Just because you don't enjoy crowds does not make you abnormal. Many people don't like being amongst crowds, I know I don't. But I do like going out with my friends sometimes and getting drinks and being noisier than I usually am.
I think only the people who obessively watch tv or play on the internet are made fun of.
>>955 That's an American? In what alternate universe???? Maybe he's wearing his Halloween costume.
In reality, most Americans have dark hair & eyes & we're supposedly getting darker as a nation, as most minority groups are turning into the majority. And how people act depends on what part of the country we're from. Up here in the Northeast, we're considered cold and unfriendly by the rest of the country. I think maybe we're just more reserved than most.
Incidentally, there are LOTS of depressed Americans. Of the most recent list of the 20 best-selling pharmaceuticals in America, 2 are anti-depressants. BTW, Viagra and Cialis didn't even make the list.
I sometimes talk to foreigners when I meet them in my town. When they seem to be lost I tell them how to get to their destination followed by some chitchat.
I usually don't introduce myself but I heard that people from English speaking countries feel restless or awkward when they don't know a person's name and keep conversation going with them. Should I tell them my name in the occasion?
You'd feel awkward or restless when I don't tell my name?
>>962 In America, people sometimes chat with strangers (in a long checkout line, waiting for a train, stuck on a long plane or bus ride). No one would ever give their name in that kind of situation (or they might give only their first name). You'd only introduce yourself to someone you were likely to see again, because you lived in the same town or had kids in the same school or worked at the same place or whatever.
>>964 Thank you. So in those situations, you don't have to introduce yourself. I thought I was being rude and I'd better give my name even in those situations.
Gaijin in Tokyo, the worst kind of waste possible, probably NOVA teachers, vandalized the train and stop the Yamanote line for 20 min for this stupid party. http://jp.youtube.com/watch?v=ENZfAjRZ754
Read this blog entry. This entry is written by a man who participated in the event and he doesn't feel bad at all about their behaviors. All he does is just justify the party.
JR should demand compensation from those white trashes. Japanese Train system is renowned for its punctuality. They destroyed it. I wanna summon my comrades and fight off those dispicable creatures.
It's usual that people who disturbed train schedule is due to compensate. People who do suicide dive have to pay somehow. Even dead man does the duty. Why can't white trash?
Just seems like yet another example of foreigners trying to force their culture on another. Over here, there's no way that could happen. I'm sure a lot of people would find such a situation very uncomfortable, as well as disruptive, and the damage, littering and inconvenience would add up to extra time, effort and money needed to clean it up. I'm sure a few of those people would be breaking more laws, by passing around alcohol and cigarettes, probably some underage people there too.
I'm just surprised that security at stations and on the train itself isn't tighter.
>>969 That is the lamest thing I've ever read. It's a shame that the moron doesn't realize they are spreading the totally misleading concept of Halloween to people in Tokyo as well as giving Gaijin a bad name. I agree that it could attract those who love to get wasted for whatever reason, though. A multi-national/multi-cultural event? I don't know about that...
>>973 Is it the case costume players play havoc(drinking and singing) in train and even wreck train schdule on the day of Haloween? I might as well ask 米人 though.
I don't think and don't wanna think that's the american or european manner. I think they downplay japanese because japanese are meek, especially to apaprently (big) so-called white guys.
It's time for biker gangs(暴走族) and yankee to act! They don't act when there is a cause... They bully the inferior and fight more big guy... shame, coward.
>>973 Imagine Indian or Pakistan people start curry party on Tube. lol
>>974 I find the blog entry disgusting. I read on daily basis the blog itself to which some foreigners contribute. I knew from posts in 2ch that lots of foreigners threw Haloween party on train in Yamanote line, but didn't expect to read the very post by a man who actually participated in the party. He should behave himself.
I think the reason why Americans may seem happy to you folks in Japan is because the Americans are happy to be traveling Japan and not working! There are plenty of people who don't like to celebrate Halloween, usually they just go to work as usual, or turn of the lights in their home, so children won't come to their door asking for candy.
I really really hate seeing people disrespecting others in their own country. =__= What, do they think being drunk is an excuse to be an idiot? Then don't drink in public!
I know that eventually, If I want to properly learn Japanese I'll have to be in Japan for a couple of years, but I don't know how I'll be treated in the society. Probably people won't really care that I'm there, right? But I feel that I'd like to randomly talk with people (like I do here). Would that be recieved well by the Japanese? xD I'm not too worried about racism. While in japan I was refused service a few times, but I figured that it was only because they don't want to bother with speaking English. If I spoke to them entirely in Japanese, do you think they would acept me more? Sorry for all the quesstions! >_<
>>975 Hallowe'en is definitely not celebrated as much (or so much in that way) over here, compared to the USA. We do get a few children coming to the door asking for treats, but not many. Tonight, there were only about 7 kids.
