Emotion Self-Responsibility Theory

Emotions ,the complaints or dissatisfaction, etc. are perfectly caused by the fixed ideas of the person who feels them. The stronger attaching to the fixed ideas, the stronger they become.
Fixed ideas are, in other words,the individual's clinging idea, bias, stereotype, subjectivity, criterion, preconception, outlook on the world, discernment, creed, thought, philosophy, ideology, principles, pattern of thinking, conviction,
and the sense of values such as "This is correct" and "Thus, it should be", etc.,that he unconsciously fixates in his mind.
Laughter, impression, and astonishment are caused by the stereotype, too. But the corporal pleasure by feeding, sexual intercourse, etc. and the spinal reflex are out of the questions because the fixed ideas don't act by them directly.
Both an infant with an undeveloped ego and an inherent brain injury are also out of the questions because of the same reason.

Everything has no meaning from the first. It is only occured.
The meaning and value are caused only after the definition given by each individual aspects and viewpoints of the person who saw them.
Information in various forms are originally mere light and shade or the aerial vibration, etc.
This sentence you are reading now are just black and white patterns on a paper.
You decipher it with a common key of English through a peculiar filter and the biased viewpoint that you have now, and judge the meaning.

It is completely free of the reader to how to analyse and adapt the information .
The responsibility to the result belong to the reader even if the ideas and opinions were obtained from someone and receives it because it is chosen by intention without compulsion by someone else
For instance, even if you remember how much resenting ,it is a result of your interpretation with your criteria and standard to the last, so that the server of the information has no "cause and responsibility to your resentment"
"Compulsion" mentioned here is in a case that including an immediate, physical harm reaches the body.
The violent language and the slander are not "Compulsion" at all, except for a big noise. Though a threatening letter , having fear is a selfish effect, and a consequence of reader's deeds.

In short,every person can not (on the net or the TV, etc.) accuse someoneelse for his feelings.
The act of the persons who don't notice this "Fight" each other as the mirror mutually and showing contradiction.
Even if you feel repulsion for someone, the cause is always not him but "Your stereotype and definition" .It doesn't make any excuse for bullying and its retaliation caused by sauciness and disgust, etc..

To begin with,what you see, what impression you hold, and how to feel it, are individual freedoms.
If you give the limitation (For instance, when you press your idea) to someone, immediately you feel the inconvenience (irritation etc.)(If you judge, you are judged)
This is a mechanism of this space "You receive what you gave" (Action reaction as said by physics ,or Karma as said by Buddhism).

↑誰か日本語に訳してくり

Vice versa,even if you make someone angry or sorry,there is no necessity that you feel regret and remorse, because his feelings are caused by his ideas and the basis of value of independence

Even if someone tries to make you feel the guilt and inferiority, there is no necessity to afflict youself with the self-dislike in any way because of the above-mentioned.
(Of course,this is not a thing that you can make trouble or may not reflect, correct,improve it even if you fail. )

It should not be unexpressed even though the feelings are self-responsibility. Feelings are the way of expression oneself and the chance of inform oneself to others,so it should be expressed on the instance positively.
In fact,the person who suppress the feeling tends to explode it,and the person who doesn't want to have responsibility in his feelings wants to limit the others freedom of expression.(not to get wound)

Though many of self-styled intellects are not conscious, "Criticizing" is the evidence that he has only halfway knowledge for the object (Ignorance of ignorance).
This is a reason why the criticism become only a temporary, superficial solutions, and it is concealed more and more.
In fact, "Criticizing" makes the problem more difficult.

Not only feelings but also everything you experience in the life(external world) is the "Mirror" that projects "What kind of fixed ideas you have (internal world)".
Therefore, an emotional criticism is an entire self-contradiction in any case.
For instance,the person who criticizes the criminal of cruel villainy, as like "It is unbelievable that there is such inconsiderate man" etc., does not considerate the criminal's standpoint sympathized.
Similarly, the hypocrite who wants to come into discriminated question has a deep-rooted discrimination mind.
If it is compatible internally, contradiction cannot be seen outside.

crap

The person experiences perfectly as same as the definition what he gave.
If he defined "The life does not necessarily become real according to the desire", exactly he experienced "the life that doesn't necessarily become real according to the desire".

