出そうと格闘した数学者たちの努力がこの宇宙の成り立ちと関係があったなんて
ほんとロマンを掻き立てる話だった。
神様ってほんといじわるだな。いるならいるって言ってくれればいいのにｗ
オレみたいな偏屈は心が捻じ曲がっているからどうしても素直に受け入れられない。

Have you seen Rainman?
People prefer the average but I think that's what only human thinks
Sometimes, God gives us someone who's very gifted but we just do not
know how to cooperate with them because we don't have no faith in God

>>831
Maybe Ayako Miura was born [ before WWII started ]. She was a second class teacher in the elementary school.
She wrote on her essay [ that { after Japan had been defeated }, she suddenly had lost all of the confidence
about { how she had raised children in her classroom } ]. She used [ to believe so strong { that she was teaching
something worthy to her students, but after the defeat, every value [ she trusted ] collapsed.
That`s [ when she met a Bible ]. But with aids of many Christians especially a college male student who had lived next door was so earnest that he hit his foot with a rock.

I feel quite depressed these days. Before I divorced my husband
my goal was to have a child but after thinking all sort of things,
everything happening around us, I have lost my hope
Well though I got many other things to do in my life, giving the
birth to a child is just the part of life, not all

I think I am stuck in the middle age crisis
People in our own age, especially women, we have got so many decisions to make
This is first time in our history that the women get to choose her own life-style
with her own responsibility. I really do not give credit to this one b/c this thing
is so harsh sometimes
I do not want to used a word, "equality" in this way
Anyways, time is ticking and rather we like it or not, life is just moving on

>>852
you feel quite [ depressed ] these days. Before you divorced your husband,
your goal was [ to have a child ], but after [ thinking all sort of things ],
everything happening around you. you have lost your hope.
[ though you got many other things { to do in your life } ], [ giving the
birth to a child ] is just the part of life, not all. But it is truly something.

>>853
You think [ you are stuck in the middle age crisis ]?
People in your own age, especially women, you have got so many decisions [ to make ]?
This is first time in your history? [ that the women get { to choose her own life-style
with her own responsibility } ]. you really do not give credit to this one b/c.
this thing is so harsh
sometimes you do not want [ to use a word ], "equality" in this way
Anyways, time is ticking and rather we like it or not, life is just moving on.
life doesn't stop. It just moves on.

氏ね、中年糞ババア

>>855
貴様こそ、死にさらせ、チンカス野郎。

For those who have never had a child, I hope that they will feel better.
I don't think they should feel guilty or have a feeling that they lack
something important in life.

In fact, it is my firm belief that childless women are better off
than women with children. You know, among the people who have lived
to be adults, there are some who wish they had never been born.

For one thing, there is no meaning in life. For another thing,
the world is like hell in recent years. Some people certainly feel
that it is better off dead than alive. Most people do think they
should try their utmost to lead a meaningful life as long as they live,
but even such positive-thinking people do not wish to be born again
in an after-life. So, what's the use of giving birth to a child
in the present age?

>>850
"Rain Man"? That's a great movie. Not only the the actors are great
and beautiful, but also the script is so marvelously written that
every single line sounds exactly like music.

Another movie that sounds like music to me is "The Scent of a Woman."
True, the movie is full of slang and obscene expressions, because
most of the words are uttered by the blind, ex-military, depressed and
frustrated middle-aged man played by Al Pacino. But this actor
plays so well and the script so well-written that the whole movie
sounds like melodious music to me.

age

>>859
oh I have never seen "The Scent of a Woman"
Pretty interesting...

I must see John Cusack. I really love him and I really need to see
him every once in a month. He makes my day!
I used to enjoy watching him on romantic movies but it`s so sad that
he doesn`t have that kind of role anymore...all like actions...sigh

My vacation was totally so nice with my relatives, sis, and nephews
We have gone to the country-side and enjoyed the beach, the river, BBQ, pool, and etc

My sis was going out with her friends so most of the times I stayed with my nephews and
I got this strained back. I`m so glad that it didn`t happen in the ocean(^o^)／yeah

Nephews! How could they be soooooo sweet like that
They are so cute and charming!

Kimo

Someone, please make up the original thread of "Chat in English part179".
It remains stopped at part178.

Well, I've made up my mind to keep on using this thread for the time being.
Nise to meet you middle-aged lady !

>>864
× lady
○ bitch

That thread is totally so boring to me sometimes
I really do not like the common sense, I have enough with my real life
It`s kinda nice to see one`s own strong opinion though
I just love it