It's still mainly a religious festival in the UK, celebrating the evening before the Christian "All Saints' Day" - the Eve of All Hallows (Holy), which is where the name comes from, rather than celebrating a night where monsters and the dead walk the streets again.
Of course, the Christian festival was placed over an older festival, celebrated on the night of 'Samhain', which was the beginning of the new year to the native people of Britain and Ireland. It was also a time when the dead were remembered, which is why Hallowe'en is associated with such ideas. Some of us still celebrate it as Samhain, rather than Hallowe'en.
>>977 That is a fantastic idea! I'll mention it to some Indian people I know and see what they say...
Well, I watched the video and read the blog and it looks like they're a bunch of drunken idiots. What they did was stupid and wrong. Unfortunately, Halloween, which used to be mostly a celebration for little kids, has in some places metastasized into a annoying and even dangerous event. I heard on the radio that Long Beach, CA isn't celebrating Halloween this year after last year a group of teens beat up 3 girls so badly they were hospitalized with serious injuries. And mostly back in the '80's, the night before Halloween was known as "Hell Night", and poorer cities like Detroit would have numerous cases of arson. Of course, the police have cracked down on that practice. In lesser crimes, ever since I was a kid, teenagers have decorated trees with toilet paper and thrown raw eggs and sprayed shaving cream on people's cars and houses. That's the ugly side of Halloween.
>>978 I think you are worried too much about how you'll be treated here. Judging from your posts in the past, you know a lot about Japanese culture and customs and that's great. I know you respect other cultures and I think you'll try to adopt to it.
>But I feel that I'd like to randomly talk with people (like I do here). Would that be recieved well by the Japanese? xD
If you talk to them in English, they might be kind of bewildred. Many Japanese are not good at talking in English, and they'd feel ashamed because they aren't able to talk with you in English so they might avoid being talked in English. But if you talk to them in Japanese, at least they don't ignore you.
Still, we aren't accustomed to talk to total strangers but as long as your attitude is friendly,(and I know yours is friendly) we accept your habit of talking to a stranger randomly. You are understood as a person who are friendly. That's all. As for details of communication style's differences, you'll learn and adopt to Japanese style, I'm sure.
Do kids visit houses asking for candies at random? As long as lights in a house is turned on, they visit the house? Or the route they take and houses to visit are desided in advance before trick-or-treating?
>>983 Kids usually go with their parents or older brother or sister. They mostly go visit houses in neighborhoods with lots of other kids. You would only go to houses that had lights and decorations. The route isn't decided, but which neighborhood you go to would be decided in advance. Hardly anyone comes to our house because we have a busy street and no sidewalks.
>>983 When I lived in Germany, the North American communities used to have massive trays and boxes of sweets outside the door, taking shifts between family members to hand things out. It was made very clear who welcomed trick-or-treaters, and who didn't.
It's not so clear here in England though. Some people might have a pumpkin by the footpath outside their house, but most don't. It's just luck if they come across a house that's welcoming, but usually they try just the houses on their block, or maybe a couple blocks.
>>984 I see. So people/person who live in a house know in advance kids'll visit their house or not? I wonder what happens if they didn't expect kids to come to their house and hadn't prepared for candies to give kids but kids come asking for candies. That never happens?
>>985 Ah, I see. It's obvious which houses welcome kids or not in case of North American communities you observed. In case of Halloween in UK, it's not so obvious. I see.
>>987 It does happen. Often to college students living in apartments who aren't aware of the kids in their neighborhoods. Then you just say you're sorry and try to remember to have some candy around next year. But in most cases, the kids have so much candy anyways, it doesn't matter. Tonight my two were out for about 2 hours and came home with 2-3 pounds of candy each. And I'm going to have to be in the house alone with that massive pile of candy during the day! It's really difficult for me and my chocolate addiction this time of year...
One person tonight was handing out fortune cookies. I wonder if they had been saving them from all of the Chinese take out they had been eating all year. Needless to say, the kids gave me their fortune cookies and the boxes of raisins.
Argh. Annoying kids across the street are keeping me up. I should take a bat to that noisy lady's head.
Ah, whatever. Halloween is not something I look forward to. Here in the South, it's either too hot or too muggy on Halloween. Plus my house has gotten pumpkin'd a few times. Damn kids.
>>982 Thanks for a nice long reply! I'm glad that for the most part people won't think I'm annoying. x]
>>989 Yes, that's whats I meant. And thanks! I hope I'll make lots of friends. But they'll have to put up with my bad karaoke. xD
>>995 Haha, I always liked it when I was a kid and got strange treats from neighbors.
>>996 Yeah, tommarow one of my nicely carved pumpkins will probably be thrown into the street. I guess I don't mind too much. But if my car is egged.... >:C
The conversation among native speakers has a lot of phrases whose meaning I don't know. So I always have to consult them with my dictionaries. Still, sometimes even a dictionary doesn't carry some of them. In such cases I really get frustrated. By the way,誰かエロイ人、my car is egged ってどういう意味か教えてチョンマゲ!