Therefore, when you meet the experience that you don't want to repeat, it's good to think "What kind of stereotypes show this experience?" or "Are the stereotypes worth devoting?"
If you change the fixed ideas that causes the experiences, you will never go through the similar experience again(if not, you must go through them again.)
Ideas occur ahead of experiences,including the idea "Experiences occur ahead of ideas". A present stereotype of the person always defines his past and his environment.

The ideas are made an embodiment in not only the individual but also the group and the society.
The idea that the entire group is holding becomes reality and appears as an event that happens in the group.
For instance, the poverty is the one that "Fear to hunger" that people have, and the crime actualize "Fear of the loss of the self-existence" .

Everything is done to be inevitable, and to happen and has happened.
Coincidence, miracle, fate misfortune, contradiction, irrationality, unjustness, irrationality, etc., are only the concept that used as an excuse for the person who can't
understand (explanation) the cause and effect and the necessity of the phenomenon and things.
"Darkness" doesn't exist similarly. It is only "the limit of the perception ability. " "Objectivity" doesn't exist similarly neither. It is only the "Shared subjectivity"
The truth exist in as many as there are people. "The truth is only one" is mere one of the truth.
Therefore, everytime everywhere,the person who is related to "Only one truth" experiences the contradiction through the fight.

Above all are the result of the arbitrary decision that concluded from the narrow view, the prejudice ,and a mere personal subjectivity that was able to be known during his short lifetime.
Anyway,you experience as you believe.

The End//thank　you　for　reading

What's your point?

point? "your fixed ideas become real"

はじめまして横浜のレベル3です。keiko_nagai at 20:45
でも、OVAに行って、ちらりとレッスンブースを覗いたら、知ってる生徒さんの姿が見えた。講師は見えなかったけど、そっちの方向から天敵講師が出てくるのが見えた。
もしかしたら、取らなくて正解だったのかも（＾ｏ＾）
で、どうしてこういう事になったかというと・・・
午前中にお医者さんに行ってました。
OVAに間に合う時間は過ぎていった。私の次の人の診察が終わると、看護婦さんが出てきて、私の方に向かってくる。
「たくさんお水を飲んで、トイレにたくさん行くようにしてくださいね（＾＾）」
はぁ・・・。なんで急にそんなことを言われたんだろ？　尿検査の結果で何か出たかな？　膀胱炎の気でもあるのかな？
そしたら、会計に呼んでもらえました。要するに先生からの一言を伝えたいがために、それも↑を、私は１レッスンを棒に振ったのでした（爆）
ま、英語だったしー、やる気なかったしー。講師が＊＊だったかもしれないしー。全然後悔していないのでした。
それからOICEに出て、お茶しながらドイツ語やって、買い物に行ったりして・・・
「あれ？　今日の夜って・・・」
そう、NOWの練習でした（爆）　あーん、気が付いた時は既に遅し！　今週は特別に週２回あるのですが、明日の練習が場所が決まっていなかったりしてバタバタしていたので、今日の分をすっかり忘れていたのでした（涙）
ということで、私にしては珍しく、狂いまくりの１日でしたとさ。

要するにチンポ。

＝＝＝＝　終了。　＝＝＝＝

>>1
So are you radical enough to break them?

>>12

them?

お前ら全員うんこ。

＝＝＝＝　終了。　＝＝＝＝

今日、９階の１１番か１２番の部屋で、筆箱を忘れた人、受付に届けておきましたよー。中には電子辞書も入ってましたよー。
該当者がこれを読んでいたらすごいな。
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2006年06月10日

>>11,14

ho-ho-ho

up

日本語訳よろ

http://academy4.2ch.net/test/read.cgi/psycho/1135930869/3

独我論もそうだけど、こういう「すべて観念論」者は
相手にしないほうがいいよ

ｗｈｙ？

shuuryou

しゅうりょう

It's not over till it's over.

It's over now.

dream,it's over

うるせーよオメーら。ウンコこそ正しい。

そのとおり！！！！

Hey now, hey now

dont dream , its over

adve

とだいいっすんだｙ

とだいすもんだｙ

とだいｓつえｓだｙ

とだいｓうぇｄねｓだｙ

とだいｓてゅｒｓだｙ

とだいｓｆりだｙ

どだいｎザｋだ

とだいっすんだｙ

とだいｓみぃｒｔｈだｙ

あれようじゃぱねせ？

いぇしあｍ

あれようちねせ？

英検2級レベルの英語力で訳してみようかな。。
暇だし。。

感情、個人的責任理論

感情、つまり、不平不満やらその類の事柄は、人々が感じた個人的な固定観念から完全に引き起こされる。
強者は固定観念に縛られている。強者はそうなるのだ。
固定観念とは言い換えると、個人の固執的な考えであり、先入観、既成概念、主観、尺度、偏見である。
世界的に見れば、識別力、信条、考え、原理、イデオロギー、原則、考え方の様式、確信であり、
そして、価値観、これは正しい。とかそのような類の物が当て嵌まる。故に｢それはするべきである｣とか
つまり無意識に自分の考えを見つめているだけなのである。笑い声、印象、そして驚き、それらもまた、既成概念から引き起こされるのである。
しかしながら、性的な関係、交わり等から身体的な喜びは与えられているのである。
そして、そのような脊髄反射は問題外なのである。なぜなら、それらは固定観念的行動ではなく、直接的な反射だからである。
どちらの事柄も、乳児の如く、未発達な自我であり、生来の知能を傷つけることになる。これもまた同じ理由で問題外だ。
全ての事柄は初めから意味を持たない。それは単に生じただけなのだ。
意味やら価値というのは、各々の個人的な状況やら観点であり、とある人達自身が見た事を、定義づけした後の事なだけに過ぎない。
様々な様式の情報とは元々、単なる光や影、空気振動の類である。
現在、貴方はこの文に於いて、丁度、この紙に書いてある白と黒の手本を読んでいる。
英語の独特なフィルターである、共通の手がかりを用い、判読してみるがいい。
そして、あなたは現在、先入観的な観点を有している。そして、意味を判断してみなさい。

途中まで訳してみました。誰か添削をw

read　　>>19

糞スレである

そうである

Eeeeeeh. Sounds like you're using big words on purpose. I'm a native speaker and I could hardly stay interested. What a profound tpoic

You like psychology?

yes,i like psychology　　　Is it that difficult?
I translated English from Japanese with translating application software at first
and get my friend (native) to correct sentences

まれに見る糞スレである

そうである

ｗへにふぃんｄｍｙせｌふぃんちめそｆｔろうｂぇ

うんこ

二人しか居ない友達の◎毛をさらす、実名ブロガー
3. Posted by 月うさぎ 2006年07月13日 19:52
150cm以下専用車じゃ私、ぎりぎり乗れないので、、、
１５５ｃｍ以下専用車がいいな　＾＾
息できないときあるしぃ〜
お姉さん！！あなたのぱさぱさの毛先が私のかわいいお顔に・・・
いろいろあるよねぇ
4. Posted by ながい 2006年07月13日 22:29
・・・一言多いなあ（＾＾；）
まあ、勘弁してあげよう。コメント削除しようかと思ったけど。
あなたのぱさぱさの毛先が、月うさちゃんのかわいい鼻毛とランデブー。

うんこー＼（・0・）／

>>50, Hm, yes, It's a bit difficult. There are very complex words.

But it is an interesting topic. n_n

At birth, people are told what is right and what is wrong, but I think in some cases it can go deeper than that.
If a person was taught all their life that treating another type of person was bad, eventually one person would realize in their heart that this way of thinking is wrong.
At least that is what I believe.

ウンコスレ

>>57

that's how fixed ideas. to be formed

Zidane head-butted a person ,but his anger is caused by his fixed ideas ,not by a person who uses offensive language AT ALL

Because it's himself who interpret even what word it is

right?

とだいしょｔ

てぇえんどｆてぇをｒｌｄ

todayshot
theendoftheworld

ようあれりｇｈｔ

ｗへにふぃんどｍｙせｌふぃんちめそｆｔろうｂぇ

We are against you.

ｃぉせようれいぇさんぢきっしょう

hello

darkness

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1. Posted by akubichan_Kl 2006年08月02日 22:54
いやぁ、こちらで詳細が描写されていると、とても◎◎◎さが伝わってきます。
お仕事はこういう◎◎と隣り合わせなんですね。ん見ゃー　チュ
いやぁ、そうです（@_@)
2. Posted by purueri3003 2006年08月03日 21:44
読んでいるだけでかゆいです。お気をつけ下さい。
3. Posted by ながい 2006年08月03日 22:00
すぐに気が緩むのが私の悪い癖です。
◎◎◎に至らなかったからよかったものの、、、
これから気をつけます。チューー
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